We all have a few of them in our lives: frenemies. They’re the people we kinda have to be nice to but don’t really like. And if we follow Jesus then it’s even more complicated because we’re supposed to love them. But it’s their fault, right? They’re dishonest. They’re selfish. They’re gossipy. If only they’d change, we might take the enemy out of frenemy and just be friends. That would be fair thinking, but what if they don’t change? Then what? You might have to.