Here are a few of the things I’m doing over the next few weeks to prepare me for the new year.

On today’s episode Russell talks about some basic rules of thumb to use to feel much better and more energized. He also lays out his new years strategy and what he’ll be focusing on each day.

Here are some awesome things in this episode:

• Russell gives some interesting menu ideas to help you feel better and dominate the world.
• He goes over his strategy for the new year to be able to focus on different aspects of his business.
• And he also gives you some new ideas about different networks you can use to advertise other than Facebook.

So listen below to hear Russell’s strategy to be able to hit the new year running!

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Hey everyone, good morning. This is Russell and welcome to Marketing In Your Car. All right, all right, all right. As you can probably tell, I sound a little better today than I did yesterday. I wanted to send you guys that message from my death bed, so you could … Two reasons: One, I wanted to document it for myself, how crappy I felt. And number two, I wanted to make a point that most people are living like zombies and they don’t even know it. If you just change a couple little things, you feel so much better. Especially, when you’re trying to dominate and take over the world. You’ve got to feel good if you’re going to take over the world. If not, you’re kind of in trouble. The whole way around it’s not good.

I wanted to give you guys some practical advice today, because some of you guys aren’t going to want to change your diet and do a bunch of crazy things. Some of you guys don’t want to lose weight, you just want to feel amazing all day.

Here is the basic rule of thumb, if you just want to feel amazing so you can dominate everybody. Step one, first thing in the morning, do not eat any carbs or any protein. Your day needs to begin on fats. That’s it. Just fats. What that means is, if you are a coffee drinker I’d recommend googling, Bullet Proof Coffee, and learn how to make that. If you’re not a coffee drinker like me, you can make a variation of that. Basically, it’s high fats. What you’re looking for are: butter, MCT oil, and if you are going to eat a whole food its going to be avocado. That’s your morning domination.

I did a Periscope the other day called the avocado bomb, which if you missed it, go search avocado bomb on the blog or if you go to Marketingquickiesshow.com, you can see it there as well. Basically, it’s an avocado, you chop it in half, you pull out the seed, you throw some salt on it, where the pit came out you fill those full of MCT oil, and you eat that. That’s like an amazing breakfast. All you eat for breakfast are fats. That’s rule number one.

Rule number two, is the first time you introduce proteins into your diet is around lunchtime. Lunchtime you can have tons of vegetables, lots of oil again, fats are good, and then if you want to introduce some meat; that is where you introduce it is at lunch. Still, there are no carbs. The second you have carbs, you’re done. Your day’s just screwed at that point. You should just go to bed, because it’s pretty much over. We start introducing proteins at lunch if you want to.

Dinner time is where you have it more complete; where you have your fats, your proteins, and then you can introduce a carb at dinner. At that point, you are just going to go to bed anyways, so it doesn’t matter if you feel like crap. The carbs we’re introducing, though, are not going to be donuts and stuff like that. Usually, what I’m going to have is sweet potatoes or yams. If you go to Whole Foods or probably most stores, they have bagged, pre-chopped up sweet potatoes that are awesome. They taste like candy. Just taking those, basically, you’re eating your chicken, your broccoli, asparagus, whatever, and then some of those. That’s your dinner.

If you guys just did that alone, most of you would probably start losing weight; but you would definitely start dominating more, because you wouldn’t feel tired. First time you feel tired is after dinner; but because it’s yams and not donuts, it wouldn’t be a bad tired. It would be like, “I feel good. This gave me the glycogen boost.” I don’t know. The health guys are probably making fun of me, because I don’t really know what I’m talking about. I just know how I feel when I do it this way. That’s it. High fat. Leading with high fat in the morning. Introducing proteins at lunch. If you want carbs, then have them at dinner. If you just follow that alone, you’ll feel amazing. I feel great today.

