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  • S1 Ep250: "How to Ask in Prayer: Intercession" - Quiet Time Coaching Episode 250
    I am in my third year of participating in the Renovare book club. The first book in this season's set of four is "How to pray" by Pete Greig. 
    https://read.amazon.co.uk/kp/card?asin=B07NCZP5FK&preview=inline&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_6xBDFbDK658CK
    Quiet time coaching episodes will focus on his book for the next few weeks. You don't need to read it to benefit from these recordings, but you might like to get hold of a copy for yourself. I have finished the book and can thoroughly recommend it. A full review of the book will come at a later date in "What we are reading".

    Today we will reflect on the sixth chapter of the book, "Intercession: How to Ask God For Others".

    📌 Theme scripture: “‘Your kingdom come.’" (Matthew 6:10 NIV11)

    Last week we explored petition - asking our heavenly Father for the 'bread' we need. This week we move on to petitioning on behalf of others.

    Before digging into the book's advice about intercession, we should begin with Jesus. Something the book doesn't emphasise. He is our intercessor:

    “Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us."...."Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.” (Romans 8:34; Hebrews 7:25 NIV11)

    Our intercession is not of the same quality as his, but part of the reason we intercede for others is because of his example. What is his motivation? It must be love. In his book, Peter Greg quotes Richard Foster:

    "In the words of Richard Foster, ‘If we truly love people, we will desire for them far more than it is within our power to give them, and this will lead us to prayer. Intercession is a way of loving others.’"
    Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 87). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition

    Here is our motivation for intercession. It is love for those who need God's help. And it is because of the love of God to us expressed in Christ. Since Jesus is interceding for me, it becomes my privilege to intercede on behalf of others.

    With these thoughts in mind, let's turn to some suggestions from the book to help us intercede on behalf of our fellow human beings.

    1. Get Informed
    • If we're going to pray for situations and people, we should know the facts. Pray for people by name. If you're praying for a situation elsewhere in the globe, check out news reports about that government, that leader, that environmental issue, that financial crisis, that political controversy. It has happened to me more than once that I have prayed for a particular answer to a situation abroad, only to talk about it with citizens from that country who were praying for a very different outcome. 

    • The question to ask ourselves is, how can I be better informed? Would a conversation with the person concerned help? Could I subscribe to a magazine or newsletter detailing the issue?

    2. Get Inspired
    • God's word is our best source of inspiration for intercession. It is a bulwark against the tendency to pray for what we feel is right, or our preferred outcome, and miss God's will. Granted, God's word does not give us his will in every circumstance, but it does give us a great deal of guidance. As Jonathan Edwards said:

    • "That which God abundantly makes the subject of his promises, God’s people should abundantly make the subject of their prayers." (Jonathan Edwards)

    • A good question to ask when we are considering interceding in a situation is, what promises of God apply to this context? Pete puts it this way:

    • "BY IDENTIFYING RELEVANT PROMISES IN GOD’S WORD AND FOCUSING THEM ON A PARTICULAR PERSON, PLACE OR SITUATION, YOU CAN BE SURE THAT YOU ARE INTERCEDING FOR THEM IN LINE WITH GOD’S PURPOSES, AND THEREFORE ‘IN THE NAME OF JESUS’"
    Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 95). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition.

    3. Get Indignant
    • We are designed to pray not only with our mind, but with our heart. Pete makes the point that there is an appropriate quality of demand in intercessory prayer. 

    • "One of the most surprising secrets of the Lord’s Prayer is that its original Greek renders every verb – ‘hallow’, ‘come’, ‘be done’, ‘give’, ‘forgive’ and so on – in the imperative mood, which can be a forceful, assertive, commanding tone of entreaty."
    Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 96). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition.

    • Whilst our times are quiet with God are meant to be comforting and conversational, there is a place for pleading, urging and, perhaps, even demanding answers. Of course, this must be done with humility, but if it is a matter that really matters, it needs to be expressed as such.

    4. Get in Sync
    • Intercessory prayer is meant to be both solo, and choir.  Nehemiah prayed a desperate personal prayer of intercession (Nehemiah 1:4-11). And later, he and all those with him prayed for protection (Nehemiah 4.7-9).

    • The early church prayed corporately: “When they heard this, they raised their voices together in prayer to God.” (Acts 4:24 NIV11)

    • What was the result of this corporate intercession? “After they prayed, the place where they were meeting was shaken. And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and spoke the word of God boldly.” (Acts 4:31 NIV11)

    Conclusion
    • In my experience, some of us feel that we are naturally intercessors, and some of us not. We all have different strengths and come to our relationship with God from a different angle. However, part of the purpose of reading a book like this is to expose myself to aspects of prayer which are part of the way Jesus prayed, but not so natural and comfortable to myself.
    • The most significant inspiration for me in growing in the area of intercession is knowing that Jesus is interceding for me.

      • Questions for discussion:
      • What stands out to you about intercession?
      • How might your prayer life grow if you could learn how to intercede with faith?

