Love Thy Neighbor Show

LTN 18 - LIVE at The Cost of Quiet Launch


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  • Introduction to Love Thy Neighbor without Colette present

  • Colette book The Cost of Quiet hits Amazon bestseller

  • Audio from live launch at Mercedes-Benz of Maitland

  • Professional production and full event program

  • Feeling like misfits among polished attendees

  • Jokes about BDM prize skunks chasing perks

  • Being treated like novelty personalities at upscale events

  • Riffs about fans spouses and addiction jokes

  • Praise for Colette and continued collaboration

  • Audiobook read by Colette and love of author narration

  • Joke about alternate narrator

  • Invite anonymous listener emails

  • Colette gratitude to attendees and sponsors

  • Book inspired by difficult first marriage and divorce

  • Owning personal responsibility in conflicts

  • Conflict avoidance as core relationship issue

  • Quiet means avoiding hard talks not silence

  • Fear of rejection driving suppressed communication

  • Conflict framed as path to deeper connection

  • Roadmap for regulation self awareness communication

  • Self advocacy and empowered expression

  • Writing easier than modern book marketing

  • Growth through public speaking TEDx and new podcast

  • Over 1000 books sold with traditional deal

  • Push for presales and launch week visibility

  • Sales about impact not profit

  • Lessons made accessible and actionable

  • Applies to personal and professional relationships

  • Insights from the Couch podcast for midlife women

  • Laura Bowman therapy focus on anxiety and midlife

  • Menopause and perimenopause gaining attention

  • Quiet quitting long term relationships

  • Gen X women juggling careers parenting burnout

  • Financial independence enabling divorce

  • Women seeking deeper emotional engagement

  • Emotional vulnerability key to saving relationships

  • Rise of gray divorce led by women

  • Self connected communication and inner mentoring

  • Individual therapy healing underdeveloped parts

  • Relationship with self as foundation

  • Former office neighbors before podcast connection

  • Humor bridging therapy and loud podcast world

  • Love Thy Neighbor launched after guest spots

  • Natural chemistry and balanced dynamic

  • Humor engaging men in relationship talks

  • Silent treatment and withdrawal as male patterns

  • Work pressure limiting presence at home

  • Traditional masculinity blocking vulnerability

  • Tough guy persona tied to loneliness

  • Regulate emotions not suppress or explode

  • Podcast as informal therapy and growth space

  • Praise for Colette work ethic and mission

  • Charlotte McCullough licensed marriage therapist

  • Media appearances on local news and TV shows

  • Loneliness crisis inside and outside marriage

  • Marriage cannot meet every emotional need

  • Reciprocal friendships matter more than quantity

  • Deep bonds over shallow surface contact

  • Technology eroding in person community

  • Men often lacking close friendships

  • Balance togetherness autonomy and alone time

  • Build friendships through small daily connections

  • Schedule friendship time including Zoom hangouts

  • Time limited prioritize loved ones

  • Keisha Scott behavioral health and podcasting

  • Guardian Recovery adolescent program

  • Teen brain development and weak prefrontal cortex

  • Social media nonstop comparison pressure

  • Parenting pendulum from harsh to gentle toward balance

  • Over parenting causing failure to launch

  • Cost of quiet applied to parenting

  • Avoiding discipline breeds resentment and risk

  • Create safe space with real consequences

  • Small communication tweaks transform parent teen bonds

  • Teach expression alongside resilience

  • Raise grit in a comfort driven world

  • Teen mental health crucial for future wellbeing

  • Initiate vulnerable honest conversations

  • Difficult talks framed as care

  • Change patterns by showing up differently

  • Send safe signals to invite warmth

  • Closing gratitude and call to apply lessons

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Love Thy Neighbor ShowBy Tom Vann, Dan Dennis, and Colette Fehr