Dom is back for season two to discuss the ups and downs of moving out of state postgrad. We discuss the not-so-glamorous reality of following your dreams and get real about how moving challenges your faith and relationships.

We also talk about how moving forces us to become comfortable with being uncomfortable and teaches us how to lean on our faith when things don’t make sense.

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I’d love to hear what you think about our conversation! Let me know your thoughts on Instagram or reach out via email: ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠

REFERENCES

• Matthew 5:14
• Mark 12:41-44 (the widow’s offering)
• season two intro: growing up – Making Space
• ep. 07: aging, adulthood, pineapple pizza, and other important topics – Making Space
• Local high school soccer player takes his goals international (Dom’s news story)

I'm back for season two! In this intro episode, I share a little life update, my vision for season two, and a sneak peek into upcoming episode topics.

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What makes breakups so difficult? Do you have to hate your ex to move on?

In the season one finale, Ivy and I discuss the reality of going through a breakup, the healing process, getting closure, and “moving on.” We talk about experiencing grief, shame, and anger, leaning on our faith and friends, and the importance of forgiveness.

We also dive into false assumptions about breakups, myths around Christian dating, and the pressure of finding “the one.”

Whether you or a friend are going through a breakup, have gone through one that’s been hard to get over, or have never been in a relationship but are scared about the idea of going through a breakup — this is for you. ❤️‍🩹

For more, follow @⁠⁠themakingspacepodcast⁠⁠ on Instagram.

I’d love to hear what you think about our conversation! Let me know your thoughts on Instagram or reach out via email: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠

REFERENCES

Bible verses:

Podcasts:

Lupita Nyong’o’s Instagram post on heartbreak

Book: Total Forgiveness by R. T. Kendall heartbreak

TIMESTAMPS

(00:00) Intro

(02:27) Conversation kickoff

(05:50) What’s hard?

(23:29) False assumptions about breakups

(46:15) What helps?

(01:08:06) Advice on “moving on”

(01:19:31) An interlude on the myth of Christian dating and finding “the one”

(01:26:48) Additional advice and encouragement

(01:35:44) Final thoughts & reflections on closure

(01:44:15) Outro

What was your first big disappointment?

In this episode, Lois and I get candid about facing disappointment in our 20s. We talk about failure, humiliation, and rejection and share practical advice on how to navigate disappointment and find the courage to try again.

We also discuss how to find joy in the process and “wait well” after your dreams are delayed.

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I’d love to hear what you think about our conversation! Let me know your thoughts on Instagram or reach out via email: ⁠[email protected]⁠

What defines you?

In this episode, my friend Jayden shares how being biracial and darker than her family impacted her journey to discover herself. We discuss the importance of learning to love yourself, becoming comfortable with your culture, and embracing your natural hair.

We also talk about disconnecting your identity from your ethnicity and the role of Eurocentric beauty standards in dictating “good” physical features.

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I’d love to hear what you think about our conversation! Let me know your thoughts on Instagram or reach out via email: [email protected]

In this episode, Dominique joins me for a fun Q&A about life, love, and everything in between! I answer your questions on faith, adulthood, dream jobs, and long-distance relationships while reflecting on the things I’m currently learning after becoming a year older.

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I’d love to hear what you think about our conversation! Let me know your thoughts on Instagram or reach out via email: [email protected]

Why is it so hard to speak up for ourselves? How much power do we give other people over us?

In this episode, my friend Chinyere shares her wisdom on advocating for yourself and others based on her unique life experiences. We discuss navigating difficult conversations in professional settings, romantic relationships, and friendships.

We also talk about the roles of boldness and vulnerability when speaking up and touch on a range of topics including confronting racism, dealing with fear, challenging power dynamics, the dangers of one-way conversations, what loving others really means, and trusting God through stressful situations.

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I’d love to hear what you think about our conversation! Let me know your thoughts on Instagram or reach out via email: [email protected]

Why are so many people afraid of being “alone?”

In this episode, Gill and I unpack a LOT of topics related to being single and content. We discuss what shaped our perspective on relationships from a young age, dealing with shame and fear, and learning to be honest with ourselves and others.

We also talk about the idolization of marriage within Christian culture and how to find your self-worth outside of your relationship status. Finally, we share the importance of developing good, deep friendships for every season of life.

For more, follow @themakingspacepodcast on Instagram.

I’d love to hear what you think about our conversation! Let me know your thoughts on Instagram or reach out via email: [email protected]

In this episode, Hannah and I have an honest conversation about grief after the tragic loss of her brother Caleb. We talk about being vocal and honest about your pain, toxic positivity, questioning God, facing regret and anger, what NOT to say, and ultimately how to be there for your friend as they navigate loss and grief.

Whether you have experienced a loss of your own, are supporting a grieving friend through loss, or just curious about how to navigate grief through the myriad of ways it enters our lives, this conversation is for you.

For more, follow @themakingspacepodcast on Instagram.

I’d love to hear what you think about our conversation! Let me know your thoughts on Instagram or reach out via email: [email protected]

How can we maintain a sense of joy and wonder in a serious world?

Destny and I explore how to cultivate a joyful life in any season by approaching life through the lens of a child. We discuss a wide range of topics including being present and loving where you live, spending time with yourself and embracing every part of who you are, feeling your feelings, and letting go of fear.

We also share thoughts on how TikTok and our passive consumer culture can unknowingly keep us from actively producing a joyful life.

For more, follow @themakingspacepodcast on Instagram.

I’d love to hear what you think about our conversation! Let me know your thoughts on Instagram or reach out via email: [email protected]