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Justin Willoughby used to weigh 799 pounds, Manlihood Host Josh Hatcher met him after he started losing that weight, but while he was still massive.Now, he’s lost 600 pounds, and survived a lot of other storms in his life.Confronting Life's Battles: An Inspiring Journey from Excessive Weight to Personal Growth

Justin Willoughby, who shares his transformation from being nearly 800 pounds to a healthier weight, dealing with food addiction, divorce, as well as anxiety and panic attacks. This discussions tackle the issues men face, importance of personal growth, friendship, accountability, and supportive relationships on the journey of self-improvement. Justin advocates for a caring approach to checking in on friends' well-being and reaching out for help. Justin and Josh define a man's identity, offering invaluable advice to their younger selves and listeners, creating an honest, heartfelt and motivational narrative.

Worldwide Notoriety

Justin has been featured in many major news outlets, including the Today Show, The Doctors, Inside Edition, Teen People Magazine, The National Enquirer, The Associated Press, The 700 Club and more.

More from Justin Willoughby

Official Website | http://justinwilloughby.com

600 Pounds Down Podcast | https://anchor.fm/600poundsdown

Instagram |  / instawithjustin  

Facebook  |  / 1stepnation  

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Welcome

00:09 The Weight Loss Journey of Justin Willoughby

01:14 The Manlihood ManCast and Its Audience

01:53 Invitation to Share the Podcast

02:04 Interview with Justin Willoughby Begins

02:37 Reminiscing Old Times and Friendship

07:28 Justin's Weight Loss Story

09:03 The Struggles and Triumphs of Justin's Journey

15:37 The Impact of Justin's Transformation

26:38 The Importance of Mental Health and Counseling

30:18 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Personal Growth

35:51 Dealing with Resentment and Forgiveness

37:14 The Power of Forgiveness in Relationships

38:00 Coping with Loss and Seeking Closure

39:57 The Journey of Healing and Personal Growth

40:11 The Importance of Patience in the Healing Process

40:27 The Power of Humility and Vulnerability

41:15 The Impact of Past Relationships on Present Ones

41:46 The Struggles and Triumphs of Remarriage

43:41 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

46:11 The Role of Accountability in Personal Growth

49:00 The Importance of Seeking Help and Being Coachable

50:08 The Power of Vulnerability and Transparency

59:13 The Importance of Accountability in Friendships

Justin appeared on a previous episode of the Manlihood ManCast last season: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rwpigf2IEA8

In this episode of MANLY CHUNKS OF WISDOM we’ll take a look at some of the amazing wisdom of Dostoevsky, quotes pulled from his novels “The Brothers Karamazov” and “Crime and Punishment amongst others.

If you like these Chunks of wisdom, download our free ebook 500 Chunks of Manly Wisdom: http://manlihood.com/chunks

“Above all, don't lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov

“Pain and suffering are always inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. The really great men must, I think, have great sadness on earth.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment

“To go wrong in one's own way is better than to go right in someone else's.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment

“I say let the world go to hell, but I should always have my tea.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Notes from Underground

“Man only likes to count his troubles; he doesn't calculate his happiness.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Notes from Underground, White Nights, The Dream of a Ridiculous Man, and Selections from The House of the Dead

“People speak sometimes about the "bestial" cruelty of man, but that is terribly unjust and offensive to beasts, no animal could ever be so cruel as a man, so artfully, so artistically cruel.” ― Fyodor Dostoyevsky

“The mystery of human existence lies not in just staying alive, but in finding something to live for.” ― Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov

“But how could you live and have no story to tell?” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, White Nights

“Taking a new step, uttering a new word, is what people fear most.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment

“The world says: "You have needs -- satisfy them. You have as much right as the rich and the mighty. Don't hesitate to satisfy your needs; indeed, expand your needs and demand more." This is the worldly doctrine of today. And they believe that this is freedom. The result for the rich is isolation and suicide, for the poor, envy and murder.” ― Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov

“Much unhappiness has come into the world because of bewilderment and things left unsaid.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky

“Nothing in this world is harder than speaking the truth, nothing easier than flattery.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky

In this episode of Manlihood, host Josh Hatcher's guest is retired US Marine Emilio Roman. Emilio shares his life journey, from the hardships of his childhood through his breakthroughs in overcoming alcohol addiction and becoming an acclaimed author.

