Listen in on today's episode where are going to explore the four different categories we move information about ourselves into.  We will dive into the concept of the Open Self and the Blind Self that come from the book "Messages" that helps us understand ourselves better so that we can communicate more effectively.  The more we understand how we are living from the Hidden Self and the Blind Self, the more we can start to move the information we discover about how we function in this world into the category of the Open Self, which is where intimacy can become even deeper.  Listen in to discover one of the traps many people fall into when it comes to doing our own personal work and wanting our spouse to do their work as well.  And finally we will discuss three levels of communication that will lead us to communicating more openly and more effectively in our marriage.