        • Suggestion: Make intercession a part of your daily prayers

        • Resources mentioned in the book: 
        • PRAYER TOOLS: 1. How to Host a Non-Boring Prayer Meeting. 2. How to Intercede for a Large-Scale Crisis. 3. Circle Prayer (prayercourse.org).
        • FUTHER READING: The Soul of Prayer, by P.T. Forsyth.

        • Next week we will go on to look at unanswered prayer and disappointment in prayer.

          • Please add your comments on this week’s topic. We learn best when we learn in community.
          • Do you have a question about teaching the Bible? Is it theological, technical, practical? Send me your questions or suggestions. Here’s the email: [email protected].
          • If you’d like a copy of my free eBook on spiritual disciplines, “How God grows His people”, sign up at my website: http://www.malcolmcox.org.
          • Please pass the link on, subscribe, leave a review.
          • “Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.” (Psalms 100:2 NIV11)
          • God bless, Malcolm
          • PS: You might also be interested in my book: "An elephant's swimming pool", a devotional look at the Gospel of John

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            15 min
          • S1 Ep47: "Marvellous Magazines", What we are reading: Episode 47
            In amongst the books, physical, kindle and audio, one should not forget magazines. Which magazines are you reading, and why? Let me share with you today my current magazine reading.

            Currently I have four on the go - subscriptions to publications I find useful and interesting. In the past I've had more, but these days I'm limiting myself to four because then I get through them rather than allow them to stack up and gather dust!

            Here they are:

            https://www.biblicalarchaeology.org/magazines/

            https://www.christianitytoday.com

            https://www.premierchristianity.com

            https://churchesofchrist.co.uk/christian-worker-newsletter/

            1. Christianity Today
            I have been reading CT longer than any other magasine, ever since Douglas Jacoby recommended it to me back in the 90s. Founded by Billy Graham in the 1950s, it contains a blend of scholarly articles, contemporary Christian commentary on social and political issues, reviews of books and other media, and some devotional material.

            The outlook is Americocentric, but a global perspective is kept in mind. It is avowedly evangelical in perspective, but contains articles from other theological streams. Each edition has one major theme.

            What does it do for me?

            It provides me with an overview of Christian thinking in the country which, arguably, has the greatest influence on Christendom today. It is said that what happens in the USA will creep across the pond to Europe at some point. It certainly seems that this applies to trends within Christendom as much as anything else.

            My thinking is stimulated by articles written on topics I have not considered, and challenged by perspectives different to my own. I need this. Sometimes I don't like it. But CT prevents me from inhabiting an artificial bubble of prior assumptions and hermetically sealed doctrines.

            2. Premier Christianity magazine
            I started reading this magazine sometime in the 2000s. I wanted to get a better picture of the picture of Christendom is a whole within the UK.

            Like CT it is decidedly evangelical. Many other similarities exist between these two magazines, although the emphasis in Premier is more on the devotional and discipleship side of Christianity.

            What does it do for me?

            It gives me an overall picture of the trends of Christendom within this country. It challenges my thinking by providing different spiritual and theological viewpoints. The personal testimonies remind me God moves in mysterious ways! The reviews of media make me buy more books. Not that I need much encouragement!

            I feel more connected with those setting the trends for Christendom within this country. Some of those trends are questionable as to their spiritual health, but others enable me to see the way that my discipleship can be more healthily connected to the contemporary needs of my fellow citizens.

            3. Biblical Archaeology Review
            If I remember correctly, this is another recommendation from my friend Douglas Jacoby. It's a very different beast from the magazines mentioned above.

            BAR contains some scholarly articles, reports on digs, and commentary on what has been discovered. You'll also find some book reviews.

            What does it do for me?

            The value of this magazine is in helping me to understand the biblical period better via it's detritus. I find my faith strengthened. Whilst it is true that archaeology will never prove the Bible is the Word of God, it does confirm its accuracy and reliability.

            As someone stated, and I forget who now, the more digging that is done provides more positive evidence for the reliability of the Bible. If the Bible was a fabrication, the more evidence that was uncovered, the more likely it would be that something contradictory to the Bible would be found. The exact opposite is the case.

            You may find some claims disturbing. Not all the articles are written by believers, and even amongst some of those who hold to a belief in God, some are decidedly liberal in their interpretation of Scripture. However, this is not necessarily a bad thing. How can we be sure we are right, or wrong, unless challenged by alternative views?

            4. The Christian Worker
            The Christian worker is a magazine produced for what are sometimes called the mainline or mainstream churches of Christ in the UK.

            The magazine includes good news from churches around the country, reports on needs and progress with the mission abroad, obituaries, news of upcoming events, some reflective comments, occasional book reviews, news from the British Bible School and some deeper theological articles.

            What does it do for me?

            Why do I read it? Partly to give me a picture on what's going on with our 'cousins' in the mainstream churches of Christ. And to remind myself there are many people striving to do the best for God with, essentially, the same doctrines as myself. It is a bulwark against arrogance.

            It has also helped to foster some personal connections with members of the churches of Christ. I hope and pray that these might bear fruit for both myself and them. I do not know where that will go, but I trust that with God's help we can find ways to strengthen one another's faith for the benefit of this country, the glory of God and expansion of the kingdom.