More from Emilio Romanhttps://www.emilioroman.com/

 Emilio emphasizes the importance of stepping out in faith, taking responsibility, the healing power of community, and harnessing your courage to overcome adversity. He also discusses his approach to rehabilitation and how being honest with oneself is critical for healing. Lastly, Emilio talks about the power of discipline, understanding your purpose & impact, and creating meaningful personal & professional mission statements.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:51 Invitation to the Manlihood ManCast Community

01:32 Introducing Guest Emilio Roman

02:07 Emilio's Personal Journey and Overcoming Challenges

03:43 Emilio's Career and Involvement in Veteran Events

06:06 Emilio's Publishing Journey and Overcoming Self-Doubt

21:45 Emilio's Struggles and Triumphs in Sobriety

26:11 The Importance of Community and Sharing in Overcoming Struggles

27:19 The Healing Power of Hugs

27:53 Cultural Influences on Emotional Expression

28:25 The Impact of Early Life Experiences

28:54 The Journey to Sobriety

29:09 The Importance of Rituals in Recovery

31:10 The Role of Resentment in Relapse

31:41 The Power of Making Amends

32:41 The Struggle with Expectations

35:59 The Importance of Personal Development

36:37 The Power of Courage and Overcoming Failure

37:29 The Power of Community in Personal Growth

37:51 The Power of Accountability

40:06 The Role of Expectations in Relationships

40:26 The Importance of Clarity in Personal and Professional Life

40:46 The Importance of Personal Mission Statements

43:27 The Importance of Knowing Your Audience

48:18 The Importance of Courage in Personal Growth

49:53 The Power of Authenticity

49:53 The Power of Embracing Your Mess

52:47 The Importance of Spreading the Word

Happy New Year Everyone!

I thought I'd end out 2023 with a list of lessons that I learned this past year.

I love you all and wish you the best in the New Year!

In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher engages with E.J. Snyder, a notable personality from the reality TV show Naked and Afraid. Snyder shares how his experiences have shaped his life philosophy, emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility, mental strength, and constant self-improvement. Throughout the discussion, several serious topics are tackled such as bullying, violence, and the societal perception of masculinity. Snyder also highlights his efforts in promoting survival skills through his own website and training programs. Drawing parallels between iconic actors like John Wayne and modern masculine identity, the series also explores the significance of adapting to contemporary risks, with a particular focus on personal preparedness. The series encapsulates the idea that individual transformation is the key to societal change, inviting audiences to remain proactive in their personal growth. The series ends with a positive message expressing pride and love for their audience, while promising more insightful discussions in upcoming episodes.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:59 Invitation to Share the Podcast

01:18 Introducing the Guest: EGA Snyder

01:57 Interview Begins with EGA Snyder

03:25 EGA Snyder's Background and Career

06:30 EGA Snyder's Experience on Naked and Afraid

08:16 The Incident of Spearing His Testicle

15:12 EGA Snyder's Philosophy on Life and Survival

19:31 Discussion on Bullying and Self-Defense

29:05 The Impact of Technology on Modern Life

33:35 The Importance of Self-Sufficiency

34:09 The Journey of Self-Responsibility

34:57 The Importance of Mental Fitness and Health

36:42 Physical Activity and Spiritual Connection

38:02 Self-Defense and the Right to Protect

39:15 Preparation for Worst Case Scenarios

39:30 Survival in the Pandemic: Lessons Learned

41:24 The Concept of Tribalism in Community

41:54 The Ultimate Bug In and Home Defense Guide

42:35 Survival Outdoor Skills Series

43:42 The Importance of Training and Preparedness

48:40 Reflections on Being a Man

54:18 Advice for the Future

59:24 Final Thoughts and Ways to Connect

Errol James "EJ" Snyder, Jr., born on December 3, 1965, in Englewood, New Jersey, is an American survivalist and television personality widely known for his military service and appearances on various reality shows. Standing at an impressive height of 6'3" and nicknamed "Skullcrusher," EJ Snyder has had a remarkable and decorated career.

