Welcome to the very first Mailbag episode of Every Child Belongs! In this special Q&A format, Kim Botto is joined by friend and podcast producer Dave Little as they tackle some of the most common challenges faced by those who care for kids—especially those with disabilities,  neurodivergence, or who have experienced trauma.

In this episode, we tackle questions like:

• Why do kids with trauma, disabilities, or neurodivergence sometimes seem defiant or manipulative?

• How can we create truly inclusive—not just welcoming—spaces for every child?

With warmth, honesty, and a dose of humor, Kim and Dave explore behavior, belonging, and what it really looks like to be a safe adult for kids who need us most.

Got a question for a future episode? Send it in—we’d love to hear from you!

Kim Botto has spent more than 30 years walking alongside kids, families, and ministry leaders as they navigate tough stuff together. She holds a master’s in family ministry and is a TBRI® Practitioner, Trauma Free World Affiliate Trainer, and longtime kids and student pastor. Kim is a passionate voice for inclusion, belonging, and practical hope. She loves a messy table, meaningful connection, and time with her eleven grandkids.