In this episode of Made Possible by Parenthood, Lindsay and Charlie dive into one of the most universally felt emotions in parenting—guilt. But rather than accepting guilt as an inevitable weight of parenthood, they explore whether it might actually be pointing us toward something deeper.

Through personal stories, reflection, and a surprising perspective from the Dalai Lama, they unpack:

• Why guilt and parenthood have become inseparable in modern culture.

• The difference between guilt, remorse, and regret—and why that distinction matters.

• How guilt can act as a distraction from deeper emotions like uncertainty and pain.

• The surprising ways guilt keeps us stuck and how to shift our relationship with it.

• Practical ways to question, reframe, and move through guilt with more intention and self-compassion.

Is guilt really an unavoidable part of parenting? Or can it be an invitation to greater self-awareness, connection, and choice? Tune in for a conversation that just might shift your perspective on the stories we tell ourselves about guilt.

👉 Follow us on Instagram @MadePossibleByParenthood for more conversations and updates!

Insightful Quotes from the Episode:

📌 “Guilt can feel like this huge, puffed-up balloon that takes up all the space. But when you pop it, you realize there’s room for kindness, for connection, for actually seeing what your child needs.”

📌 “We think we have to carry guilt because it makes us a ‘real parent.’ But what if it’s just a broad brushstroke we’ve accepted without questioning?”

📌 “There’s a wisdom in feeling the ouch, the pain, the remorse—because that’s where real change happens. Guilt alone just keeps us stuck.”

📌 “We keep trying to solve parenting like a math equation, as if we can balance all the choices perfectly to eliminate guilt. But life isn’t an equation—it’s an ocean, and we have to learn which waves to ride.”

📌 “What if we questioned our guilt before accepting it? Is this really mine to hold? Is there something else underneath it that I actually need to pay attention to?”

In this episode of Made Possible by Parenthood, we sit down with Bobby Davis, a self-described “mischief ripple maker for change,” to explore her unconventional path through parenthood. From stepping into the role of a stepmother in her mid-20s while serving in the military to raising her own daughter and now embracing grandparenthood, Bobby shares a deeply personal and refreshingly honest account of what it means to lead, love, and let go.

We dive into:

• The evolution from survival-mode parenting to building deep connections.

• How stepping into a ready-made family shaped Bobby’s approach to leadership and care.

• The tension between structure and softness—especially for high-achievers.

• The power of embracing our own unique parenting path, free from comparison.

• Why missteps, mistakes, and even a little mischief are essential to the journey.

Bobby’s wisdom is a powerful reminder that there is no one “right way” to do this—only our way. Join us for an inspiring conversation about love in its most real, raw, and resilient form.

How do we navigate parenthood when we’re carrying our own trauma? How do we hold our fears without letting them shape the size of our children’s lives?

In this deeply moving conversation, we’re joined byNeena Atkinson, an integral development coach and mentor, to explore the intersection of trauma, parenthood, and the ever-evolving journey of letting go. Neena shares her personal story of loss, the ways trauma lives in the body, and how she’s learned to hold fear while allowing her children the freedom to fully live.

Together, we unpack:

✨ The tension between protecting our children and letting them become in the world

✨ Why healing isn’t about “getting over” trauma, but integrating it

✨ How to co-create a sense of safetywith our children, rather than for them

✨ The ways fear can shrink our world—and how we choose something bigger

We also close with a breathtaking poem,Hello, Fear by Rosemary Wahtola Trommer, from her bookAll the Honey.You can find it here.

Other references from this episode:

📖The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

📖The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran (Excerpt on Children)

Join us for a conversation filled with wisdom, raw honesty, and an invitation to hold both fear and love as we guide our children—and ourselves—into the world.

Conflict in parenting is inevitable—but what if it didn’t have to divide us? In this episode, we dive into the tensions, disagreements, and unexpected battles that arise when raising kids with another person. From the smallest decisions (like which stroller to buy) to the deepest values we hold, conflict is part of the journey. But instead of treating it like a battle to win, what if we saw it as an opportunity to co-create?

Join us as we explore how to shift from courtroom-style arguments to a more connected, constructive approach—one that honors our differences, strengthens our relationships, and ultimately helps us parent with more alignment and ease.