The next day, all I did this morning was I drank some butter, and I feel great. I, almost, hate having lunch, because that’s when I start introducing some of the other stuff. I just like having just this. There’s my hint for those who are wondering how to quickly get out of a slump, and it’s amazing. Yesterday, I was feeling like crap, so about lunchtime I had my high fat thing, and it just flipped it all around. I felt better almost instantly afterwards. It’s amazing how much your body is craving, your brain needs the high fats. Avocados, MCT oil, and butter; that is the staple of your diet, if you want to feel amazing.

With that said, I’m headed to the office today. It’s a couple days before New Year’s, and my job is to get a bunch of stuff done so that when we hit January 1st, I can run really, really, really fast. A couple things, if you’ve been listening to the podcast, especially, over the last week or so; I did one sharing with you guys the business model for the year. That’s our business model. We’ve got two core businesses. One is DotComSecrets, which is the training side of our business. Then, ClickFunnels, which is the ClickFunnels side of the business.

In both of those businesses, we have a webinar that will be happening once a week. The other cool thing I was listening to Justin and Tara over at 8minutemillionaire.com, their podcast is the only podcast I really listen to right now. I really enjoy it, so you guys should go check theirs out if you’re not listening to it yet. They were talking about compartmentalizing, and how they structure their day. For them, Thursday is content day, and things like that. I really like that a lot. In fact, I’m going to go, and today one of my goals is to figure out my week. Where I know every Thursday is sales day. All I’m doing Thursday, I’m waking up, I have nothing else on the docket, except for selling. I’m going to be doing a webinar for DotComSecrets, and the webinar for ClickFunnels and that’s it. When those are done, I go home and I don’t do anything else.

Thursday is sales day. That’s all I’m allowed to do, and I’m going to figure out what the other days like, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday are maybe Funnel days. I hope, those are my favorite days. Friday might be content day, where I’m building out the content for the next thing. That’s where I’m leaning towards. I’m going to be planning out my weekly schedule, and really start to focus on that this year, as well. I think, before, I’m kind of all over the place; where I’m doing this and I’m doing that and I’m everywhere. As opposed to, Friday is content day, therefore, what I have to do today is I’ve got to write three blog posts, ten emails on both companies, all the emails, record these two modules for this training, and blah, blah, blah. Whatever those things are, but it’s just content day and that whole day is only allowed to build content. I’m not allowed to build on Funnels. I’m not allowed to do anything else. Then, maybe Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday are Funnel days. Really, Monday would be advertising day. Tuesday, Wednesday are Funnel days. Thursday’s sales day. Friday content days. I don’t know. Something like that.

See how powerful that is, if you know that going into it. Most of us, our brains go to what we enjoy the most. To me, my favorite thing is building stuff. The problem of building stuff is, in and of itself, it doesn’t make you any money. Things that make you money are marketing and sales. The funnel is the thing in the middle that converts that, but I’ve got to be selling and I’ve got to be marketing. Monday might be my marketing day, where I’m sitting down with John for an hour, who does all of our ad stuff; Brent, who does our inbound stuff; Dave, who’s doing our partnership stuff; and having one hour each with those guys. Just planning, brainstorming, figuring out, moving the needle forward, so that day’s all focused on how to get new blood in. Tuesday, Wednesday focused on building cool stuff. Thursday sales. Friday content. I’m kind of liking that. Anyways, I’ll figure it out for sure.

I recommend for you guys is figure out some kind of schedule as well. If you don’t block out time for the necessities with stuff you have to do to make money; I promise you that all the stuff you want to do will creep in and drown the things that you really need to do. I know this from experience. When we were doing webinars consistently, we made way more money, and then I’m like, “Oh. Let’s do automated webinars.” Then, I started … When the focus is off of sales, everything drops, so trying to make it where we really have hard focuses like that. That’s my game plan, and I recommend you guys doing something similar, so when we hit January 1st, which is not far off, we can all run really, really, really quick. That is kind of what’s happening over here. I hope that gives you some ideas.

What else is awesome? I don’t want to leave you guys while I’ve got you here. So many fun things that we’re think about, doing, and talking about. A couple other things that we’re going to be doing this year that hopefully give you guys some ideas, as well. Everyone, I think, has become so reliant on Facebook ads. It’s become the crutch for almost everyone. It scares me for my own business, for your guy’s, and everybody’s. This year, I recommend trying to find out new sources for you.