            Other magazines
            Until recently I was reading Worship Musician magazine. It is wonderful, but I've had to make a difficult decision to drop it for now because of other commitments. I would consider it almost compulsory reading for anyone who has responsibility for leading a worship team.

            https://www.worshipmusician.com

            Other media
            I have not mentioned the email newsletters I read and podcasts I listen to. Those will have to wait for another edition of "What we are reading".

            Other Uses
            One of the many benefits of reading these magazines is the ability to scan in articles, pull out and store quotes, find ideas for Teaching Tips and other broadcasts, illustrations for sermons and much more.

            I use the 'scannable' app for scanning physical materials, and save highlighted sections of text from digital resources in Notion.

            Your thoughts...please?
            Do you read any of these magazines? What do you think of them? What do they do for you? Which magazines are you reading? Please share the value they bring to you and let us benefit from your experience.

            Please add your comments on this week’s topic. We learn best when we learn in community.

            Do you have a question about teaching the Bible? Is it theological, technical, practical? Send me your questions or suggestions. Here’s the email: [email protected]. (mailto:[email protected]).

            If you’d like a copy of my free eBook on spiritual disciplines, “How God grows His people”, sign up at my website: http://www.malcolmcox.org.

            Please pass the link on, subscribe, leave a review.

            “Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.” (Psalms 100:2 NIV11)

            God bless, Malcolm

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            20 min
          • S1 Ep221: "Use tactical silence": Tuesday Teaching Tip 221
            5 Lesser-Known Public Speaking Rules Every Young Professional Needs To Know - Part 3

            Intro
            "Existing literature on the art of public speaking is extensive: ranging from preparation and confidence to body language and tonality, the list of ‘golden rules’ is abundant — but mechanical. The following five rules are lesser-known approaches to public speaking and will insert dynamism, nuance, and distinction to your communication toolbox." Forbes Magasine: Ali Shahbaz
            • Let's have a look at the third of these 'lesser-known' approaches and see if it might help our preaching and teaching of God's word.

            Use tactical silence
            • "...the strategic use of silence nurtures this relationship as it provides space for absorption, and more importantly, reflection on your core message."
            • “Jesus said to the man with the shriveled hand, “Stand up in front of everyone.” Then Jesus asked them, “Which is lawful on the Sabbath: to do good or to do evil, to save life or to kill?” But they remained silent. He looked around at them in anger and, deeply distressed at their stubborn hearts, said to the man, “Stretch out your hand.” He stretched it out, and his hand was completely restored.” (Mark 3:3–5 NIV11)
            • Silence give people time to think, to absorb what they have heard
            • Silence gives people time to let their feelings catch up with their thinking, or their thinking catch up with their feelings
            • Silence gives you time to gauge the reaction of your audience and how you should proceed

            • Conclusion
              • A lack of pausing prevents your audience from absorbing the information, gives the impression you are afraid of being contradicted, and reduces your listeners' ability to concentrate.

              Question: "What practical steps can you take to add silence into your next lesson?"

              Please add your comments on this week’s topic. We learn best when we learn in community.

              Do you have a question about teaching the Bible? Is it theological, technical, practical? Send me your questions or suggestions. Here’s the email: [email protected].

              If you’d like a copy of my free eBook on spiritual disciplines, “How God grows His people”, sign up at my website: http://www.malcolmcox.org.

              Please pass the link on, subscribe, leave a review.

              “Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.” (Psalms 100:2 NIV11)

              God bless, Malcolm

              PS: You might also be interested in my book: "An elephant's swimming pool", a devotional look at the Gospel of John

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              8 min
            • S1 Ep67: "Cherish Your Friends", Newsletter Episode 67
              "You are my friends...."

              It's been a joy this week to connect with family and friends. It seems to have been a thread through the last few days. I popped down to Kent on Sunday evening to spend two days with my parents helping them out with some practical matters. We discussed their financial affairs and worked through their power of attorney forms. My sister and I, who will be attorneys and trustees, felt very honoured and trusted by the willingness of our parents to allow us into these more intimate areas of their lives.

              Then on Wednesday evening Penny and I joined a very special Zoom event with members of the Dublin church. It was time to say "goodbye" to Charlie and Jeanette Hynes and their home which has been the hub in so many ways for the Dublin church for the last 15-20 years. Many were crying bitter-sweet tears remembering the love, kindness, patience and hospitality of Charlie and Jeanette.
              Just today I had a refreshing and inspiring conversation with an old friend, Steve Staten. We talked about all things 'teaching'. I wanted his advice for me regarding the pursuit of a Masters in theology which I intend to take up next year. In addition, we talked about teaching ministry and what it means to a congregation and a nation. 

              On Monday I celebrate the 36th anniversary of my baptism into Christ. In some ways it seems like what it is - half a lifetime ago, but in another sense it feels very recent. Once again I'm grateful to Julie Desouza for introducing me to the church and to Chris McGrath and Douglas Arthur for teaching me the Scriptures. The night of my baptism I sat up into the wee small hours with Tim Dannatt, Archie Kendall and Douglas Jacoby as Doug taught me a comprehensive lesson on the Holy Spirit. All are still counted as good friends. How lucky I am that I have not only had Jesus with me these last 36 years, but many other faithful and loving friends.
              Friends must never be taken for granted. I've not even mentioned the conversations I've had in the last seven days with Danny, Tim, Shevvy, Ben, Barry, Adrian, Maureen, the Renovare book club (Steve, Fabri, Faith, Paul, Raelene, Louise, Rob and Jonathan) and others. Of course, our ultimate friend is Jesus.

