In this episode you will learn that sex isn't a need. Expressing your creative energy is THE real need. Sex or masturbation is just one way to express this creative energy. I teach you a powerful tool called sexual transmutation that will help you in building your dream. With it's use you can overcome addiction, build your dream, AND make your relationship and life 10x more enjoyable and fulfilling than it is right now.

Sound too good to be true? Give it a listen then experiment with the principle on yourself. After all, you will only ever know if its true after you've experimented.

I hope you Make Your Best Relationship!

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Lust strips us of our power. First the thought changes our focus from what is important and takes the spotlight to what isn't important. Once there it causes us to spend most of our energy on it and yields to us a value of insignificance. After that it causes us to become low in our feeling of things. We lose track of who we are, our importance and what we came here to earth to do. No, there isn't any religion attached, but you are here for specific purposes. And some of those purposes will be had through your relationships with others. 

In this episode I share with you how lust is a powerful trap, but also how you can get out of it.

With this new understanding, I hope you Make Your Best Relationship!

Much love!

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Sometimes communication gets misinterpreted by those you talk with. Sometimes people just flat out disagree with each other. In today's episode, I share 5 easy steps to help you communicate effectively when in a disagreement.  

May you Make Your Best Relationship by communicating effectively for the rest of your life.

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Just like learning the love languages was so helpful in helping you communicate with your partner better, so is learning their personality and behavior styles. In this episode I introduce you to the DISC Assessment and share a summary of the four types of personality classifications that science has classified.

In learning personality and behavior types, you will be better armed to build the dream relationship that you want. It's almost like magic.

Here is the link to the Easiest Guide to Effective Couples' Communication:

https://makeyourbestrelationship.com

Here is the link to the article about a couple learning to communicate in each other's personality types: 

https://makeyourbestrelationship.com/she-had-no-idea-that-discovering-this-aspect-of-communication-would-save-her-relationship/

Here is the link to take your own DISC Assessment, where when taken, you will receive a 17-page report about your strengths, weaknesses, fears, AND how to best communicate better with the other types:

https://makeyourbestrelationship.com/behavioral-analysis-2/

I wish you the BEST! And hope you Make Your Best Relationship!

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Too many people get married and then fall out of love. It happens, but - it can be remedied. 

You see, when you date a person its a very exciting time when you both are interested in each other. You want nothing but to be with each other, touch each other, give to each other and compliment each other. This is natural and conducive to building a great relationship.  But, after couples are married for a little while they fall out of love. That is simply because they no longer do those types of things they did when they were dating.

And it all boils down to "feeding" each other. When you feed (give love) in the way your spouse wants - and needs - that is when you reignite their fire for you. That is when you start having exciting and meaningful experiences again.

In this episode, I share some summaries of the five love languages from Dr. Gary Chapman's book. I also talk about mistakes couples make with the languages and how you can stop yourself from making them.

I also promised you the link to take your own love language test and here it is:

https://s3.amazonaws.com/moody-profiles/uploads/profile/attachment/5/5LLPersonalProfile_COUPLES__1_.pdf

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I hope you're experiencing some amazing life changes. This is the last episode of the Shadow Work  series. In this episode, I share some powerful insights about attachments and how they keep you living in fear, as well as hold you back from living authentically.  When you learn to let go of your attachments, you learn how to truly live. You start to experience everything on a more meaning-filled level. And that is when you learn to be ok with the truth: Change happens. 

Attachments are you “joining” someone or something else somewhat unhealthily, or in a way that is un-serving to yourself, because you give it a particular meaning - and with that meaning you take some of your own value, self validation, and power and put it into that someone or something and then look to that source for fulfillment, meaning, validation, love, etc. That is when you've given up some of your power and put your dependence for a need or want on an outside source. That is when you start living as a lesser version of yourself.

Take your power back, start living authentically, and as you do so you will notice that your love expands. That your experience gets more enjoyable in ways that you haven't even imagined... 

You really start to see. 

What attachments do you have? And what will you gain if you let them go?

In this episode I share examples of how you, yourself, are keeping you from getting what you want because of your addictions. I'm not only talking about addictions like being addicted to drugs or porn, I'm also talking about your addiction to yourself, to your emotional set-point, and to your thought patterns. 

In this episode I help you become aware of patterns that keep showing up for you in your life that are keeping you distracted and unfocused, thus stealing your power and keeping you from getting what you want. 

Towards the end I teach you how to get your power back and how to start living authentically so that you can Make Your Best Relationship.

In this episode I teach you exactly how to do your own Shadow Work. This process is known as the Belief Breakthrough Process and has been so instrumental in bringing many people healing and peace that they've been looking for. As you heal your inner child, or those shadow aspects of yourself, you start to gain your power back and start to live authentically. And when you are living authentically, you become enabled to Make Your Best Relationship. But - it all starts with you.

Link to purchase Make Your Best Relationship's Belief Breakthrough Process:

https://makeyourbestrelationship.com/beliefbreakthroughscript

This script is on sale for a short amount of time for 1/3 of the cost to help listeners like you take back your power and heal those aspects of yourself that need healing.

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In this episode I share the three main reasons why people don't work on their shadow aspects of themselves to improve their relationships. When you live UN-authentically, you become stripped of your power and your ability to love fully.  BUT - when you take your power back, heal your shadow aspects, and start living authentically, you change your reality. At the end I share five powerful ways to become authentic which will enable you to experience the relationship you've always wanted.

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This podcast is covers more about our shadow aspects and how we can heal those part of us up. I give specific examples of my personal life and the life of my son. My son, Elisha, has been raised so suppressed by me very similarly to how I was raised because that is all that I knew. As I learned about belief breakthrough and healing my own shadow, I started to see that I had created some massive shadow aspects in Elisha. Today I do things differently. I share exactly how I helped turn my own life around in healing a certain aspect of my own shadow then how my wife and I helped our son Elisha heal certain aspects of his shadow. The results are incredible and everyone should learn about this to heal up their own broken hearts and shadow aspects.