Magnetic Mismatch

Are you still you after getting into a relationship? Sometimes we lose our own individual identity when we spend so much time with one person. It's great to be a single unit with similarities and commonalities, but we believe that the unique differences that each person brings into a relationship is what truly brings makes it magical and exciting. In this episode, Will and Linda share their thoughts on the identity of a couple and also retain their own individuality as well.

0:00 Intro

0:47 Welcome banter

2:15 Start of topic

4:07 3 types of identities

5:15 Third wheeling

8:12 Linda abandons Will

13:14 Linda’s bachelorette

17:26 Will’s bachelor

23:50 Clingy is creepy

26:58 Trust & insecurities

28:00 Alone time is important

31:19 Expand your perspective

34:47 Spice of life

Does your spouse support your dreams? We all have things that we want to do in life or have a vision of who we want to be. Sometimes, our own self-doubt, fears and lack of belief in our capabilities is what keeps us from unlocking our potential, and a supporting spouse could be the key. But what do you do if your spouse isn’t supportive of your dreams? What do you do then? In this episode, we share our thoughts on what it means to be supportive of your partner’s dreams, and how to truly listen to what they want and need to help them in their journey.

0:00 Intro

1:15 Welcome banter

1:43 Start of topic

2:11 Business vs family

6:10 Selfish or passionate

9:38 Sacrifices required

11:00 Will wants to be a Rockstar

16:42 Pulling your weight

20:25 Supportive spouse

21:30 Prove it

24:36 Compromise or divorce

27:51 Share your dreams

29:40 Takeaways & lessons learned

We are our own biggest and harshest critic. Oftentimes, we are making more progress towards our goals than we think. In this episode, Linda and Will talk about their own struggles with being hard on themselves and forgetting to celebrate the small victories in life. It’s so easy to fall into the trap of always only focus on what we don’t have, what we haven’t done yet or how far behind we think we are compared to others. This is an important reminder to ourselves that we need to make a conscious effort to acknowledge how far we’ve come and how sometimes even the simple act of getting out of bed each morning to face life is something worthy of our praise.

0:00 Intro

1:04 Welcome banter

1:58 Start of topic

5:10 Give yourself credit

6:25 Celebrate progress

8:32 Be kind to yourself

11:20 Failing forward

14:32 What are you proud of

15:05 Life is hard

18:45 Write it down

19:42 Proud or bragging

22:25 Feeling like a failure

23:20 You are worthy

29:46 Look inward

30:52 The truth shall set you free

Do your friends and family hate your spouse or significant other? As the person stuck in the middle, it’s important to recognize that you need to be the mediator and facilitator of bringing these groups together. In this episode, we share our view on what to do before introducing your partner to your inner circle and recognizing the importance of being mindful of what we say or how we portray our spouses especially during times where we are emotionally charged.

0:00 Intro

0:57 Welcome banter

5:20 Start of topic

6:55 Set the premise

10:08 High expectations

13:24 Keeping it real

16:25 Effort required

22:19 We can’t all get along

26:36 Peacemaker

28:52 It is what it is

30:31 Takeaways & lessons learned

If you’ve ever tried to find love, you have probably experienced some disappointment and heartbreak, but how do you actually move forward and learn to love again? In this episode, Linda and Will share their strategies on how they were able to cope and move forward into new relationships after heartbreak. Sometimes it’s healthy and important to take some time off from dating to work on yourself, learn to be ok being alone, and learn to love yourself before you can truly love another person.

0:00 Intro

1:08 Welcome banter

3:55 Start topic

4:54 Take time for you

8:36 DTR

11:29 Better than being alone

15:24 Reflect and improve

20:03 Drop the baggage

23:05 Love Is worth the pain

26:38 Know yourself

27:18 Takeaways & lessons learned

Do you remember your last heartbreak? It might be a distant memory now, but at the time it might have felt like your whole world was falling apart. In this episode, Linda and Will share some insight on their last relationships and how they overcame their emotions and feelings. More importantly, they share some of the lessons they learned and how that helped them to grow and learn as people.

0:00 Intro

1:16 Welcome banter

2:48 Start of topic

4:01 Broken heart

9:37 Linda is a heartbreaker

14:03 Drama-free

17:12 Tactics for coping

19:42 Jaded & self destruction

24:00 Focus on you

26:42 Stronger than before

28:49 Takeaways & lessons learned

If you have found a partner whom you can share laughs, cries, ups, downs and all arounds with in life, consider yourselves very fortunate! However, don’t get too comfortable once you’ve found that person. It takes hard work and commitment to nurture and protect the beautiful relationship that you share. In this episode, Will & Linda remind the listeners and themselves the importance of regularly letting your spouse or partner know how much you appreciate having them in your life. Remember, tomorrow is not guaranteed, so make today count!

0:00 Intro

1:01 Welcome banter

1:25 Start of topic

5:00 Will compliments Linda

11:27 Linda keeps it real

14:59 Law of reciprocity

18:04 Learning to listen

24:28 Speaking up

29:29 Insecurities

32:30 Appreciate each other

37:48 Takeaways & lessons learned

Do you remember what you were like as a child? When you were fearless and didn't learn the limiting beliefs you have today as an adult? What about your boundless imagination, unlimited creativity, sense of wonder, adventure, and the biggest dreams you could think of? In this episode, Linda & Will have fun chatting about what traits they miss from their childhood that they wish they still had today. It might be surprising, but sometimes those child-like characteristics could actually be invaluable traits to help us today and in the future. 

0:00 Intro

1:10 Welcome banter

2:27 Start of topic

4:04 Creativity & imagination

16:38 Lost childhood traits

19:06 Fearlessness

23:00 Hating my own voice

25:50 Trauma & wounds

29:15 Curiosity & hunger to learn

34:33 Dreaming big

43:22 Regaining your talents

49:55 Staying positive

We often hear that getting older sucks, and while there are definitely parts of it that do, we've found that life has gotten better as we've aged. There's a certain beauty that only comes with time and experience, pain and lessons learned. In this episode, we dive deep into what we want our old age to look like, and the things we want to accomplish during this short time on Earth because Time is truly our greatest asset. We share our thoughts on the importance of leaving a lasting impact and legacy, and living a life without regret.

0:00 Intro

1:14 Welcome banter

4:27 Start of topic

8:00 Stigma of aging

11:07 Living with no regrets

13:52 Legacy

19:40 Living with urgency

22:36 Protect your dreams

24:30 Learning to say no

30:14 What do you really want

32:54 Living fearlessly

35:27 Takeaways & lessons learned

When you think of home, what does that look like for you? What does it smell and feel like? To us, our home is where we can feel safe and truly be ourselves. It’s not necessarily the physical location that matters most, but who you’re with and what vibe you create that makes it home. In this episode, Linda and Will discuss their thoughts on what home is to them, and why it’s so important to build it with intention for a healthy relationship and life together.

0:00 Intro

1:08 Welcome banter

4:34 Start of topic

7:03 Warm and loving

8:39 Do you need a mansion

11:43 Our ideal home

16:51 Pets

19:40 Building memories

22:22 Humble beginnings

23:17 Safe haven

27:04 Takeaways & lessons learned