              He said, “I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.” (John 15:15 NIV11) 

              What does a friend do, perhaps above all other activities? He or she listens. Jesus listens to our half-baked ramblings all the time, never interrupting. I spoke to one friend this week, or rather he spoke to me. He talked for 1 1/2 hours in which time I said approximately 20 words. I know he was grateful, he had a lot to get off his chest. The experience made me more grateful for those super-listeners in my life like Tim. Much of the time friends are so valuable because they give you the space to figure out what you're thinking. To figure out which "boat" you are in. This analogy is well expressed in this excerpt from an article written by Joan Mankoo in the latest Thames Valley newsletter:

              "I have heard it said quite often during these times of coronavirus that we are ‘all in the same boat’, but I rather like to think that we are all in the same storm but in different boats. So for some it may feel much more rocky, for others their boat might feel sturdy and secure. I guess for me as I go about trying to support people, I prepare myself to get into their boat, despite my own vessel being more robust. Being prepared to be alongside someone in the storm not only communicates empathy but importantly, a trust that the storm will pass and that the person will have held on...with hope." (Joan Mankoo)

              It's not always clear to me which boat I am in. Indeed, I move from one boat to another as the days go by. A listening friend helps me to understand not only in which vessel I am sailing, but also how I am handling it, and the lessons that God may be teaching me whilst I am in it. Who is your listener-friend? Have you found some time to speak to them about your current boat? And, could you be a good listener-friend to somebody who needs to figure out which boat they are in and what on earth the storm is about?

              May I and all of us take every opportunity to thank our friends for accepting us, and Jesus for his wonderful friendship.

               "There is No Longer Jew nor Greek":  Dialogue on Christianity and Race
               "Thank you" very much to the 141 people who attended. We would be very grateful if you could complete the questionnaire at the following link. The survey only contains seven questions. It will not take much of your time.

              This will help us to assess the usefulness of the event as well as plan future events.

              Please fill in the form by 8pm Sunday night, 01 November if possible because that will enable us to collate the information and process it in time for another event this year - if that is desired.

              PS - video of the session can be found here.
              PPS - audio can be found here.
              PPPS - the advanced reading can be found here.
              https://www.malcolmcox.org/surprise-not-shock/https://www.malcolmcox.org/find-god-in-the-psalms-n-t-wright/https://www.malcolmcox.org/how-to-ask-in-prayer-petition/https://www.malcolmcox.org/growing-in-lockdown-paul-in-lockdown-part-3-malcolm-cox/The week ahead

              If you'd like to pray for me I'd be very grateful. Here are some of my plans that you could include.
              • A sermon for the Watford Church on Sunday 8th November
              • A 'sabbath day' on Monday to pray over and plan November and December
              • A third Tuesday teaching tip in a new series - "Use tactical silence".
              • The next "What we are reading episode" focussed on magazine reading
              • The sixth quiet time coaching episode from the series based on Pete Greig's book, "How to pray". We will be looking at intercession - how to ask God for other people.
              • Working on a teaching series for January and February 2021 on the character of Abraham and those connected with him in the Scriptures. 

              • Until the next time, 

                God bless, Malcolm
                15 min
              • S1 Ep249: "How to Ask in Prayer: Petition" - Quiet Time Coaching Episode 249
                - I am in my third year of participating in the [Renovare](https://renovare.org) book club. The first book in this season's set of four is "How to pray" by Pete Greig.

                - Quiet time coaching episodes will focus on his book for the next few weeks. You don't need to read it to benefit from these recordings, but you might like to get hold of a copy for yourself. I have finished the book and can thoroughly recommend it. A full review of the book will come at a later date in "What we are reading".

                - Today we will reflect on the fifth chapter of the book, "Petition: How to Ask God".

                    Theme scripture: “‘Give us today our daily bread.’" (Matthew 6:11 NIV11)

                    - Last week we explored adoration. If that ought to be the easiest thing to do in our times of quiet with God, perhaps the most common thing is to ask. The question is, are we asking with the right motives and what are we expecting?
                    - There is more than one kind of asking. In particular, we will look at asking for our own needs, and then asking for the needs of others. The latter requests will come in next weeks recording. This week we will discuss requests made to God for what we need.
                - With these thoughts in mind, let's turn to some suggestions from the book to help us petition our Father God.

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                1. The law of asking

                - We do a lot of asking in our lives. And there is nothing wrong with that. It's healthy to carry a natural sense of asking into our times of prayer. In fact the word prayer comes from the Middle English word meaning 'to ask earnestly'. The Lord's prayer contains several requests: ‘Give us … Forgive us … Lead us … Deliver us.’
                - Jesus said: “You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.” (John 14:14 NIV11), and  “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” (Luke 11:9 NIV11) and James wrote, “You do not have because you do not ask God.” (James 4:2 NIV11)
                - Why do we take our requests to God? Because he is able to do, here and now in our material world, all the things that we cannot. We might call those things "miracles" or, more precisely simply, answered prayer. Nevertheless, they are acts of God responding to our requests.
                    > "Miracle is just a word we use for the things The Powers have deluded us into thinking that God is unable to do. (Walter Wink)", Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 74). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition.

