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Karma, as the saying goes, is what goes around comes around.

There are three types of karma. Mama Drama Trauma is all three. Mother wound empaths need disciplined, conscious awareness and conscientious action to heal.

This is not difficult considering the depth of sensitivity to ourselves, others and situations, we possess. However, the task of calling upon, summoning or conjuring these inner powers, is something we must learn.

Today’s session card pull from the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck (each deck includes: PDF guidebook, free 8-part how to read the deck video playlist, and free one on one introductory video call with Tammy) is our foundational tool supporting a daily practice of living in loving detachment based on the core teaching of divinity identity).

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Prior podcasts mentioned in today’s session:

Are You an Empath with the Mother Wound?

Your Moon Sign Is the Way Out

How Old Souls Live in Right Relationship with Young Souls (re: MDT Karma)

This is for the Real Ones (re: Empath Types)

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The good thing about fights is they clarify.

Knowing and doing what is right is more than a moral issue for us. Morals change. We need energetic efficiency. The more we know what is right and best for us the more we experience our birthright to be happy, healthy and whole.

Here are my reflections on this past week’s sociopolitical events, how they affect me and how as a mother wound empath I am processing them with loving detachment.

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What is America’s Sacred Contract? According to Caroline Myss, it’s to fulfill its promise of the universal inalienable birthright of individual expression of its “cosmic divine force”.

There is no creation without chaos and no chaos without creation. This process is internally occurring in all of us and today we talk about it within the context of MDT. Whether you have experienced it your entire life, over a specific period, or are not even sure you have, you may know how overwhelming and inescapable it feels. This is not a bad thing! Chaos signals it is time to transcend material bonds to soul align.

As we increasingly answer soul’s call, we are more available to experience what we—not mama— imagine our lives to be. On top of that, none of what I’m saying is new.

Crazy isn’t it?

Motherland America, is a lot to transcend but my recent practice has recreated in me a renewed way to perceive the chaos.

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If taking care of yourself meant going no contact and you not only sacrifice your mother but your daughter too, would—or even could you do it? It takes courage.

Ever read a blog post so real, so relatable that you wanted to meet its author? I was lucky enough to do just that in MDTA’s first guest interview with author Heather Valentine, creator of Substack’s Elastic Heart. Get ready to feel like a fly on the wall as you encounter the vicissitudes and internal victories of her life. Here, we get deep but don’t worry Academicians*, Heather knows how to swim…

As I read,“1997 Mother’s Day,” I saw a woman who has lived through the trials, tribulations and challenges of transcending Mama Drama Trauma. In it, Heather exposes her vulnerability in dealing with the most excruciating parts of her journey.

Well written, sure, but I wasn’t expecting this bright little summer read to enlighten me so much about how MDT can develop empathy, what it takes to build courage for self-care, and the transformative power of reframing maternal burdens into blessings. A journey far from easy, I had to invite this authentically witty and unintentionally wise author (and person as you will hear), who gets it.

Another author and speaker I adore is spiritual mystic and medical intuitive, Carolyn Myss who teaches about the difference between fate and destiny. She says fate is tied to “we” and survival which is taught by the family, but destiny is about “I” which is something we must define through individual soul alignment. MDT healing is a lifelong journey to the destiny of “I” which in my experience can take multiple lifetimes. In it, we eventually choose to align by integrating the experience as another form of love. This love is not the kind of we are or are not taught, but the countless internal actions we choose to transform it into the love we need.

We hear a lot about brain plasticity and the power of changing our thoughts but that is impossible without stretching the heart from “we” to “I” and back to “we” after integrating or growing from the pain—every heroine’s journey.

That’s the heart elasticity Heather Valentine shares.

So, If you are on the brink of giving up on yourself, the uphill journey to personal peace or life in general listen to her story. You can also download the Substack app for easy reading, listening and to engage on the chat.

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Podcast theme song: The Pretenders I’m a Mother

I'm a mother

Treat me like a mother

You wanna suck on my breast

It's no surprise you do

I'm the source and the force

You owe your life to, brother

Oh

Oh

Oh

I'm a mother

And I take like a mother

I understand blood

And I understand pain

There can be no life without it

Never doubt it

I'm a mother

I gave you all my money

To help the family

But what you do to me

Don't humiliate me

Remember

I'm a life-long member

Oh

Oh

Oh

I'm a mother

Treat me like a mother

In the middle of the night

I be deep in a dream

You fancy little company

You only have to scream

Loud, brother

Oh

Oh

Oh

I'm a mother

And I fake like a mother

I understand time

And it isn't on my side

But to service mankind

I have to suffer his pride

Like a mother

Oh

Oh

Oh

You say your protection

Is proof of your affection

If I need security

I'll keep a gun on me

Oh

Don't barter with me

Don't barter with me

Little sacrifices

Go straight to heaven

But hunting season's over

This is the 20th century

Oh

Don't barter with me

Oh

Oh

Oh

I'm a mother

And I ache like a mother

If there's a terrible crash

And bodies thrown everywhere

I'll wrap 'em up and carry 'em

If someone has to bury them

Brother

Oh

Oh

Oh

Call upon mother

I'm the vessel of life

I got the trauma here to prove it

When it's time for me to labour for you

Everybody move it

Like a mother

Oh

Oh

Oh

Have something instructive, entertaining or inquisitive to share with us this summer session? Do let me know. Happy summer reading!

