Self-awareness is the ability to recognize and understand one’s own emotions, strengths, weaknesses, values and motives and how they affect one’s interactions with people in the workplace and their own job performance. Self-control is the ability to control one’s thoughts, feelings and actions. One of the things that makes lack of self-awareness a problem is that, when asked whether they are self-aware, 95% of people answered that they were. However, research done at Harvard found that only about 10-15% of people actually are. In other words, while a lack of self-awareness is relatively easy to spot in others, we rarely see it in ourselves.

Effective communication is one of the most important skills a good manager must have. In this episode, we review not only what makes one a good communicator, but also things that many do that get in the way of effective communication including blaming the audience for not understanding what is being communicated, and not following up to make sure one's communication was accurately received and understood.

It is critical that your staff feel comfortable with giving you bad news or telling you about problems when they occur. This involves establishing a level of trust with your staff where they can feel that giving you such news will not result in negative consequences for them. This episode centers on how to build that level of trust with one's staff and maintain it.

It's never pleasant to get negative feedback from one's boss. But how a manager deals with the bad news can sometimes be more important than the news itself. The same can be true for positive feedback. Responding appropriately in both types of situations is often critical to a manager's success. This episode covers how to anticipate and respond to both positive and negative feedback from one's boss.

It is important for a manager to be proactive in developing relationships with their clients (and every manager has them) where the client feels they can communicate openly and freely with the manager -- even when that involves communicating negative news. It is important that managers learn of issues before they become major problems and that involves having an open, trusting relationship with the client. This episode discusses how to build such a relationship.

It takes patience and effort to develop and keep talented staff. In this episode we cover many of the things that keep talented staff motivated and happy -- and reduce their likelihood of being poached by a competitor or another department in your company.

Your most talented staff can be your greatest asset. But they can also need a lot of attention. It is also important that you not overlook talented staff who may be introverted and not immediately stand out. Identifying and developing these members can greatly benefit your department.

At the same time, you can't ignore the less-talented staff and how to motivate them and head off feelings of jealousy or resentment is also covered.

Nothing can be more nerve-wracking than being told, "The Boss wants to see you." In this episode, we discuss how to prepare for such a meeting in order to maximize the potential for a positive outcome (no matter the topic) and minimize the chances of a negative one. The secret comes down to a single word: Preparation. We'll tell you how to prepare for such a meeting.

Listening is probably one of the most important skills a manager can have and most people feel they are good listeners. However, many are not. In this episode we discuss techniques for good listening and why they are important.

Preparation is critical for any meeting with your boss -- especially one you asked for. Of course, you want to be prepared on the specific reason you asked for the meeting -- but your preparation needs to go far beyond that to maximize the positive impact any meeting can potentially have on your relationship with your boss. It will also reduce the potential for a negative response from the boss.