Unhealthy attachment is common between both NPDs & their victims. How this plays out, different attachment styles & subsequent abuse of discards & hoovering, is explained in this pod. At the end is a little about my No Contact Coaching & Emergency Service. #NoContact #Narcissists #NarcissisticAbuse #DomesticAbuse #ChildHood #AttachmentTheory

A long one! But sadly proof of how much sexual abuse & betrayal trauma we suffer via a Somatic Narcissist / Casanova Psychopath. #Narcissists #Psychopaths #SexualAbuse

Lessons in life are what make No Contact Coaching powerful.

Narcs use Deflection, projection etc in their shame avoidant blame shifting. We all know that. But what other discreet methods do they use to step out of the Accountability Circle? And Why does it happen? **update** Stalker2 has listened to this twice, shared it with flying monkeys and it's set her off to create YET ANOTHER FAKE TWITTER ACCOUNT @ElldubyaH pls report***

When your life "blows up" with multiple attacks like this, track back to when it inflamed. What did or did not happen that day? That's the reason you are being attacked. Revel in knowing your haters are unhappy about it. You had a minor win that day after all.

We have no idea why the Narc seems to know HOW to "love" & hate us? How do they know all the buttons to push? Well, because we (& the other victims) have taught the Narc everything he/she knows in Narcissistic Personality Disorder Abuse

Will my Narc have changed? He seems in love & she seems happy. #Narcissists

***Updarte; the victims are back using their fake accs 2 on Quora. 2 on twitter all since Friday. Jk made a lot of victims & some want to stay that way *** Yes, Just because an abuser won't take their share of blame, an Imperfect victim or someone who reacted to abuse, shouldn't be piled with 100% blame. Blame is not a yucky drink to be passed over to one poor targeted sod. Everyone involved should take a swig!

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Most victims of NPDs have some codependency in their make up. But NPDs will agitate the CoDep into being a malignant codep in extreme cases.

Be empowered to share what has happened/is happening to you. But don't make any reckless mistakes or end up accused of being a stalker or abuser. Hopefully this podcast helps a good few of you.