PART ONE: What We Can Learn from Paul's LifeACTS 20:17-211. "humility and tears"=BROKENESS...but not resignation...2. In the face of "severe testing," Paul doesn't GIVE UP. It's the challenge of giving in but not giving up. It's the counterintuitive power of the cross.2 CORINTHIANS 12:10Why Paul? How can you say this? Because the more you don't trust YOURSELF, the more you trust GOD, the STRONGER you are!3. "anything that would be helpful"...not HAPPY-FUL. Not everything that's helpful will make you happy. Sometimes what is helpful is hurtful. But often we need people in our lives who will tell us what we need to hear, not what we want to hear.HEBREWS 12:114. "repentence and faith"...back to BROKENESS and TRUST. To me, this is the simplicity of--and the biggest challenge--of following Jesus.5. Paul's life is not ruled by UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS.ACTS 20:22-23Paul's life is not ruled by unrealisistic expectations, because he has ETERNAL expectations. His life is totally grounded in his relationship with God, and that gives him a great sense of peace no matter what happens. His relationship to God drives him, compels him to complete the task.ACTS 20:24PART 2: What Paul Teaches Leaders--and You and Me1. Being safe and happy isn't a bad thing, but it's better to be COURAGEOUS.ACTS 20:252. We need the whole counsel of God, not just bits and pieces, fragments, proof texts and sound bites. To me, this is how important it is to see the BIG PICTURE of God and life.ACTS 20:26-27 and 1 John 2:143. You can't help others if your life isn't together. So in a certain sort of way, life really is all about you!ACTS 20:28So why is it all about you? Because God wants your life to be full of love for the people around for whom Jesus gave everything. Jesus didn't just die for you, he died for them.ACTS 20:29-314. You can love people, but you can't fix them. You can't change the. But under the Lordship of Jesus, you can change. You can't change the future either, but we know that God's GRACE will always be sufficient.ACTS 20:325. As hard as it is, giving money is easy compared to giving your life for others. But this is why Jesus came, and it's why you are saved, why you are here. It is more blessed to GIVE than to RECEIVE.ACTS 20:35-38