A couple of things we’re doing; some of you know Success Magazine, we’re going to be buying some ads in Success Magazine. Plus, their online stuff, we’re going to be testing out a whole bunch of things there. Our dream clients are reading and subscribed there. That’s one big thing we’re going to be focusing on. Also, I’m excited for this. I’m not sure if you guys have ever been to advertising.com, but really cool advertising platform that we haven’t tested yet. I’m going to spend some time in January trying to learn that network. They’ve got really good customization, where we can target business owners, entrepreneurs, and things like that. You’ll see if you go to advertising.com; you see what it is and how it is. I haven’t used it yet, so I’m not sure. I’m going to be focusing a lot more on that and those types of things, just to diversify.

We’re also going to be focusing, and I’ll be sharing this with the inner circle in a couple weeks when they’re all up here; but focusing hard on building up conservative, Republican lists. I think over the next twelve months is going to be a chance, for those who take advantage of it, to build up million plus person email list and Facebook followings in the political arena. Just so you guys know on our side, we buy a lot of ads on political lists. If I can be the one who controls that political lists, that’s even better. Right? That’s one of the big focuses that we’ve got for this year, as well. Just some hints for some cool things that we’re doing on our side. That’s about it. All right guys. I’ve laid down some hints. Given you guys some ideas. Hopefully, gives you some fuel for today to think through some things.

Hopefully, change your diet a little bit, so you have a little more energy. A little more focus, so you can take over the world. With that said, I am pretty much at the office, you guys. I’m going to bounce. Have an amazing day. We will talk to you guys all again very, very soon. Bye.

Is what you eat directly affecting your daily performance?

On this special day-after-Christmas episode Russell talks about using the holiday to eat whatever he wanted all day maybe wasn’t a good idea. He also talks about why the Flu shot is a scam.

Here are 3 interesting things on today’s episode:

• Why Russell regrets what he ate on Christmas.
• Why Russell thinks the Flu shot is a scam and why he believes the Flu is actually caused by the garbage we put into our bodies.
• Why changing your diet will help you take over the world.

So listen below to hear what Russell ate yesterday and why he feels like crap today.

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Hey everyone, this is Russell Brunson and welcome to Marketing In Your Bed. That’s right, I am still laying in bed right now. Hey everyone, so this is a special episode. It is the day after Christmas and I am laying in my bed, like I said. I am not going to be driving to the office today. I’m hanging out with the kids, having fun and yesterday was Christmas and it was awesome. The day before Christmas, I think I did a podcast, it was snowing and so we went and built huge snow forts, which was awesome.

Then Christmas eve, we were up super late. My family tradition, my wife and I’s tradition, well it’s more mine, I don’t think she really likes it, my favorite Christmas show is Family Man with Nicholas Cage. We stayed up all night watching Family Man and wrapping presents, which was awesome. Went to bed at about 2:00 and then the kids have a rule that they’re not allowed into our room until 7, so I think they were up at about 3:00 in the morning and they’re sitting there in their rooms waiting until 7. At 7:00, they run down and wake us all up for Christmas. I only had four or five hours of sleep, so we were pretty beat.

We did Christmas and then, I thought, you know what, it’s Christmas, I’m going to eat and do whatever I want. I had like 20 bowls of cereal. I had Fruity Pebbles cereal. I had Reese’s Puffs cereal. I had Marshmallow Mateys cereal. I had every cereal we had, I had a bowl of that. I bought my own pint of egg nog. I drank that. Oh, so good. By the way, egg nog, I found out, for a half a cup has like 23 grams of sugar. Maybe it was 33. It was something crazy like that.

Yeah, yesterday, I was like, “You know what, screw it, I’m eating whatever I want.” I ate whatever I want. What was interesting is throughout the day, I could not keep my eyes open, I couldn’t keep my body awake. Collette and I both kept passing out. She would pass out on the couch after the whole opening presents and they’re playing and she’s passed out and I wanted to too. I was like, “Okay, I’ve got to stay awake,” because of Norah. She could choke on half the new stuff we got. I’m watching Norah. Collette slept for two hours and then Norah fell asleep, so I laid down and boom I was gone.

