Interview With Trevel Henry on The 20th November 2020

As this is anti-bullying week Trevel and I discuss bullying from a few different perspectives.

We talk about the psychological impact of bullying and the fact that ninety-eight percent of human beings can suffer a phobic reaction caused by interpersonal human conflict compared to only fifteen percent who would suffer a phobic reaction if confronted by a snake. 

We discuss school-refusal phobia, a little known phenomena caused by bullying at school.

Trevel and I discuss the need for more openness and transparency, especially from men who tend to suffer in silence because they are supposed to be 'men'.

Workplace Bullying

We then look at the issue of workplace bullying, especially the subtle way that this can take place which can leave staff willing to put up with the pain and indignity of being verbally and physically abused as opposed to being disciplined by their management.

School Bullying and Defending Oneself

We talk about a situation where a bullied child had reached crisis point and defended himself only to be excluded by the school who knew about the bullying but wouldn't exclude the bullies due to the school full-inclusion policy. Which is bacially discrimination.

Certification

We discuss the reality that many staff face when training is decided on a 'certification' or 'accreditation' basis only, without any thought for the objectives that need to be met and how different agencies will have different sector operational and organisational objectives. 

we talk frankly about decisions being made about training by managers who use subjective opinion as opposed to an objective training needs analysis which can lead to techniques being omitted that should be used which leave everyone at risk. 

Underreporting

We reflect on the fact that when we first stated there was a large problem in under-reporting because staff felt that there was no point in doing so because nothing would get done.

And loads more ........

According to recent statistics a high percentage of people are unhappy. They are unhappy with their work, the situations they find themselves in and their lives in general which creates physical, mental and psychological problems. However, there is a simple solution and that is what this podcast is about. 

This is a radio interview I did on the Pete Price Radio Show back in 2008. 

The interview was about how far a person can go in protecting their home and where do we stand with regards to using reasonable force to do so.

In this interview we talk about whether a person can use a baseball bat or a knife to defend themselves, how I got started in the industry and why I wrote the book 'Understanding Reasonable Force'. 

The interview was done to clarify the confusion with regards to what a person can do to with regards to protect their home and how far a person can actually go in doing so. 

This interview was done a few years ago now but I feel that it may help some of you out there so I thought I'd share it with you because it may help you if you are worried, feeling stuck or helpless as many people are during this current pandemic. 

I just hope it helps. 

Best Regards

Mark Dawes

https://www.nfps.info/youtube-marketing/ - YouTube is a phenomenal marketing platform that is underused by lots of businesses, so if you are not using YouTube as a platform to showcase your product and services you really need to be taking a look at that now - https://www.nfps.info/youtube-marketing/ 

This is a very simple saying and it of course applies to ladies and everyone else too - "If You Want To Be Rich, Do What The Rich Guy Does".

So why don't more people do just that? Well one reason is that they don't invest in themselves so instead of investing in a course from someone who has already achieved what they want to achieve they go and find a cheaper course and this highlights that the person may also have a "fortress mentality" in so much as they want to be the best but only pay the cheapest price.

Enjoy!

Marketing should be the lifeblood of your business. Without marketing businesses find it hard to compete with their competitors so I recommend that over 50% of your time should be spent marketing your business. 

www.nfps.info/urf - Our New Online Understanding Reasonable Force Course will be going live again on Friday the 7th August, so if you missed out last time and you don't want to miss out again, go to www.nfps.info/urf and register your interest now and you'll be first in the queue when we sent out the email on Friday morning that the course is live!

I look forward to seeing you on the course!

Best Regards

Mark

Having the ability to make a good discretionary judgement call will depend entirely on a person's judgement at any given moment in time and that judgement will be as good or as bad as the training, skills, knowledge that the person has been given, combined with their experience and overall competence.

An article today reported that an infected nurse at a training event where staff didn't wear masks or obey social distancing rules triggered a Covid-19 outbreak at the Hillingdon Hospital in West London.

It seems that a training session on June 30 was the source of the outbreak, and nurses who went did not all wear masks or stay socially distanced.

Hospital bosses have apparently revealed that at least 70 staff were in self-isolation and 'a number' of them had tested positive for Covid-19. 

As a result the hospital started diverting ambulances to other hospitals on July 7.

In another article posted on the HSE website entitled 'Consultant fined for providing incompetent health and safety advice' Luton Crown Court heard how a self-employed health and safety consultant provided inadequate and flawed advice. The article also said: "Where health and safety consultants are found to be in breach of legislation, HSE will hold persons to account for their failings". 

I know we are all keen to get back to training and some have agencies have been training all through covid, but this is a stark warning to all of us about the importance of social distancing, ppe, the importance of risk assessments and in having the right control measures in place.