Website: https://ejsnyder.com/

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In the heart of the maelstrom that was World War I, amidst the chaos of battlefields and the deafening roars of machine guns, a most unexpected hero emerged—an unassuming man named Alvin York. York's journey was not one of conventional heroism; rather, it was a saga of unwavering courage, unyielding faith, and a relentless commitment to a higher calling.

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York has been called “The Deadliest Pacifist in US History.” After he single-handedly captured 132 enemy soldiers, they asked him how he did it. He said, "I surrounded them." Alvin York’s testicular fortitude was in his strategic brilliance that completely went against all of the conventional norms of warfare.

He was born in a log cabin near the Tennessee-Kentucky border in 1887, grew up in a family sustained by subsistence farming and hunting.  In 1915, he had an experience with God, and became a devout Christian As World War I engulfed the world, York, now a man of profound faith, sought conscientious objector status upon being drafted.  That pacifist position was challenged though, when he encountered Luke 22:36  "He who hath no sword, let him sell his cloak and buy one." Guided by those words from Jesus, York abandoned his initial stance and enlisted in the U.S. Army's 82nd Infantry Division.

The crucible of York's heroism unfolded on October 8, 1918, during the Meuse-Argonne offensive, the final Allied push against German forces. Tasked with seizing German-held positions, York's battalion was under fire - a German machine-gun nest rained bullets upon them. As chaos ensued and the unit's numbers dwindled, York was thrust to the forefront, commanding a squad of merely 17 men.

Undeterred by the odds, York, feeling a divine calling, advanced alone against the machine-gun position. Drawing upon his sharpshooting skills cultivated during Tennessee Turkey hunting days, he systematically neutralized the enemy. The undergrowth around him ablaze with gunfire, York's determination and marksmanship cut through the chaos,with lethal precision.

Ammo was running short. Six Germans charged him with bayonettes, and with only seven shots, he took out all six. As he approached the German commanding officer, the tide of the battle irreversibly turned. Faced with the inevitable, the officer surrendered his entire unit, a total of 132 men, in exchange for his life.

York's story reverberated far beyond the battlefield. Lauded as "the war's biggest hero" by The New York Times and hailed by General John J. Pershing as "the greatest civilian soldier" of World War I, York returned home to a hero's welcome. He leveraged his fame to found a school for underprivileged children, the York Industrial Institute.

In 1941, Hollywood immortalized his bravery in the movie "Sergeant York," starring Gary Cooper. 

When York died in 1964, President Lyndon Johnson eulogized him as "a symbol of American courage and sacrifice," embodying "the gallantry of American fighting men and their sacrifices on behalf of freedom."

Alvin York, A humble man propelled by faith and armed with unyielding determination, became a symbol of courage, defying expectations and inspiring generations. 

His name echoes as a testament to the enduring power of faith, courage, and commitment on the battlefield. Alvin York - a soldier with true Testicular Fortitude.

Enjoy a lively conversation with Bob Stromberg, an award-winning comedian, storyteller, and Josh Hatcher’s childhood hero! This podcast episode explores what it means to be a man, chats about Bob's fascinating personal life, his impactful school visits, his experience during a boxing match 'The Rumble in the Jungle', his encounter with Tom Hanks, and the significance of the words 'I love you' and 'I'm proud of you'. Bob also delves into some of his advice for men and his own life experiences, including aspects such as surrender, service, gratitude, and enjoying daily life. Tune in and get to know more about Bob Stromberg on this episode of the Manlihood ManCast.

Meet Bob Stromberg, a captivating guest on the Manlihood ManCast who brings joy to audiences of all ages with his distinctive blend of speaking, storytelling, and humor. Bob's presentations are characterized by their clean and casual style, marked by humility, and infused with a delightful mix of knee-slapping comedy and uplifting encouragement.

Renowned for his remarkable ability to connect with audiences, Bob excels in developing warm rapport, bringing people together, and eliciting surprising laughter. His arsenal of gifts includes physical comedy, a touch of audience participation that is never threatening, and even hand shadows, described as "stunning" by the London Metro. Audiences are treated to a memorable experience as Bob shares hilarious, tender, and thought-provoking stories from his own life, leaving them amazed and transformed.