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                2. Why we need to ask

                - If God knows everything, including the inclinations of our hearts, why do we even need to ask? It's a fair question. Pete Greig references blind Bartimaeus in Luke 18. Why did Jesus ask him what he wanted when it was blindingly obvious (forgive the pun).

                    > "God asks us to ask for at least three reasons. First, because the act of asking is relational in a way that mere wishing is not....The second reason that asking is necessary is that it is vulnerable....Third, asking is intentional. It involves the activation of our wills." Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 78). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition.

                - We ask because it's part of a relationship.

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                3. Freewill and God's will

                - How does our will fit with God's?

                > "Blaise Pascal said that ‘God has instituted prayer to impart to his creatures the dignity of causality.’ We are God’s partners in the great project of creation,..."

                > "We tend to expect the King of kings to be a Great Dictator (and might even prefer him to rule in such a manner), but in fact he is a Great Delegator whose divine nature is not to dominate, subjugate and control, but to serve, listen and empower." Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 78). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition.

                - While God does not give us a formula for how to get our prayers answered, and we cannot manipulate him, we do appear to be in a position to influence him and events. What an awesome responsibility then it is to pray!

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                4. Praying in the name of Jesus

                - We are called to pray in the name of Jesus. Praying in his name gives us confidence that our prayers will be heard and answered. But what kind of prayer is it to pray in the name of Jesus?

                > "To pray in the name of Jesus means asking for things that are consistent with his character and aligned with his purpose....Praying in the name of Jesus means wanting what God wants, aligning our wills with his will, our words with his word, and our personal preferences with his eternal and universal purposes." Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 79). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition.

                - Perhaps, more than anything, praying in the name of Jesus is a reminder of the privilege we have of access to the Father through our friend, brother and saviour.

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                5. Praying in faith

                - True faith is not having faith in faith, or faith in the faithfulness of our prayers, but faith in the person of Christ and a lifestyle of practicing trust in Jesus.

                > "Hudson Taylor, the great apostle to China, said that ‘the issue is not greater faith, but faith in a great God’." Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 81). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition.

                - How do we grow in this kind of faith? Pete Greig suggests several things including: Celebrating the small things that God does; writing down answered prayers; studying the promises of God in scripture; spending time around spiritually inspired fellow believers - and doing so regularly.

                > "Faith is God’s gift to us, faithfulness is ours to him." Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 82). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition.

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                Conclusion

                - Perseverance in prayer is the least inspiring aspect of asking. Persistent, persevering petition is the hallmark of a faithful believer. We do not know how or when Jesus will answer our prayers. Some may not be answered in our lifetime. However,

                > "...Jesus has told us to persevere in prayer, not to abandon our cars at every amber light; to keep revving the engine, faithfully asking until his answer finally comes."  Greig, Pete. How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People (p. 83). John Murray Press. Kindle Edition.

                - Questions for discussion:
                    - What stands out to you about petition?
                    - How might your prayer life grow if you could learn how to petition with faith?

                - Suggestion: Make petition a part of your daily prayers

                - Resources mentioned in the book:
                    - PRAYER TOOLS: 1. Palms up, Palms Down. 2. How to Maintain a Prayer List. 3. How to Pray the Promises of God ([prayercourse.org](http://prayercourse.org/)).
                    - FUTHER READING: J. Hudson Taylor: [A Man in Christ](https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1850784086/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_N0XKFbAF21SNQ), by Roger Steer.

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                - Please add your comments on this week’s topic. We learn best when we learn in community.
                - Do you have a question about teaching the Bible? Is it theological, technical, practical? Send me your questions or suggestions. Here’s the email: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]).
                - If you’d like a copy of my free eBook on spiritual disciplines, “How God grows His people”, sign up at my website: http://[www.malcolmcox.org](http://www.malcolmcox.org/).
                - Please pass the link on, subscribe, leave a review.
                - “Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.” (Psalms 100:2 NIV11)
                - God bless, Malcolm
                - PS: You might also be interested in my book: ["An elephant's swimming pool"](https://dqzrr9k4bjpzk.cloudfront.net/images/9167082/379662794.jpg), a devotional look at the Gospel of John

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                14 min
              • S1: "There is No Longer Jew nor Greek: Dialogue on Christianity and Race"
                Honest dialogue about Christianity and racial identity informed by Scripture and experience of black Christians

                Link to the video is here: https://youtu.be/Ylk0lZe5msg

                “God has put the body together, giving greater honour to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honoured, every part rejoices with it. Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.” 1 Corinthians 12:24-27 NIV11

                There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is not male and female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus (Galatians 3:28).

