I am not sorry to make this sharp statement.

It’s time we wake up.

Over and over I witness women in relationships and marriages where there is hardly any intimacy and if, it is fast. They also know their men watch porn and often they wake up noticing their partner is masturbating.

AND they feel bad, guilty: I am not doing it good enough for him,  I am not attractive enough.

Do you recognise this?

If you do, maybe you have never spoken it out. Most women I speak to, they haven’t ever spoken about this deep pain.

It’s breaking my heart over and over again.

How can we wake up and get out of this loop of not knowing what real intimacy is?

When do we stop making Sexuality a Taboo when it is all over the place, but no-one really dares to speak about it.

The most beautiful experience we can have here in 3D form is intimacy in full presence in full body experience and love. The most beautiful journey and yet we have no clue how to get there.

Women, we need to wake up to be able to lead men to presence.

We owe this to our future generations to come, our children.

Wake up to a hidden belief  “to make it best for him”!

Men, become conscious of what it does to women, when you enter her being in thoughts, or in fantasies or in any performance issues.

AND: Become aware of what porn really does to you. To us!

Making love without presence is like a rape.

It is so harmful, people can’t even think how harmful it really is.

I invite you to wake up to make love with presence, care and deep connection.