In 1995, Bob co-authored the hit play "Triple Espresso, (a highly caffeinated comedy)," which started in Minneapolis and went on to become the longest-running stage production in the history of San Diego, seen by over two million people in eighty cities worldwide. The Chicago Sun Times praised Bob's role as "a mesmerizing physical comedian."

Following this success, Bob presented his solo show, "That Wonder Boy," described by Culture Buzz as "One of the most substantive comical one-man shows ever conjured." The show received acclaim, winning the three top awards Off Broadway at the United Solo Theatre Festival in New York City and later recognized as one of the top shows in the festival's first decade.

Bob, who resides in Minnesota with his wife Judy, continues to occasionally perform his theater shows and travels extensively as a featured comedian.

Videos from Bob Stromberg

https://youtu.be/ELUs7a0d5Q4?feature=shared

https://vimeo.com/298023934/eaedbcdc36

More from Bob Stromberg

http://bobstromberg.com

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

01:14 The Importance of Engaging with the Content

01:44 Introducing the Guest: Bob Stromberg

02:12 The Interview Begins: Childhood Memories

04:41 Bob's Early Experiences and Influences

05:14 Bob's Encounter with Muhammad Ali

06:45 Bob's Early Career in Zaire

09:34 Bob's Interaction with Tom Hanks

24:07 Bob's Reflections on Growing Up in a Small Town

28:35 Bob's Journey in the World of Performing Arts

31:06 The Impact of Lyme's Disease

34:08 City vs Country: Understanding the Differences

35:18 Adapting to Different Environments: From Small Towns to Big Cities

36:51 Cultural Differences: North vs South

37:37 Small Town Stories: Growing Up in Port Allegany (and Roulette)

40:14 The Journey to Manlihood: Starting a Podcast

41:54 The Impact of Parental Love and Support

54:41 Facing Health Challenges: A Personal Story

57:35 The Importance of Surrender and Service in Manhood

01:02:39 Advice for Men: Enjoy Life More

01:04:51 Final Thoughts: The Gift of Each Day

This episode of ASK A MAN provides insights and guidance for young men on how to cope with loneliness in a new environment, discusses the challenges of being a man in today's society, and provides advice on discovering personal identity.Do you have questions? Send them to us at http://manlihood.com/ask

We had a number of questions posed in the Manlihood ManCave - or private facebook group for men.  - http://facebook.com/groups/manlihoodmancave

Join us for powerful a conversation with bestselling author and manhood advocate, Jim Ramos. He shares deep insights into overcoming isolation through the power of community, and the vital role of practical and constructive conversations amongst men. Jim talks about his work with the Men in the Arena podcast and provides a sneak peek into his bestselling books. He also discusses the old testament, his favourite barbecue meats, and how activities like barbecuing bring men together. Hear about the free resources available on 'meninarena.org' and his books 'Tell Them' and 'ManLaws 101'. 

About Jim RamosJim Ramos stands tall as a champion of manhood, purpose, and unwavering faith. Born to make a difference, Jim is a bestselling author, compelling speaker, and the visionary founder of Men in the Arena, a non-profit Christian ministry that has become a beacon for men seeking to honor God through leadership in their families, churches, and communities.

Jim's journey is a testament to the transformative power of embracing one's calling. With fervor and conviction, he passionately proclaims that a man truly 'gets it' when he steps out of the bleachers and into the arena of leadership, a philosophy that resonates through every facet of his life.

At the heart of his impact is the Men in the Arena Podcast, the #1 ranked Spotify podcast for Christian men. Through insightful interviews with luminaries such as John Eldredge, Gary Chapman, Gene Getz, Patrick Morley, and Emerson Eggerichs, Jim provides a platform for profound discussions on Christian manhood, guiding men toward a deeper understanding of their purpose.

Beyond the airwaves, Jim Ramos has cultivated a robust community with the 12,000-strong Men in the Arena Facebook Group and a global network of Men in the Arena virtual teams. Here, men come together, support each other, and embark on a journey to become their best versions – united in strength and resilience.

Jim's impact extends beyond the digital realm. As a prolific author, he has penned numerous books, each a guidepost on the path to authentic manhood. From the #1 Amazon Bestseller "Strong Men Dangerous Times" to the insightful "Tell Them: What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters," Jim's words serve as a compass for those navigating the complexities of life.

