On Sunday, I lifted the nearly 50-pound dog on and off of the grooming table. Then I wrestled a large mini-fridge (oxymoron much?) through the house and lifted it onto a low table. Late yesterday afternoon, I couldn’t figure out why my back suddenly started hurting. It took till I

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I planned on writing about how kinks like ours can fade away and leave a sad void. Our bed (and spanking bench) hasn’t had any activity for the last couple of weeks. I have been feeling down and not too interested in BDSM or sex. Mrs. Lion was more than

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I read an article this morning that said people who meet online are more likely to get divorced within three years than people who meet any other way. I can’t find the damn article to get specific numbers, but the logic seems to be that people who meet online don’t

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Lion went into the bedroom around 3:30 or 4 yesterday. He said he was only going because he felt tired. I went in to join him. In hindsight, that was a sign. He wanted attention. I missed it. I was joining him to be with him – not to be

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The dog woke me up at 5:30. I played with her for an hour thinking she’d be calmer later on. Nope. Around 6:30, Lion was awake and asking if I was up. I said I was and climbed back into bed. I thought we’d watch TV as usual. Nope. The

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Lion has been busy rewriting his first novel. He also hasn’t been feeling very well. He was pretty tired yesterday. Last night I brought the can of spray-on IcyHot over to the bed. As the dog was being an idiot, jumping on the bed, Lion picked it up and asked

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It was a dark and stormy day…and I am not feeling like doing any work. Seriously, it looks like it’s four o’clock in December when it’s ten in the morning. Yuck! As you’ve probably read in Lion’s post this morning, he’s suggested approaching BDSM like we approached punishment. It’s worth

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Yesterday morning I was truly out of it. I was feeling sleepy and not particularly alert. After Mrs. Lion went to work, I watched a couple of game shows and then slept for an hour. I didn’t feel much better when I woke up. The night before, I fell asleep

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Lion and I are trying to figure out our shit, for lack of a better word. He needs X and I need Z. How do we get to Y? Adulting is hard. We’ll work it out. One of Lion’s issues is that he says he can’t roll over on his

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In her post yesterday, “Turn to Page 48“, Mrs. Lion wrote about our lack of physical communication. I’ve been feeling it as well. We face some challenges. There are two important issues: Mrs. Lion doesn’t want sex, and I have limited ability to move. The first one causes me the

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