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  • Domestic Violence | Things Men Don't Want to Talk About Part 4 | MMC96

    In this installment of a five part series titled “Things Men Don’t Want to Talk About”

     for the Manlihood ManCast, Josh Hatcher of Manlihood.com talks about Domestic Violence.


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ON2lfVMnIP8


    There are two kinds of domestic violence I’d like to address. Neither of them get talked about much.


    Men abusing women and/or children. 

    This is unacceptable. If you’re caught in a cycle of this, you need to get help. Not talking about it is making you a monster. Because that’s who abuses women and children - monsters. You’re not a man, you’re a beast, or a little boy with beer muscles. Get help.


    Men abused by women.

    There’s got to be a tremendous amount of shame involved with this. Despite the fact that our culture has completely upended gender roles, there’s still a prevailing mindset, that a man is strong and that he is stronger than she is. 

    We also teach boys that it’s always wrong to hit a woman. So a man is actually trained to be susceptible to abuse because he’s trained not to fight back.


    If you’re being abused, get out. Get safe. 

    Don’t be a victim. 

    You don’t HAVE to talk about it with anybody you don’t want to talk about it with. But you do have to talk to someone to make sure it stops happening.


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    16 min
  • Sexual Abuse | Things Men Don't Want to Talk About Part 3 | MMC95

    In this installment of a five part series titled “Things Men Don’t Want to Talk About”

     for the Manlihood ManCast, Josh Hatcher of Manlihood.com talks about sexual abuse. 


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XsDenN8bhy0



    Here’s some information on male sexual abuse from 1in6.org


    A 2005 study conducted by the U.S. Centers for Disease Control, on San Diego Kaiser Permanente HMO members, reported that 16% of males were sexually abused by the age of 18.1

    A 2003 national study of U.S. adults reported that 14.2% of men were sexually abused before the age of 18.2

    A 1998 study reviewing research on male childhood sexual abuse concluded that the problems is “common, under-reported, under-recognized, and under-treated.”3

    A 1996 study of male university students in the Boston area reported that 18% of men were sexually abused before the age of 16.4

    A 1990 national study of U.S. adults reported that 16% of men were sexually abused before the age of 18.5


    That 1 in 6 statistic is based on reported, documented cases. There is a lot of reason to believe that the number is higher.




    Men who have experienced sexual abuse in their past are very likely to experience these issues:



    Symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder and depression.

    Alcoholism and drug abuse.

    Suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts.

    Problems in intimate relationships.

    Underachievement at school and at work.

    Bottom line is - Men don’t like to talk about it.

    But maybe we should. Maybe not out in the open in front of everybody, if that makes you  uncomfortable - but find someone you can trust and talk about it. See a counselor if you’ve found yourself struggling with depression, or ptsd, or suicidal thoughts. 


    You are not alone

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    17 min
  • Porn and Masturbation | Things Men Don't Want To Talk About Past 2 | MMC94

    Things Men Don't Want to Talk About: Pornography and Masturbation


    In this installment of a five part series titled “Things Men Don’t Want to Talk About”

     for the Manlihood ManCast, Josh Hatcher of Manlihood.com talks about Pornography and Masturbation.



    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2x1Ytt0qFQE


    Men don’t want to talk about what they do when no one is looking.

    For a few reasons.

    One reason, we don’t want anyone to tell us we shouldn’t do it….

    Or… we don’t want anyone to know we do it.


    Masturbation takes away from our power. It may seem like a release, or like a biological way to “clear the pipes.” But it’s not that. It actually decreases desire, and can create a situation where you are training yourself to the fastest way possible to orgasm. This is the opposite of what you need in the bedroom with your spouse.  



    Porn is harmful to men. It’s impact on the brain, impact on the emotions and addictive nature is never satisfied. 


    Porn is harmful to women.  It teaches men to devalue women, to degrade women. Porn is a nasty downward spiral of degradation toward women. That’s not was sex is meant to be.


    It’s also harmful because the industry is SATURATED with human trafficking, including underage girls. You may think you’re watching porn that is consensual, but when you hear the horror stories of how women have been enslaved and are doing it because they have no other choice… it will make you sick. Someone’s daughter was drugged up, tortured, threatened, and forced to make that porn.


    I was addicted to porn. It almost destroyed my marriage. It was not an easy fight. I would try to justify it or explain it away, but the truth is, I was  neglecting my wife and pleasing myself. I was gratifying my own desires - and it lead me to a dark place. It would have gone darker if I had continued. 