                In the verse quoted above, Paul attempted to capture the oneness of the people of God. This oneness emerged from the premise that believing in Jesus made believers spiritual descendants of Abraham and members of the worldwide, multi-ethnic family of God. In this family, all notions of domination and hierarchy were dismantled, and people acknowledged only the loving Lordship of the risen Jesus. This oneness, unprecedented in the ancient world, reflected the counter-cultural love of Jesus himself, who called a Zealot and a tax collector – normally sworn enemies – to live as brothers. 

                As such, in a world whose history is tainted by the effects of domination, imperialism, marginalisation and enforced slavery, Christians and the Christian community ought to be models in reconciliation and healing. However, the deaths of George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Eric Garner and Trayvon Martin (to name a few) and the resurgence of Black Lives Matter protests have resurfaced deep wounds that have not healed, in the hearts of many of our black brothers and sisters. This combined with weaknesses in the Christian understanding of ethno-racial unity within and outside Christian communities has impacted the faith of many. 

                This session aims to bring the experiences of black Christians into conversation with Christian scripture to help facilitate honest dialogue, promote understanding and navigate the sensitive landscape of Christianity and racial identity.

                Speakers include Dr Andrew Ezeilo and Sandra Ezeilo, Rachael Corson, Elleen Okotie, Mike Desouza and Dr Andy Boakye. 

                The format included a mix of sharing, teaching and 30 minutes for discussion in breakout rooms.

                Please add your comments on this topic. We learn best when we learn in community. 

                Do you have a question about teaching the Bible? Is it theological, technical, practical? Send me your questions or suggestions. Here’s the email: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]). 

                If you’d like a copy of my free eBook on spiritual disciplines, “How God grows His people”, sign up at my website: http://[www.malcolmcox.org](http://www.malcolmcox.org/). 

                Please pass the link on, subscribe, leave a review. 

                “Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.” (Psalms 100:2 NIV11) 

                God bless, Malcolm
                57 min
              • S1 Ep46: "Finding God in the Psalms", What we are reading Episode 46
                Basic Premise
                    > "By all means write new songs. Each generation must do that. But to neglect the church’s original hymnbook is, to put it bluntly, crazy." (p. 5). 
                - Perhaps too often we try to short-cut our way from the world of the Psalmist to our own world. Maybe we impoverish the Psalms by only looking for those which address directly our current needs. Instead, perhaps the Psalms would reward a more diligent approach characterised by entering the world of the Psalmist before considering its application to our personal situation:
                    > "Actually, again and again it is we, muddled and puzzled and half-believing, who are the problem; and the question is more how we can find our way into their world, into the faith and hope that shine out in one psalm after another." (p. 6)

                - Wright's stated goal:  "I propose in this book that the regular praying and singing of the Psalms is transformative."  (pp. 6-7). 

                Methodology
                - This is not a commentary on the Psalms. 
                Some of the key ideas covered in the book

                1. Since the Psalms were the poetry and hymnbook of second temple Judaism, and that underpinning the times of Jesus and the early church, it is important to enter that worldview if we are ever to properly understand Jesus and his spirituality.

                2. Wright asks us to consider the way in which the Psalms help us to understand how time, space and matter were viewed at that time.
                    > "I am suggesting that the entire worldview that the Psalms are inculcating was to do with that intersection of our time, space and matter with God’s, which Christians believe happened uniquely and dramatically in Jesus." (p. 31).. 

                3. The Psalms remind us that there is a bigger picture behind the clutter of our daily view:
                    > "The Psalter forms the great epic poem of the creator and covenant God who will at the last visit and redeem his people and, with them, his whole creation." (p. 33).. 

                4. The Psalms help us to remember our role in redeeming creation (see Psalms 22, 51, 89):
                    > "Humans have sinned, but God will still work through them; Israel has sinned, but God will still use its people to bless the nations; monarchs have sinned grievously, but God still promises to bring the world into subjection under his anointed king." (p. 63). 

                5. The Psalms focus on the Temple and Torah as representative of God's presence with His people (see Psalms 2, 9, 42-43, 15, 24, 48). They remind us of what it means that we live a God-with-us life in the hear and now. Our discipleship is informed and inspired:
                    > "Here is the challenge for those who take the New Testament seriously: try singing those psalms Christologically, thinking of Jesus as their ultimate fulfillment. See how they sound, what they do, where they take you." (p. 110). 

                6. The Psalms are very 'physical', rooted in mountains, trees, fields, sheep, oceans the stars and more (see Psalm 148). They remind us that God's creation is good and that we do well to take the material aspect of God's creativity seriously:
                    > "...what looks to the flattened-out imagination of late Western modernity like ‘lifeless’ matter is in fact a world throbbing with God-given life. That life is constantly praising its maker by being, particularly and peculiarly, what it is." (p. 120).
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                Personal Reflection
                - Wright reminded me that the Psalms are not just for personal comfort, but for spiritual transformation. They are designed to come alongside me, yes, but to change me. The point of praying the Psalms is to enter into a fuller understanding of God whilst in his presence such that his Spirit touches, speaks to, and revives my own.
                    > "Sing these songs, and they will renew you from head to toe, from heart to mind. Pray these poems, and they will sustain you on the long, hard but exhilarating road of Christian discipleship." (p. 35). 
                - Whenever I am teaching or recording anything on the Psalms, I go back to this book and look for relevant references in the scripture index. As I mentioned before, it's not a commentary on the Psalms, but Tom Wright's insights are valuable.
                - The greater value in the book is the way in which the Jewish understanding of the Psalms helps to illuminate early Christian thinking about the nature of God and the purpose of the church. We miss something when we look only to the Epistle and the book of Acts for our understanding of the church. The Psalms were the hymnbook for the early church. It shaped its understanding of God, mission, how to live as an emissary of the kingdom, and what it was they were ushering in. In other words, where the church was going.
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                I  recommend this book for anybody looking for a deeper understanding of the Psalms, and in particular for the connection between Jewish and early Christian thinking.
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                If you’d like a copy of my free eBook on spiritual disciplines, “How God grows His people”, sign up at my website: http://www.malcolmcox.org