Screens are everywhere—dominating our homes, our habits, and our relationships. In this episode of Made Possible by Parenthood, Lindsay and Charlie tackle the unspoken struggles of parenting in the digital age. From feeling powerless against screen time battles to confronting their own digital addictions, they shine a light on the messy truth most parents face but rarely discuss.

How do you teach healthy habits when you’re struggling with them yourself? What are you saying no to every time you say yes to a screen? This candid, thought-provoking conversation challenges you to reclaim control, redefine balance, and step into your role as the empowered leader your family needs.

In this episode of Made Possible by Parenthood, we explore the profound and often unexpected power of play. Joined by Emma Zangs—a choreographer, movement coach, and passionate advocate for play—we dive into the messy, beautiful, and transformative role of play in parenthood.

Emma shares how embracing play reshapes our identities, deepens our empathy, and helps us navigate the “earthquake” of becoming parents. We discuss the challenges and joys of finding freedom in play, even amidst the chaos of to-do lists and responsibilities. How can play be a tool for connection, creativity, and even survival in parenthood?

Join us as we rediscover the magic of saying “yes” to play—what it means for our children and, just as importantly, for ourselves.

Lear more about Emma and amazing her work here: https://www.emmazangs.com/

In this episode of Made Possible by Parenthood, Charlie and Lindsay dive into one of the most pressing challenges parents face: the tension between work and parenthood. They explore the difficulty of balancing these dual roles and why the journey often feels like swimming against relentless currents. With vulnerability and wisdom, the hosts discuss the importance of asking big, scary questions about identity, ambition, and priorities after becoming a parent.

This conversation encourages listeners to approach these challenges with curiosity, creativity, and self-compassion. Charlie and Lindsay emphasize the power of staying in inquiry rather than rushing to find answers, offering insights into how reframing confusion as a step toward clarity can unlock new possibilities. Through metaphors, personal anecdotes, and even some “magician energy,” the episode provides a gentle yet inspiring call to redefine what balance means for each individual and family.

Listeners are invited to reflect on their own big questions and consider how embracing change and uncertainty can lead to profound transformation in both work and parenthood.

In this episode of Made Possible by Parenthood, we welcome therapist, author, and mother of two, Nikki Allen, to explore her journey as a parent carer to two neurodivergent children. Nikki opens up about the challenges, triumphs, and deep insights she’s gained through parenting children on the autism spectrum. We discuss the power of radical acceptance, the importance of community, and how neurodiversity has transformed her understanding of family, resilience, and joy.

Join us as Nikki shares her path toward embracing her children’s unique identities, balancing caregiving with self-care, and finding moments of beauty in the unexpected. This heartfelt conversation offers encouragement and inspiration for anyone navigating parenting, neurodiversity, or the ever-evolving journey of self-discovery.

In this heartfelt episode of Made Possible by Parenthood, we sit down with former rugby player turned coach, Sam Smith, to explore the unexpected gifts that arise when relationships evolve and family structures shift. Sam shares his personal journey of ending a romantic partnership, co-parenting his two young children, and creating new ways to foster love, joy, and connection with his former partner and their new relationships.

Through candid conversation, we dive into the challenges of breaking free from societal narratives about what family “should” look like and discover the freedom that comes with living intentionally. Sam’s story reveals how breakdowns can open doors to growth, play, and deeper connection—not just with others, but with ourselves.

Join us as we explore how to embrace change with openness, take responsibility for our experiences, and create family systems rooted in love, respect, and joy. Whether you’re navigating a relationship transition or simply seeking inspiration for your parenthood journey, this episode offers valuable insights on the beauty that can emerge when we shift our perspectives on relationships and family life.

You can follow Sam and learn more about his wonderful work and his generous guidance on LinkedIn

Welcome to Season 2 of 'Made Possible by Parenthood'! In this episode Charlie and Lindsay explore the topic of children's behavior from a parental perspective. They discuss how parents can get stuck in trying to control or change their child's behavior, and the importance of maintaining connection and trust in the parent-child relationship amidst challenging behaviors. 

The conversation touches on themes like letting go of rigid scripts, being open to unpredictability, co-creating with children like improv partners, and viewing behavior as an opportunity for personal healing and growth. The hosts share personal anecdotes and insights, aiming to provide a fresh perspective on navigating the complexities of children's behavior while nurturing a deeper bond with one's child.