    If you want to look at facts, numbers, statistics, stories, of what porn is and what it does - check out FIGHTTHENEWDRUG.COM


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    28 min
  • Our Feelings | Things Men Don't Want to Talk About Part 1 | MMC93
    Things Men Don't Want to Talk About: Our Feelings

    In this installment of a five part series titled “Things Men Don’t Want to Talk About”

    for the Manlihood ManCast, Josh Hatcher of Manlihood.com talks about the way men don’t like to talk about their feelings.

    https://youtu.be/SBorfu0MRIc

    Dr. Amanda Rose of the University of Missouri did a survey of 2000 school aged boys and girls to explore feelings.


    "For years, popular psychologists have insisted boys and men would like to talk about their problems, but are held back by fears of embarrassment or appearing weak. However, when we asked young people how talking about their problems would make them feel, boys didn't express angst or distress about discussing problems any more than girls. Instead, boys' responses suggest they just don't see talking about problems to be a particularly useful activity."

    The reason men don’t like to talk about these things is not because of a deep shame or a fear of opening up.

    We don’t talk about our feelings generally, because we don’t see the point.

    There is a time and place to talk about how we feel. As men, we do tend to compartmentalize and shove emotion aside in order to function.

    That CAN backfire. We need to properly process our feelings. We may need to talk about it. There IS a point.

    But it’s not THE point.

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    20 min
  • Cancel Culture is a Crock | How to Combat Cancel Culture with Reality | MMC92
    Cancel Culture is a Crock

    In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, Josh Hatcher of Manlihood.com talks about Cancel Culture, and why we need to reevaluate our current culture of outrage.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fg39KfPIqoE

    1. There are things worth outrage.
    2. I have a right to freedom of speech. That includes what speech I’ll tolerate on my platform.
    3. Pointing fingers at someone we disagree with, calling or boycotts, calling to shut people up, demanding that people be silenced, is not going to change anyone’s mind.
    4. Freedom of speech has responsibilities.
    5. The simplest solution to speech that offends you is to walk away or turn it off.
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      16 min
    7. The REAL American Dream | What Americans Really Want | MMC91
      In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, Josh Hatcher of Manlihood.com talks about the American Dream, and what it is we all want from our country.

      https://youtu.be/YuqA1IK95vE

      In this time of political upheaval and division, it seems wise to look back at what it is we all want… what it is we all can agree on.


      The American Dream is pretty simple. We haven’t always got it right. We’ve often got it wrong.

      But ultimately - we all want the same things.

      To have the opportunity to work to earn a living to provide for ourselves and our families.
      To have the opportunity to advance our station.
      To be able to enjoy our freedoms and to be left alone while we do it.

      Where we get it wrong is when we try to take these things from people for one reason or another.


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      18 min
    8. How to Win a Fight | Things You Need To Know Before Fisticuffs | MMC90

      Josh Hatcher of Manlihood.com talks about how to win a fight.  

      First of all, the best way to win a fight is to avoid a fight.  If have to fight, make sure you are prepared.  It's good to get some basic self-defense training, and to make sure that you are able and ready to defend yourself or someone else if needed.   

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      19 min
    9. The Most Important Piece of Furniture You Own | MMC89

      Josh Hatcher of Manlihood.com talks about the most important piece of furniture you own.  

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      12 min
    10. 4 Things All Men Crave | MMC88
      Josh Hatcher of Manlihood.com talks about four things that all men crave. Do you have a question you'd like to have answered on The Manlihood ManCast? Send it to us here: http://manlihood.com/ask-a-man --------------- VISIT THE MANLIHOOD STORE FOR RESOURCES, APPAREL, AND MORE! http://manlihood.com/store More from Manlihood: http://manlihood.com More from Josh Hatcher: http://joshhatcher.com -------------- Don't forget to check out our sponsors / partners / affiliates:   GET A FREE STOCK FOR JOINING ROBINHOOD - https://join.robinhood.com/joshh826 Hatcher Media - http://hatchermedia.net   Honky EDC - http://honkyedc.com Out of Your Shell Poetry - http://outofyourshellpoetry.com
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    11. Who am I and what do I stand for? An Interview with Robbie Sondag | MMC87
      Josh Hatcher of Manlihood talks to Robbie Sondag of Manly Moments about what it means to be a man.  
      After losing his own father at age 18, he entered young adulthood, like many young males do - guessing at what it means to be a man.  After committing his life to Christ and searching Scripture, he came to a clearer understanding of what it means to be a real man. He made a commitment to help other man find answers to the questions they would normally ask their fathers.  
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