                God bless, Malcolm
                15 min
              • S1 Ep220: "Surprise, Not Shock", Tuesday Teaching Tips: Episode 220
                Introduction
                "Existing literature on the art of public speaking is extensive: ranging from preparation and confidence to body language and tonality, the list of ‘golden rules’ is abundant — but mechanical. The following five rules are lesser-known approaches to public speaking and will insert dynamism, nuance, and distinction to your communication toolbox." Forbes Magasine: Ali Shahbaz
                • Let's have a look at the second of these 'lesser-known' approaches and see if it might help our preaching and teaching of God's word.

                Surprise, not shock
                • "This balance is best demonstrated when speakers focus on innovating the content, not just the delivery, of their engagement."
                • “A certain ruler asked him, “Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?”..."All these I have kept since I was a boy,” he said. When Jesus heard this, he said to him, “You still lack one thing. Sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” When he heard this, he became very sad, because he was very wealthy. Jesus looked at him and said, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!Indeed, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.” Those who heard this asked, “Who then can be saved?” ...Peter said to him, “We have left all we had to follow you!”” (Luke 18:18–28 NIV11)
                • Jesus
                  • Allows the lad to explain himself - a connection is made
                  • Focusses on one thing - keeps it simple
                  • Interested in helping the young man, not creating a scene
                  • “Jesus looked at him and loved him. “One thing you lack,” he said. “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”” (Mark 10:21 NIV11)

                    • Trigger surprise by anticipating the likely response of your audience
                    • Avoid overwhelming the emotional capacity of your audience

                    • Conclusion
                      • Surprise is helpful, when used sparingly and for a specific and benevolent purpose

                      Question: "What surprise can you spring on your audience in that next lesson?"

                      Please add your comments on this week’s topic. We learn best when we learn in community.

                      Do you have a question about teaching the Bible? Is it theological, technical, practical? Send me your questions or suggestions. Here’s the email: [email protected].

                      If you’d like a copy of my free eBook on spiritual disciplines, “How God grows His people”, sign up at my website: http://www.malcolmcox.org.

                      Please pass the link on, subscribe, leave a review.

                      “Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.” (Psalms 100:2 NIV11)

                      God bless, Malcolm

                      PS: You might also be interested in my book: "An elephant's swimming pool", a devotional look at the Gospel of John

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                      12 min
                    • S1: "Growing in Lockdown" - Paul in lockdown part 3
                      A sermon for the Watford and Wokingham ministries 

                      Acts 28:16-31
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                      How can we maintain our passion for spreading the good news?
                      How can we notice opportunities God is giving us to spread the good news?
                      What could we do to capitalise on those opportunities?
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                      How can we notice the opportunities God is giving us for spiritual growth?
                      What can we do to capitalise on those opportunities?
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                       Introduction

                      - Could you use some inspiration?
                      - Looking at Biblical character in 'lockdown' circumstances
                      - Circumstances beyond our control - how react? In faith?

                      - House arrest - “When we got to Rome, Paul was allowed to live by himself, with a soldier to guard him.” (Acts 28:16 NIV11)
                      - Two years - “For two whole years Paul stayed there in his own rented house and welcomed all who came to see him.” (Acts 28:30 NIV11)
                      - Last two weeks - spreading encouragement, and prayer; hospitality
                      - This week......

                      1. The word of God grows in lockdown

                      - Converted Onesimus: “I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains.” (Philemon 1:10 NIV11)
                          - God brought him to Paul - are we noticing who God is bringing to us
                      - Impact on the guards: Philippians 1:12–13; 4:22
                      - Unique opportunities given to us via lockdown

                      Discussion: "What creative ways could we use to spread the Word to more people?"