Then the whole day, we were half awake, half asleep the whole day. I felt like a mummy. I felt like I was like this … I don’t know, I couldn’t keep my eyes open. Then, this morning I woke up and I feel like I got hit by a train. I feel horrible and I realized, my voice sounds kind of funny right now, it had to do with the fuel I was putting in my body. I was putting in horrible food because I could barely keep my eyes open throughout the day. It is amazing, because I eat pretty clean typically. If you follow me at all, you know I eat a really high-fat diet, low carbs, things like that, and I usually feel amazing. I usually have a ton of energy and I usually just feel really, really good.

Even the fact my testosterone levels are super low and my testosterone doctor was like, “How are you standing right now?” I’m like, “What do you mean?” He’s like, “This is really low, you should not feel good.” I’m like, “I feel great.” He was like, “That doesn’t make any sense.”

Because of my diet, I feel really, really good all time. Yesterday, after eating probably what most people eat normally, I felt like garbage. I couldn’t even keep my eyes open. I literally, the whole day, felt like I was in this foggy haze where I couldn’t even keep my eyes open. It was horrible. Today I’m going to start eating normal again. I’m really excited just to feel the difference again.

It’s interesting, the fuel you put in your body, how big of an effect it has, I was thinking, I don’t think most people in the world, and maybe you at this point, and this is why I’m sharing this, if you’re eating cereal for breakfast and stuff, it’s destroying your performance. I can tell you now, after seeing the way that most Americans eat, it’s bad. I couldn’t keep my eyes open. How do you function? How do you expect to come in and dominate whatever you do if you feel like that? It has 100% to do with the fuel you’re eating.

You know, it’s interesting, I was just like that my whole life. I never knew it, because I know it had a bad effect on me because you’re always in that state, you assume that’s what you’re supposed to feel like, right? I was always in that state and then first when I started thinking about it differently is when I went to a Tony Robbins event and I still remember one of the interesting things he talked about was, he talked about the flu, and showed the science behind a flu shot and how basically the whole thing is pretty much a big scam.

All it is is a way for these guys to make billions and billions and billions of dollars but how there’s no actual proof that any of it really works. Then they started showing the proof of what is shown that the truth is, is Halloween comes around, we eat a whole crap ton of candy and then Thanksgiving comes, we eat a whole bunch of horrible food and then Christmas comes, then New Year comes, and it’s like a month and a half, two months of just horrible eating. By about January, so our body is so broken down that we start getting the flu. It shows its direct correlation to the holiday eating patterns and flu viruses and how that’s how that goes, interesting.

That year, I remember we went down to my parents’ house for Thanksgiving dinner, or for maybe it was Christmas, I can’t remember. Yes, it was Thanksgiving. On the drive down, we all got sick. My wife got sick. My daughter got sick. They nicknamed that Thanksgiving “Tsunami Collette” because my wife started it, she got sick first, and by the time we were done, everyone in the whole entire house, all my cousins and everyone had gotten sick.

I was thinking about it. That was the first time I started thinking, “Man, it’s because of all this crap we’re eating,” and that’s what Tony said. Now I try to, especially during the holidays, I’m very conscious of what I eat. Last week, we did a juice fast the whole week before Christmas. I’m like, “I want to protect myself from feeling the way I feel right this second.” Yesterday, I thought, you know what, who cares, I’m just going to go and live it up for a day. It’s just crazy interesting, and I believe in what Tony said, you know, that year we all got the flu and that year, it was weird because that year we actually had flu shots.

