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In this episode, Elle delves into the concept of the traditional housewife or 'tradwife' lifestyle that's gaining popularity online. She discusses the potential traps and pitfalls of this lifestyle, emphasizing the importance of financial stability and independence. Elle warns of the potential danger of financial *mistreatment* and the illusion of the tradwife lifestyle presented on social media. She advocates for education and securing one's financial future no matter what lifestyle one chooses. This includes, among other things, having marketable skills, considering prenuptial agreements, and maintaining separate financial accounts. Elle concludes by encouraging listeners to incorporate aspects of the tradwife lifestyle that appeal to them, but to do so in a financially secure and sustainable way.

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In this episode, Elle discusses the topic of dating norms, focusing on the belief that a woman should never pay on dates. She reacts to a video showing a man filming his date's reaction when asked to split the bill, stating that the man was looking for validation but was instead criticized. Elle argues that women, by virtue of investing in their appearance, have already paid their part. She brings up the societal expectation for women to look a certain way, suggesting that men contribute to these beauty expenses. Elle insists that women are the 'prize' and should be treated and respected as such. She advises women to block any man who refuses to invest in them. Elle emphasizes the importance of self-respect and advises her listeners to abandon any situation that undermines their worth. She concludes by encouraging women to leave men who don't meet their standards, asserting that men's personal development is not a woman's responsibility.

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In this episode, Elle, discusses the term "boymom" and the associated red flags when dating men who have such mothers. The term "boymom," when used as one word, refers to a mother who has an unusual obsession with her son, often overshadowing her other children and competing with her son's romantic partners for attention and resources. Elle highlights that these mothers tend to raise their sons to fulfill a partner role, hindering their life progression and often leading to strained or non-existent romantic relationships for the sons. She warns her audience, mainly women, to recognize the signs of a man having a "boymom" and avoid getting involved in such a dysfunctional dynamic. Elle further explores this topic using a video of a man confronting his mother, providing insights into emotionally incestuous mother-son relationships. She emphasizes that it's not the job of a woman dating such a man to set boundaries with his mother; it's the man's responsibility. Elle concludes the podcast by stating that avoiding men with enmeshed relationships with their mothers benefits everyone involved. It forces the man to confront and resolve the issue, leading to overall healing.

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In this episode, Elle dives into a heated discussion about a viral post on a $6 engagement ring (P299 engagement ring) causing uproar on Filipino Facebook. Elle passionately defends the woman's disappointment and confronts societal gaslighting that women often face when expressing their dissatisfaction. She encourages women to express their desires and stand up against settling for less. Elle also reacts to the man's response to the controversy, highlighting the importance of mutual respect and understanding in a relationship. This episode is a powerful exploration of societal expectations, self-worth, and the importance of standing one's ground.

Keywords: P299 engagement ring

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On the first episode of the new series: Big Sis Advice, Elle emphasizes that not everyone has the privilege to pursue their passion, especially if it financially disadvantages them. She encourages the spoiled girlies to acknowledge the concept of opportunity cost and to quit early if something is no longer serving them. She suggests finding the root of one's passion and pursuing it in a more efficient and profitable manner. She also emphasizes the importance of investing in oneself and making decisions that lead to financial stability and wealth building.

Keywords: how to pursue your passion, privilege, nepo baby

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In this episode, Elle discusses the importance of discernment in relationships and highlights the concept that "consideration is the highest form of love". She criticizes men who try to "teach" women a lesson, describing these actions as malicious rather than a sign of ignorance. Elle emphasizes that dating should be about observation, not rehab, and women should not feel obligated to mold their partners into their ideal man. She also discusses the harmful effects of accepting less than what one deserves in a relationship, using the phrase "he's not dumb, he just hates you" to illustrate her point. Elle encourages her listeners to command respect, compassion, and consideration in their relationships. She ends with the assertion that good men do exist and women should not settle for less.

Keywords: orange peel theory, consideration is the highest form love, toilet paper boyfriend, pumpkin bar husband, men teaching women a lesson

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In this episode, Elle discusses the importance of discernment when accepting advice from men, particularly regarding money and career. She highlights the differences in experiences between men and women and cautions against building a life with men who are still figuring out their own. Elle also shares insights about men in survival mode and their potential to sacrifice anything to achieve their goals. She advocates for women to protect their space and time, emphasizing the value of outdoor hobbies. Finally, Elle ends on a positive note, reminding listeners that good men exist and that women should always strive to secure their own future.

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In this episode, Elle reacts to an interview with Simone Biles' husband, raising important points about self-esteem and self-worth in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of not diminishing oneself for a partner's ego and the dangers of being in a relationship where one feels they constantly have to prove their worth. Elle also discusses the issue of dating when you are a high-achieving woman and shares some key lessons, including never chasing a man, dating someone who genuinely appreciates you, and avoiding partners who try to humble you. Tune in for an engaging discussion on maintaining self-esteem in relationships and recognizing your worth.

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In this episode, Elle tackles the issue of weaponized incompetence in relationships and the importance of setting high standards. She discusses the significance of recognizing the bare minimum and urges listeners not to settle. Elle shares anecdotes from real-life situations and offers advice on how to navigate these challenges. She talks about the importance of being ready to leave a relationship that isn't serving you and maintaining a level of self-sufficiency. She stresses that one should never tolerate a partner who is unwilling to contribute to the relationship or assist in household tasks. Elle highlights the importance of self-love and self-respect, and ends with a powerful call to action - stop dating men who hate you.

Keywords: anybody else’s baby daddy forget they’re a parent too, mime calls out dad

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In this episode, Elle discusses her past experiences as a "pickme" – a term she uses to describe women who compromise their own desires to cater to others. She shares her journey of self-discovery, self-acceptance, and her struggle with jealousy and envy. Elle talks about the importance of acknowledging one's desires and not letting jealousy stand in the way of achieving them. She emphasizes the importance of being truthful to oneself, and how it led her to a path of fulfillment and satisfaction. Elle also discusses the detrimental impact of being the target of jealousy and how she learned to navigate through it. The episode is a candid reflection of Elle's personal experiences and a call to action for women to embrace their true desires without fear of judgement or envy.