Are You Making the Right Decision?

This question about making decisions is a paralyzing question, because you might be afraid of making the wrong decision. If you follow the process I’ve outlined below, you may start making decisions easier and without all of the frustration.

My name is Tony Rhoton, and I’m here to help you increase your confidence so you can feel capable and whole. I want to help you be able to accomplish your dreams. I decided that I’m going to take something from one of the young ladies that I’ve been working with and dissect some of the challenges facing women today so these articles, will be more helpful to you.

The first struggle I want to discuss with you is indecision. For a lot of women and men, this is a Biggie, and maybe this is one of your battles? When you have to make choices in life, sometimes it’s tough and almost overwhelming. What should you do? Should you take this job? Should you go to this place? Should you go to school? There are a lot of decisions to be made, which feels endless. As these things start to show up that you need to make decisions on, unfortunately, your happy day starts slipping away.

How do you make a decision without getting overwhelmed, paralyzed, or feeling stuck?

The paralysis happens when you overanalyze and refuse to make a decision. You may be wondering what to do, you need to do?

Slammed with Making Decisions

For all intents and purposes of this article, let’s just say your landlord just told you-you have to move. All of a sudden, you feel this burdening weight, even though you don’t see it, you feel it. You are angry, frustrated, sad, scared, and a slew of other emotions. All of the small choices that you were making have become an after-thought, and you feel like an enormous weight is sitting on top of you and pushing you further into the ground. Thoughts of, “I can’t handle this. Why is this happening? I’m done with this.”

The additional logical thoughts start flowing, do I try to find an apartment, a home, a condo? Do I share a house with someone or move in with family? All of these, thoughts start weighing on you.

Making decisions can feel like a weight is sitting on top of you and your sinking.

No matter how you look at it, none of these choices is the wrong choice. But when you have these thoughts, it feels like a huge weight. However, you start to question everything, and wonder am I making the right decision? Should I do this or that?

The weight of it all changes your attitude, and everything about you. You start to sink, feeling pushed down further and further into a hole.

What do you do?

Continuing with the theme of moving.

Here’s a process that I’ve found that works for me and hope it will work for you.

Step 1 – Research your choices.

Step 2 – Write each possible option down on paper.

Step 3 – Study each scenario and start dissecting it by asking questions like: What…• would it be like if you move into the apartment? • kind of a person would I be in an apartment, condo, home, etc…? • people, will I be hanging around, would this be good for me? • would my area be like?

Dissecting, it will open your mind and connect your feelings. Do this same questioning with each choice; answering all of the questions like who, what, when,