Then every year since then, we have never had flu shots, so I think we’re pretty anti-flu shots now and we’ve never been sick during a holiday since. It’s really, really weird the correlation of what we’re eating and how we’re feeling and how we’re getting sick and the flus and all these things, has 100% to do with the fuel we’re putting our bodies. Just wanted to record this for myself and for everyone else, to document why as I’m laying here in bed, how I’m feeling. I feel … My nose is stuffed, my brain’s all foggy. I feel like, ugh, I don’t even want to move. It all is from yesterday’s carb binge. It was horrible. It was amazing, it tasted good. I’m not going to lie. Yeah, it was really, really bad.

If you’re not feeling like you’re in a spot every morning when you wake up where you just want to dominate the world and take over everything, and you feel like just ugh all the time, or if you don’t feel great all the time, you just feel normal, normal is not a good thing. I think what I felt yesterday is what normal people feel like every day. It scares me. I feel so bad for everybody now. If you want to feel amazing, it’s time to shift your diet and think differently about how you’re eating. Yeah, that’s my message for today.

I am going to eat really, really good today and see how quick it can counteract. Our bodies are amazing how fast they can respond to things. I’m going to go eat some good stuff, flip it around and see if a day of amazing eating will counteract a day of crap eating.

All right guys, so that’s it. Getting out of bed now. Going to go conquer the day. I will talk to you guys all again soon. Bye everybody.

It looks like my email yesterday struck a chord with a few of you…

On this episode Russell talks about his juicing diet that he and his team are doing for one of his Inner Circle members. He also talks about why he has decided to shut down his Ignite Program.

Here are a few things to listen for in today’s episode:

• Russell explains why he is shutting down his Ignite program.
• Why he is only focusing on his Inner Circle program and how many people he is letting join.
• And how you can sign up to be a part of the Inner Circle and why you should.

So listen below to find out how you can be a part of Russell’s Inner Circle.

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Hey, everybody. This is Russell Brunson, and welcome to “Marketing in Your Car.” All right, everybody. Hope you’re having an amazing day today. I’m heading in to the office and we have sun shining. It’s beautiful. I think it’s still cold, but the sun’s up, so it makes you feel like you’re … Makes you feel better, so that’s exciting.

Anyway, I’m really excited for today. We actually started a company-wide juice fast yesterday, so one of our … We have a new person named G from over in London. When I was in London I met her, and then she joined the Inner Circle, and she’s working on a juice cleanse product and a bunch of stuff like that.

I was like, “Basically, we needed some results,” and she’s like, “Well, I’ve got a lot of people I’ve done it for, but I don’t have any videos.” I’m like, “All right. I’m going to drop everything on this side. I’m going to get my entire company to do it, and we’re going to become your testimonials.” It’s kind of cool. Everyone, this week, is on a week-long juice fast and documenting the process and creating cool video content for her, for her new upcoming launch, which will be fun.

Just one of the fun things we do for our Inner Circle members that’s cool. Anyway, day one was actually really fun. It was interesting. I do weird stuff all the time, as you guys know if you’ve listened to this podcast for any amount of time. I’m drinking and eating and trying all sorts of weird stuff. I actually really enjoy juicing.

When I juice, typically it’s hardcore. I don’t put any fruits or berries or those wussy things that make them taste good. I just go straight for the hardcore. I’m using cucumber, fennel, celery, and some lime for some taste and that’s what I drink. Most people think it’s disgusting but I love it. It’s glowing green, so you drink it … I feel like I’m drinking ooze from Ninja Turtles. I feel my whole body just, boom, exploding with alkalinity and power and energy.

Yeah, it doesn’t taste that good. It doesn’t taste bad, and in fact I like it a lot. I’ve become very accustomed to that, so I like it. If I give that to the average person the first time, they’d just be like … It’s like it’s a kick in the face or something. Is someone honking at me? I don’t even know. Anyway, that’s what we’re … I feel like someone’s honking at me but I can’t figure out who. I like pretty strange stuff. My taste buds are acquired to weirdness because of it.

Most of them aren’t, so we have this place called Tree City here in Boise and so I paid for a week of juicing, so they’re going in and we grab … Basically they give you six bottles of juice you drink all day. There’s one that’s called the Vitarrific, which is pure greens and ginger and really strong, which I think is awesome, but most everyone in the office is gagging on it and trying to keep it down. It’s pretty funny. Then there’s a coconut one, there’s one called CAB, which is carrot, apple, beet, which is really good. There’s coconut, there’s almond milk. Anyway, it’s really, really good.

