Pain, loss, and unanswered questions about God can leave people feeling stuck, bitter, and far from hope. Guest author Kari Dumouchel-Parker has walked through decades of both mountaintop beauty and real-life trauma, and she’s turned those experiences into powerful stories designed to help readers heal. Drawing from over 30 years of backpacking in the Smoky Mountains, Kari weaves together physical danger, solitude, and problem-solving on the trail with the emotional and spiritual work required to face heartbreak, abuse, grief, and fear. In this episode, Kari shares how her long-distance hiking adventures, getting lost, crossing dangerous rivers, facing washed-out trails, and pushing through exhaustion became living metaphors for navigating life’s hardest seasons. She talks about the moment she chose to trust God’s sovereignty in the face of real-world danger on the Appalachian Trail, and how that same trust shows up in her characters and stories. These wilderness experiences shape the emotional landscape of her novel Sanctuary, where the main character, Tess, leaves everything familiar in Florida to start over in the West, confront her pain, and rediscover who she is.
Kari also dives into her core belief that real growth comes through pain. An easy life rarely forces anyone to look inward, but hard events expose our character, our blind spots, and our patterns. She explains the crucial choice we all face after a traumatic or painful event: either get stuck in bitterness and stay emotionally frozen in that moment, or take time to analyze what happened, what we contributed, and what we’re being invited to learn. For Kari, forgiveness is not about excusing the offender or pretending the hurt didn’t matter; it’s about stepping out of the emotional “ring” with that person and handing them over to God, so we can finally move forward with mental and emotional freedom. Her nonfiction book God Reigns introduces readers to who God is, what His attributes reveal about His heart, and the hidden snares that quietly stall spiritual growth. It tackles the everyday battles believers face, the lies that keep people stuck, and the reality that God deeply loves and pursues each person. Sanctuary, by contrast, uses the vehicle of romance and adventure to explore wounds, identity, and the longing for a great love. Tess encounters two very different men and experiences two distinct kinds of love, all while wrestling with grief, past trauma, and the search for purpose. Kari draws from her own loss of her husband, as well as real-life professional experiences that inspired the backstory of the antagonist, to ground the novel in emotional truth.
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Throughout the conversation, Kari emphasizes identity, calling, and the current cultural confusion over who we are. She believes that knowing you are deeply loved by God and understanding something as basic yet profound as truly embracing your identity unlocks the ability to live out your calling with clarity and confidence. Her hope is that Sanctuary and God Reigns will help readers process their pain, release lifelong bitterness, and recognize the quiet ways God has been calling and “wooing” them all along. If you’re wrestling with trauma, spiritual questions, or the fear of starting over, Kari’s stories and insights offer both a challenge and an invitation: you don’t have to stay stuck in the past; you can step into healing, forgiveness, and a new chapter of life with God at the center.
Quotes:
“A lot of people don’t want to forgive because they feel like if they forgive, they’re releasing the other person from the bad event. They think they’re punishing the other person, when in fact they’re punishing themselves.”
“If your life is easy, you don’t have any reason to grow because you don’t have any chance. You think you’re okay; you don’t see that there’s a personality issue that may have led you down the wrong road.”
“When you forgive, God says they’re My problem; they’re not your problem. You can get out of the ring, go on and live your life, and whatever that person’s situation is, it’s not yours anymore.”
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God Reigns on Amazon
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