On Ep. 52 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how to avoid someone falling in love with the idea of you versus you for who you are. If you're on the other side of this and keep falling for potential, listen up for familiar patterns. Remember the 5 love languages? Well, the two review them again and how they can be problematic in the beginning stages of dating. They end the episode giving advice on where to meet men in person nowadays.

00:00 Updates

06:40 Falling for the idea of someone

18:50 Love languages to avoid

29:50 Being unable to open up

54:10 How to meet a man off apps

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