More from Jim Ramos

Men in the Arena - https://meninthearena.org/

Podcast: https://podcast.meninthearena.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMenintheArenaX: https://twitter.com/JimWRamosInstagram: http://instagram.com/themeninthearenaYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/meninthearena

00:01 Introduction and Welcome

00:33 Upcoming Events and Announcements

02:09 Introducing Guest: Jim Ramos

03:03 Conversation with Jim Ramos Begins

03:22 Discussing the Men in the Arena Podcast

04:14 The Importance of Christian Community

07:01 The Power of Barbecue in Building Brotherhood

18:51 The Dangers of Isolation

23:32 Finding Community and Brotherhood

29:54 Personal Experiences and Reflections

36:12 Deepening Bonds Through Prayer and Support

36:47 The Importance of Positive Banter and Building Each Other Up

37:37 The Power of Long-lasting Friendships and Shared Experiences

38:31 The Need for Deeper Connections Among Men

39:20 The Role of Social Media in Spreading Positive Messages

40:00 The Impact of Marriage Advice on Social Media

43:45 The Importance of Prioritizing Your Spouse Over Your Children

48:57 The Challenges and Rewards of Entrepreneurship

51:44 The Journey of Writing and Publishing Books

54:28 Reflections on Past Experiences and Lessons Learned

01:00:05 The Importance of Community and Avoiding Isolation

In today's society, the concept of privilege has become a buzzword. We often hear about male privilege and the advantages that come with it. However, I believe there is a bigger picture that we need to consider. Instead of focusing solely on privilege, we should shift our perspective to the heart of the matter and explore how responsibility can make a real difference in someone's life. In this blog post, we will delve deeper into this topic and discuss why responsibility is a heavier weight than privilege.

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Responsibility Over Privilege:

The notion of privilege has taken on different connotations over the years. It can now be associated with the idea of being handed everything on a silver platter. However, as a man, I believe that manhood is not about privilege but about shouldering responsibility. To be a man is to understand that being stronger physically or having a unique way of thinking comes with the responsibility to care for and support those around us.

Leadership and Service:

One aspect of manhood that aligns with responsibility is leadership. While both men and women can be leaders, for men, it often means taking on the role of leadership in the home. However, it is essential to differentiate true leadership from lordship. True leadership is about serving others and making decisions that benefit those under our care. It is not about demanding obedience or seeking personal privilege but rather guiding and honoring those around us.

Doing the Right Thing:

Another aspect of responsibility is doing the right thing, even when it may be challenging or require sacrificing personal gain. We must strive for morality and set an example for others by upholding ethical values. As men, it is our responsibility to strive for what is right and to ensure that our actions align with our principles. By doing so, we create a positive influence on those around us.

Shifting Perspectives: Earned vs. Deserved:

A crucial shift in mindset is moving away from a sense of entitlement and recognizing that we do not inherently deserve anything. Instead, we should focus on earning the things we receive and being grateful for the blessings that come our way. It's about understanding that responsibility brings more fulfillment than privilege ever could. By working hard and earning what we have, we cultivate gratitude and appreciation for life's blessings.

Conclusion:

Responsibility is a weight that we should willingly carry as men. It surpasses the fleeting nature of privilege and grounds us in our purpose. By embracing responsibility, we not only make a difference in our own lives but also in the lives of those around us. Let us shift our focus from privilege to responsibility and strive to be men who lead through service, do the right thing, and live with gratitude. Together, we can create a better world by recognizing that responsibility is a heavier weight than privilege.

Thank you for reading, and I invite you to join the discussion in the Manlihood Man Cave group on Facebook. Share your thoughts on this topic and let's continue the conversation.

I love you and I'm proud of you.

- Josh Hatcher, Host of the Manlihood ManCast

00:00 Introduction and Upcoming Event Announcement

02:25 Welcome to the Manlihood ManCast

02:56 Understanding Privilege and Responsibility

03:09 The Concept of Male Privilege

05:57 The Responsibility of Being a Man

09:03 Leadership and Responsibility

11:25 Doing the Right Thing: A Man's Responsibility

13:26 The Difference Between Privilege and Responsibility

18:07 The Weight of Responsibility

18:55 Conclusion and Invitation to Manlihood ManCave