Dear Manna Family,
The God of the Bible is a God who loves. He is also a God who hates. God loves what is good and hates what is evil. Solomon writes in
Proverbs 6:16 There are six things which the LORD hates,
Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:
Vs 17 Haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
And hands that shed innocent blood,
Vs 18 A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that run rapidly to evil,
Vs 19 A false witness who utters lies,
And one who spreads strife among brothers.
This is really strong language. Abomination: something that God loathes. God detests people who spread strife among brothers. Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers.” The inverse of that is, “Cursed are the troublemakers.” If the peace makers are blessed, then the peace-breakers are cursed.
Proverbs 16:28 “A slanderer separates intimate friends.”
Slander is saying things about another person that are not true with an intent to hurt them. Slander separates people and creates conflict.
This is Satan’s goal. He wants to separate people from God, and from each other. ‘Divide and conquer by means of deception’ is Satan’s primary strategy for conquest. Jesus said, “A house divided against itself cannot stand.” Luke 11:17. Someone who starts quarrels in their family is tearing down their house with their own hands. A family feud can destroy a family; a civil war can destroy a nation. And most wars begin with words. Words can calm a quarrel like oil on water, or they can detonate a disagreement into a wildfire that destroys everything in its path.
God hates slander and gossip, because they create conflict between His children. Remember, God is a Father. Every parent hates it when their children fight with each other. When God’s family is fragmented, love loses, hate rules, and the world ridicules. Jesus said in
John 13:35 “By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
Mutual love for one another is the strongest evidence that Christ lives inside us. We can choose to love others, because Jesus first loved us.
In 1965, Hal David and Burt Bacharach wrote a song called,
“What the world needs now, is love sweet love;
It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of.”
That’s true; there seems to be permanent shortage of love in our world. Many people are literally starved for love.
The love they really need is not human love. What people really need is God’s unconditional love. God created us to give and receive love. Sadly, sin has corrupted our hearts, and damaged our ability to love. Sin makes us selfish, but when we surrender our lives to Jesus, His love fills us so we can love others.
When we love others, conflict is resolved and harmony results. Jesus was so big on harmonious relationships between people that He said,
“If you come to worship God, and remember that your brother has something against you, first go and be reconciled with your brother, and then come back and worship God.” Matthew 5:23-24.
Jesus said, don’t come to worship God, with broken relationships in your life that you are unwilling to reconcile. Reconcile first, and then come and worship God. The key to mending broken relationships is forgiveness and reconciliation.
Romans 12:18 “If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men.”
I know that reconciliation takes two people, not just one. However, we should do whatever we can to promote reconciliation and peace. Be a peacemaker, not a peace-breaker, and God will smile.
Remember, God designed us “to do life together!”
Love and prayers,
Brad
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