Yesterday was fun. I was drinking them thinking it was like drinking candy and most of these guys are dry heaving. They’re in the bathroom every five minutes. It was awesome. Anyway, I love putting my team through crazy stuff like that when I can. That’s what we’re doing over here.

Yesterday I sent out something that got a lot more attention than I thought. A lot of you guys know for the last two or three years we’ve been running two coaching programs, our Ignite program and also our Inner Circle program. As they’ve grown way bigger than I ever had initially thought or hoped … Initially we thought we were going to get maybe fifty people in Ignite and twenty-five in Inner Circle, but it’s grown to the point where we’ve got almost two hundred in Ignite and Inner Circle now we’re about seventy, which is crazy.

The other thing I’m looking at is how much time it’s taking from me, and it’s just been really hard as it keeps on growing. My thought was, “Do we keep growing it? Do I shift focus from other things to just keep expanding this, or do we change it and shrink it?” With ClickFunnels growing as amazingly as it has, it doesn’t make sense for me to keep adding more things on that side.

We actually, yesterday, announced that we’re shutting down our Ignite program. Everyone who’s in, we’re going to continue to fulfill over the next twelve months of their contract. We’re just not allowing anybody new into the Ignite program. That’s happened on that side, which means those hundred and eighty people, there’s nowhere else for them to go now.

On the Inner Circle side, again, we’re at seventy-something people. I thought, “You know what? I think realistically I could run three groups.” I really enjoy running those groups. It’s the coolest entrepreneurs. People get such big results. Everyone who’s in those groups are doers who are having success. We basically got two and almost two and a half groups filled up.

I sent an e-mail yesterday saying when the third group’s filled, it’s done. I’m locking the doors, and the only way we’ll ever let people into the Inner Circle again is if someone drops out. As you guys probably know, it’s not a cheap program. It’s twenty-five grand a year. What’s cool is that most of our people, after the year’s up, have been re-signing up, which just makes me feel awesome, obviously.

I’ve been trying my best to serve everyone at the best level I can and it just means a lot to me when people do come back. That’s what’s been happening. Yesterday I sent an e-mail saying I think it’s seventy-four are filled, so that means there’s twenty-six spots left. Within an hour we had over a hundred applications, which was awesome. Randy and Derek on my side are going like crazy today, trying to get back to everyone and get in touch with them. I’m pretty sure those spots are going to sell out really, really quick.

If you’re listening to this, listening today and you’re interested, this is the last shot. Every year I join a Mastermind group. You need to be in one. Ideally you should be in mine if you can. I hate to be … Obviously I’m biased, but I’ve been in probably eight or nine different groups and ours is by far the best, for a couple reasons.

First off, the facilitator’s pretty sweet. I know him, he’s a good guy. Second off, just the quality people we have has been amazing. It’s such a huge honor for me that that is the group we’ve put together. It gives you guys, if you’re in there, the ability to be surrounded with just amazing, amazing people.

Other masterminds that I’ve been in, usually I come in and I’m the smartest dude in the room, which I hate that, because it’s just … I feel like I’m the one facilitating the whole time, where this time, in our groups, I honestly feel … There’s times I sit back and I’m like, “I can’t believe I’m getting paid to be part of this, just to be in this room. I’m learning so much from everybody else.” It’s just a huge honor for me.

If you’re going to be in one … Again, everyone should be in at least one a year, otherwise you’re crazy. If you want to be in ours, now’s the time to get in there. All you have to do is go to RussellBrunson.com. Yep, I changed it over to RussellBrunson.com, so that when people ask … I was always telling them this long URL before. Now, if you’re interested, go to RussellBrunson.com and you can apply there. I would apply in … There’s a phone number on the thank you page. If you’re serious, call that number, because they got insane amounts of apps.

