This talk was incidental and unplanned. Initially, my intention was just to sing into my digital recorder, one of my favorite songs. It began the song "The love inside" by my favorite singer, Barbara Streisand. That last note of "loving Me" left me haunting and wanting and became a meaningful precursor to this talk. Thoughts from an earlier interaction floated into my consciousness, and I began to speak. This became a natural outgrowth from an earlier encounter with a younger and sorrowful individual.