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In this week's episode, Elle takes a deep dive into the "performative male epidemic" - a cultural phenomenon that's generating buzz across social media. She explores how today's matcha-wielding, bell hooks-reading men are just the latest in a historical lineage of alternative masculine displays, from Elvis to hippies to hipsters. Drawing fascinating parallels to "sneaker males" in evolutionary biology, Elle examines how these performative behaviors function as mating strategies. While acknowledging some positive aspects, she ultimately warns viewers about the disconnect between performance and authentic values, encouraging women to trust their pattern recognition abilities when navigating relationships. This thought-provoking episode blends cultural analysis, scientific research, and practical advice about discernment in the modern dating landscape.

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In this episode, Elle explores what female bonobos can teach us about creating more peaceful societies through solidarity. Dispelling the myth that bonobos simply refused to mate with aggressive males, Elle reveals research showing that female bonobos actually built coalitions to protect each other, reducing male aggression despite males being physically larger. Elle weaves together evolutionary biology, feminist theory, and cultural examples to demonstrate how women have always shaped human evolution. Drawing from Cat Bohannon's "Eve" and Adrienne Rich's writings, the episode makes a powerful case for women's collective power to create a more peaceful future through intentional choices and solidarity.

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In this episode, Elle dissects the viral TikTok trend where women post videos claiming "my boyfriend said he'll get me [something expensive] if this gets [insane amount] views." Elle examines how these social media challenges function as modern humiliation rituals that normalize below-minimum relationship standards. She shares a striking example where an influencer purchased Coach bags for a creator whose husband set impossible conditions, illustrating how these trends reveal societal issues around women's worth. Elle concludes with her signature wisdom: "You don't need a rich man. You need a generous man," emphasizing that women deserve partners who materialize their desires when capable, rather than subjecting them to public challenges for basic consideration.

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In this episode, Elle dives into a thought-provoking discussion about certain behaviors in public spaces. She examines a viral TikTok trend where a woman refuses to interact with waitstaff at a restaurant while their male partners handle all interactions. Rather than merely criticizing, Elle explores whether this behavior represents a k*nk being performed publicly, questions its claims to tradition, and asks what authentic princess treatment might actually look like. The episode culminates with Elle's powerful perspective that true femininity means self-alignment – encouraging women to authentically be themselves rather than conforming to restrictive rules that diminish their presence. Elle concludes that "princess treatment" should never mean making yourself small or silencing your voice.

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Join me on an eye-opening episode where we explore the complex history of women's biology being both weaponized and ignored. From Elizabeth Packard's shocking institutionalization in 1860 to modern discussions about the luteal phase, we'll examine how women's hormonal experiences have been pathologized while male hormonal influences remain largely unscrutinized. We'll dive into the science behind hormonal cycles, challenge outdated stereotypes, and discuss why understanding our bodies isn't weakness—it's power. Together, we'll explore what true liberation looks like when it comes to our health, moods, and bodies.

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In this episode, we unpack the loaded term "bridezilla" and why it's more than just a label—it's a symptom of deeper societal issues. From exploring how wedding planning has become women's unpaid labor to examining why men actually benefit more from marriage, Elle challenges the notion that wanting a well-executed wedding makes someone difficult. Through cultural critique, she reframes the "bridezilla" stereotype, arguing that these "monster brides" are often just women navigating unrealistic expectations, traditions, and the pressure to perform perfection. Tune in for a fresh perspective on why being called a bridezilla might just mean you're good at setting boundaries and advocating for yourself.

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