*Academician = MDTA subscriber

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SUMMER SESSION Continues…

Life promises ups and downs, but would you rather go through them feeling alienated and alone or at least feeling loved, lubricated, facile and free? Yes, the work is always ours to do, and our divinity ours to prove to ourselves, but we are built for it.

Great Mother’s message about today’s topic The Ops, Optics of No Contact:

MDTHOD guidebook revisions discussed here as well.

This summer I’m feeling the pulse of millennials on how they handle being a mother wound empath going no contact. Here’s the compilation video excerpt from the beautiful Destiny Uteh’s channel.

Not withstanding parents are people, I have recently got in touch with my ancestral mother rage going all the way back to the Sibyls. Recently, it has been immensely transformational to be called by Mami Wata to liberate myself through deeper self empowerment and healing work. More on that later but for now, here’s a pebble from my path.

In short, it is what it is.

Pamela Gregory astrological visionary imploring us to stay on our eagle’s perch.

The book The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz organized the Toltec teachings in an exploration of their four agreements: "Be impeccable with your word", "Do not take anything personally", "Do not make assumptions", and "Always do your best."

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Letting go of the mother we want, birthmother fantasies and expectations, for the mother we have, a drama mama and Great Mother, our intuition, is a lifelong journey.

As mother wound empaths we came here with a powerful toolbox of gifts, talents and abilities apparent in our birth charts we can use to make our luck as mother wound empaths. Developed over lifetimes, they are available for us to employ in healing ourselves and others.

In our first Summer Story Time Session, I share how to find yours and ways you can use the gifts, tools and abilities indicated by it as well as how I have done it.

Find out the main placement and the three things to consider in your wheelhouse.

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Birth Chart Calculators:

Sidereal/Vedic Birth chart Calculator - lunar, soul chart

Tropical/Western Birth chart Calculator - geocentric, material chart

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Our first empowered choice as a self aware, observant and conscientious psychic empath is: Am I employing my sensitivity to be a Mediator (intervening means, agency of use) or to be a Medium (go between), what are my skills, what skills do I aspire to have, why?

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Ever wonder why we have so much compassion for narcissists? How we know what others are feeling and why? The best way to use these abilities to self heal?

Today, in the second session of ‘This Is for the Real Ones’ series about the three empath types, we introduce the mother wound intuitive empath. While the instinctive empath can feel what others feel, the intuitive (emotional) empath knows why others feel the way they do.

As mother wound empaths, the degree we can let go of the mother we want to accept the one we have is the degree we are healed. Though we have different capacities to do this, by recognizing intuition is the mother we have, and responding to it that way we heal and open floodgates to heal others.

The center of the emotional wheel is where our base emotions reside. These correspond to the six chakras and six suits of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck:

MDTHOD SUITS

Root (red) - Mad when we acknowledge MDT (“A” Acknowledge Suit)

Sacral (orange) - Scared to self inquire about MDT (“S” Self Inquiry Suit)

Gut (yellow) - Powerful when we are in our integrity about MDT (“I” Integrity Suit)

Throat (blue) - Peaceful when we release MDT (“R” Resurrection/Rebirth Suit)

Inner Eye (purple) - Sad when we have to live in loving detachment from MDT (“E” Emancipation Suit).

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‘Hidden Things’ by J. Philip Newell with soloist Suzanne Adam from Sounds of the Eternal Meditative Chants and Prayers

Empaths are kind, wise, old souls. Like all gifts, talents and abilities, empathy is developed over lifetimes. As we mature, we learn our need to accurately determine if, when, where, why and how others may harm or help preserve life is imperative to survival.

Self awareness to acknowledge the burdens and blessings of feeling what others feel distinguishes empath types by level of internal clarity, balance and confirmation.

We begin our 3 Mother Wound Empath Type Series with the emotional empath. Last session This Is For the Real Ones introduced the emotional, intuitive and psychic empaths this series covers.

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Great Mother’s message this session from the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck is a single card pull reading of the card, Sophia.

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Empaths give the consideration, care and compassion desired from others to others.

Because MDT overwhelms and overstresses the senses in ways we are only just beginning to explore, further study of Dr. Elaine Aron’s seminal research on with Highly Sensitive People (HSNs) and Dr. Judith Orloff’s work on empaths provide much needed insight about the relationship between sensitivity and the “mother wound”.

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If you are a true empath who wants to learn what intuitive qualities you have available to assist your MDT healing process, this series is for you.

Today’s message in answer to the question: What does Great Mother what us to know about the three mother wound empath types?