• Introduction of “Love Thy Neighbor” with therapist Colette Fehr • Welcome new listeners and mention high podcast ranking • Hosts called “teenage boys” for humor and immaturity • Men maintaining adolescent humor • Humor as coping mechanism and healthy outlet • Colette’s husband’s immature fraternity text thread • Male vs. female friendship communication • Women maturing faster than men • Relationship strain from maturity gaps • Midlife women feeling disconnected • “Six second kiss” relationship exercise • Dan performing kiss with his wife before daughter • Oxytocin and affection modeling for kids • Teaching children healthy relationship behavior • Transition to jealousy in relationships • Reddit story: man jealous of wife’s galas with rich colleague • Wife transparent, husband insecure • Managing jealousy through communication • Jealousy triggered by wealth and attraction • Husband allows outing with boundaries and tracking • Clarifying jealousy vs. envy • Jealousy as natural nervous-system response • Some view mild jealousy as caring • Distinction between jealousy and control • Trust and openness as antidotes • Example of coworker emotional boundary issue • Playful jealousy as reassurance • Jealousy not proof of love • Personality and trauma shape jealousy • Irrational jealousy from dreams or imagination • Dismissing partners as “crazy” worsens conflict • Therapy reframing jealousy • Men’s distrust of other men’s motives • Debate on male-female platonic friendship • Communicating boundaries early • Cheating history affecting trust • Accepting jealousy without control • Listener email about couples without shared language • Curiosity about cross-language relationships • Soldiers marrying foreign partners • Nonverbal connection through emotion • Fewer words simplifying communication • Arranged marriages lasting longer • Debate: compatibility vs. effort • Religious and cultural pressure to stay married • Idea of renewing marriage licenses every five years • Humor about forgetting to renew • Renewal promoting effort and reflection • Native American flexible marriage traditions • Balancing commitment with self-respect • Therapy helping decisions to stay or leave • More men entering therapy • Workplace friendships and power dynamics • Ethical issues in boss-employee relationships • Difficulty setting workplace boundaries • Hard to assert yourself to a boss • Toxic workplace mirroring romantic issues • Balancing kindness and accountability • Discomfort addressing workplace problems • Need for professionalism and emotional awareness • Tracy’s Halloween gift baskets as light humor • Emotion and business intertwined • Aggressive vs. empathetic attorney marketing • Personality differences shaping response • Colette’s “Insights from the Couch” podcast • Upcoming book The Cost of Quiet • Contact through LoveThyNeighborShow.com and voicemail • Closing remarks and tease for next episode

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