                      - Ideas:
                          - Blog 
                          - Recorded testimonies
                          - Podcast
                          - Videos on youtube
                          - TikTok
                          - Send material to me if not sure what to do with it
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                      2. Spiritual growth in lockdown

                      - Practicing what he preached: “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” (Romans 5:3–5 NIV11)
                          - In what spiritual areas has God got your attention?
                      - Rejoicing in sufferings: “Now I rejoice in what I am suffering for you, and I fill up in my flesh what is still lacking in regard to Christ’s afflictions, for the sake of his body, which is the church.” (Colossians 1:24 NIV11)
                      - “But even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I am glad and rejoice with all of you. So you too should be glad and rejoice with me.” (Philippians 2:17–18 NIV11)
                          - Might be best opportunity for spiritual growth you've had in years!
                      - “Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live!They disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees.“Make level paths for your feet,” so that the lame may not be disabled, but rather healed.” (Hebrews 12:7–13 NIV11)
                      -Renovare Book Club
                      -Lectio 365 App

                      Discussion:  "What is it about this time that is, or could be, a catalyst for your spiritual growth?"
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                      Conclusion

                      Key scripture:
                      - “During the days of Jesus’ life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with fervent cries and tears to the one who could save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission.Son though he was, he learned obedience from what he suffered and, once made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him and was designated by God to be high priest in the order of Melchizedek.” (Hebrews 5:7–10 NIV11)

                      Please add your comments on this week’s topic. We learn best when we learn in community. 

                      Do you have a question about teaching the Bible? Is it theological, technical, practical? Send me your questions or suggestions. Here’s the email: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]). 

                      If you’d like a copy of my free eBook on spiritual disciplines, “How God grows His people”, sign up at my website: http://[www.malcolmcox.org](http://www.malcolmcox.org/). 

                      Please pass the link on, subscribe, leave a review. 

                      “Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.” (Psalms 100:2 NIV11) 

                      God bless, Malcolm
                      27 min
                    • S1 Ep66: "Refresh my soul!" Newsletter 23 October 2020: Episode 66
                      I am lucky to have friends who refresh my spirit. One such is Douglas Jacoby. We've known each other for 36 years.

                      I first met Doug at a Wednesday night meeting of the, then, Central London church of Christ. It was at the Methodist Mission, Lambeth North, and the topic was the Old Testament. To this day I remember the blend of shock and delight as I heard Douglas make sense of the Old Testament and reveal ways it applied to real life - mine, in fact. I knew this was the church for me from that point on. If I could receive life-refreshing teaching like that, I knew I'd be in a good place spiritually.
                      Douglas in Gethsemane when we were on an Israel tour together in 2018Douglas and his wife Vicki left the UK many years ago, but moved to Edinburgh recently. I was very fortunate, especially in these COVID-19 times, to be able to pop up to Scotland for two days earlier this week. Douglas and I spent many, many hours talking, walking, eating and drinking coffee. We caught up on life, church issues, theology and much more. 

                      I feel towards Doug as Paul did towards Philemon:

                      “Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord’s people.” (Philemon 1:7)

                      We all need 'refreshers', like Jonathan: “Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God.” (1 Samuel 23:16 NIV11) Who is your 'refresher'? I hope you have many. Make the most of them.

                      If I might be allowed to make a plug on my friend's behalf, could I encourage us all, if we haven't already done so, to sign up to his newsletter (scroll to the bottom of the page), his podcast feed, and the premium access facility of his website. The basic materials on the website are free, but there are a lot of helpful extras to those who take up premium access. 

                      One other unrelated matter for this week. Did you see this news? "Vindolanda Fort: Remains of Christian chalice found." I find it fascinating that the more we dig, the more we discover about not only the world of the Bible, but also early Christianity.

                      On that note, let's keep digging. Digging spiritually to deepen our relationship with God and digging deeper into God's word to nurture our spirit's journey towards Christ-likeness.

                      "There is No Longer Jew nor Greek": Dialogue on Christianity and Race

                      Tomorrow!

                      112 people registered at the time of writing.....
                      Together with some friends I am working on an event called, 'There is No Longer Jew or Greek: Navigating the Dialogue on Christianity and Race'. Andy and Sandra Ezeilo will be speaking as well as Mike Desouza, Elleen Okotie and Rachael Corson. Dr Andy Boakye will be teaching from the Scriptures. 

                      Details can be found on eventbrite. The event will take place on zoom with an opportunity for breakout rooms and feedback from the discussions. The format will be similar to the "message in the mayhem" event. Sign up to register and receive updates as we approach the day in question.
                      The week ahead

                      If you'd like to pray for me I'd be very grateful. Here are some of my plans that you could include.

                      • A sermon for the Watford Church on Sunday - the third instalment of looking at Paul in lockdown. This week - "How to grow in captivity". The Wokingham location of the Thames Valley churches of Christ will be joining us.
                      • A visit to my elderly parents to help them out with a few things beyond their current capacity.
                      • Meeting with the Renovare Book Club (on zoom) for our next session discussing Pete Greig's book (above).
                      • A second Tuesday teaching tip in a new series - "Surprise, not shock".
                      • The next "What we are reading episode" based on "Finding God in the Psalms" by N. T. Wright.
                      • The fifth quiet time coaching episode from the series based on Pete Greig's book, "How to pray". We will be looking at petition - how to ask God.
                      • Working on a teaching series for January and February 2021 on the character of Abraham and those connected with him in the Scriptures. 

                      • Until the next time, 

                        God bless, Malcolm
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                      About Malcolm Cox

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                      Malcolm Cox. Enjoying communicating the depth & relevance of the Bible to life today. Author of 'An Elephant's Swimming Pool' about John's gospel. For theology and spirituality see: