Lowered Expectations

This week, I'm joined by a new friend of mine Devi Ward. You may know her from Sex is Medicine, her podcast on using sex as a tool to heal your soul. In this episode, we go deep into talking about what the soul needs to be satisfied. The answer may surprise you. Hint: It doesn't come from a store.

This week, I'm joined by Alicia Beth HIV, sex educator and former host of Raw Sex Radio. In this episode, the bulk of our chat focuses on lichen sclerosis, an autoimmune disease that attacks the genital tissue. We also venture into dating with this disease and similar ones that affect one's sexuality physically, as well as tips for partners of those affected. Support Behind Closed Doors: Patreon.com/KeepItSexy

Exploring body image, confidence and why it's ok to feel "meh" about your partner. Bubby and I love each other and have great sex. Yet, I'm ambivalent about his looks overall. We explore what this means for us and in general.

Pleasure is a tricky bitch. In this episode of Behind Closed Doors, we explore what it means to give and receive pleasure. Our guest, Garland Jarmon of Spiritual Eros shares his expertise on the topic and even helps me learn to open myself to the joy.

Support LTASEX on www.Patreon.com/keepitsexy Bubby was recently hospitalized after a suicide attempt and a major freakout. Dealing with that has been more stressful than I imagined it would be. Here's how we worked our way through it.

This episode marks a turning point for Behind Closed Doors. I address this in the intro then we transition in to discussing what it means to sacrifice for your partner, remembering to enjoy the good times and what mature love really feels like.

Even when poly relationships start off smoothly, they can get off course quickly. Bubby's new partner is already causing trouble, so we talk about what to do.

I'm always happy to welcome new lovers to the family. Bubby recently got a new partner and it's going pretty well

Once the storm is over, it's important to get back to normal. Having fun is super important to maintaining long, strong relations.

Life with Bubby and his borderline personality disorder is often very tough. Even still, our relationship is strong and devoted, even if we forget sometimes.