Show Notes
Today's message is about being undervalued by those around us and treated as an afterthought. When looking at the story of King David we can see how it is important to take God's view of our lives instead of giving weight to what others think.
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Show Transcript
Welcome to the Made for Great Podcast
My name is Annena G., I am your host and it is my pleasure to be with you.
This is Episode 5 – And today’s message is – King David was an afterthought. And we will explore how God sees us differently than man sees us and why taking God’s view is healthier for our self-image.
There has been times in my life when I have taken offense to being what I call an afterthought.
An afterthought is the girl that gets asked to be a bridesmaid in her cousin’s wedding only after her mother gave the bride a guilt trip.
An afterthought is the kid that made the baseball team only because the “preferred” player broke his ankle.
An afterthought is being asked out on a date to a special event with a guy you like, only to later find out that the woman that he really wanted to go out with was unavailable.
When you are an afterthought, you are not the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd choice – but an “accidental” choice.
I personally had an “afterthought experience” while at a get together at a friend’s house. I was mingling around and happened to walk in the kitchen where a group of friends where gathered discussing plans for an upcoming excursion. From the conversation, you could tell they were excited as they were hashing out the details of the get-away.
I was a few feet away grabbing some food when one of the group noticed me standing there, we made eye contact, there was an awkward pause and then she said “Oh Annena, you can come to IF YOU WANT.”
With a fake smile on my face, I promptly declined, and told her that it was that it was ok, before exiting the room.
When walking out, I was thinking – “I am no-one’s afterthought!” Honestly, I was offended, I felt rejected, a little insecure and not valued by these so-called friends. What was wrong with me? We were all the same age range, we were friends, and they surely knew how to call me when they needed help with something, but I was not invited.
I was an afterthought and it didn’t feel cool.
Then one day in church I heard a minister say something that blew my mind. He said - “King David was an afterthought.” That statement got my attention quick. I was like “whoa,” because King David was one of the greatest kings in history, how could he be an afterthought?
So naturally, even though I had read the story of King David several times before and was very familiar with it, I needed to read it again with fresh eyes.
The story is in the book of 1 Samuel, in Chapter 16 and I want to read a little bit for you now – in this section God sends the prophet Samuel to Bethlehem to anoint one of Jesse’s sons to be King of Israel. Starting on verse 4 it says-
4 So Samuel did what the Lordsaid, and came to Bethlehem. And the elders of the city came trembling to meet him and said, “Do you come in peace?” 5 And he said, “In peace; I have come to sacrifice to the Lord. Consecrate yourselves and come with me to the sacrifice.” He also consecrated Jesse and his sons and invited them to the sacrifice.
6 So it happened, when they had come, he looked at Eliab [the eldest son] and thought, “Surely the Lord’sanointed is before Him.” 7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees; for man loo...