If you’re listening to this six months or a year down the road, I would still go through the process, even if we’re sold out. I might guess that each month, one or two spots will open up for people who have … Their year’s up and for whatever reason they don’t renew. The only way to get in is to be on that waiting list. That’d be the other thing, if you’re later on down the road. That’s what’s happening.

It’s interesting. I look at my business, my life. I really… The only thing that I want to be doing is obviously ClickFunnels, I want to focus eighty percent of my time there. I want to work really close with a hundred entrepreneurs, which is the Inner Circle. Then I want to be working on my own little things. That’s what I’m doing now and it’s pretty exciting. Anyway, I’m definitely, definitely excited for it. I’m excited to meet the last twenty-six people who enter into the Inner Circle. Our first meeting’s coming up in January and it’ll just be fun to get to know a new group of people.

Yeah, so I’m excited. We have a couple other really cool announcements coming up. I can tell you guys because it’s official now. I can’t remember if I told you guys yet or not, but we’ve got the signed contract, we’ve paid the down payment. For Funnel Hacking LIVE Event, Marcus Lemonis from “The Profit” is coming to speak, which is so exciting. That’s pretty cool. We’ll have more info on that hopefully next week or so. That’s just something I’m fired up about, as you can tell. Yeah, it’s pretty exciting.

With that said, I don’t have too much more for you guys. I just wanted to let you know that that’s what’s happening with my coaching stuff. People were freaking out, like, “Are you really retiring?” I’m like, “Well, kind of. Not retiring, but retiring from Ignite program, and Inner Circle we’re just locking it down. A hundred people will be in at a time, and that’s it.”

One of the other Masterminds I joined was supposed to be a small group, and it ended up getting a hundred people. Instead of breaking it up and doing the actual work, they just bundled everyone into one big group. I was at a Mastermind meeting with a hundred people, and I’m like, “You can’t, in two days, effectively work a hundred people in a group.” Our sweet spot’s about thirty-five people, so that’s basically how we have it broken up.

There’s three different groups. We meet thirty-five at a time, and we can actually get some work done and do some cool things in that kind of a format. That’s how we run ours. What else, what else? I think that’s it, you guys. I’m almost at the office. If you haven’t applied yet, go apply. RussellBrunson.com. If you’re already in the Inner Circle, then you’re in. Congratulations. You’ve locked it in. Don’t let your spot slip away to somebody else.

Anyway, that’s about it for today, you guys. Have an amazing day. I’m excited to go try to take over the world in my little way. Hopefully you’re doing the same thing as well, and we will talk again soon. Bye.

A short lesson Russell learned from his time at spam school…

On this episode Russell explains why he dabbled in being a spammer and how it went. He also talks about why he no longer makes decisions based on SEO stuff.

Here are 3 fun things to listen for in this episode:

• Why Russell used to feel like he was running away from the cops all the time, and it made it hard to sleep at night.
• How much money Russell paid to go to Spam School, and why it was valuable even though spamming ultimately wasn’t for him.
• Why Russell says instead of hiring a person over a long period of time to teach you things, you should hire the person who is best at it and suck all the information from them in a really short period of time.

So listen below to find out why Russell used to be a spammer, but why he isn’t any more.

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Hey, everyone, this is Russell Brunson, and welcome to another episode of Marketing In Your Car. Hey Everyone, so today is a cold, rainy day in Boise, Idaho. It’s Friday so I got a couple big things trying to get done, and then I’m going to go see … I’m really excited for this, Rand Fishkin, the CEO and the founder of SEOMoz is actually going to be coming to Boise and speaking which will be cool for a couple reasons. First off, last … how many years ago? Five or six years ago, maybe longer, I spoke at ClickBank Exchange and Rand was speaking as well which was cool. I felt bad because I had the big stage and then Rand had this little, tiny room. I went in there, and that dude is brilliant, so smart, it was awesome to listen to him and loved it back then. Just been a big fan of their stuff for a long time. I’m excited to go hear him speak, and I’m not sure if he’s speaking about SEO stuff or other things, but regardless, it’ll be fun to go and get some cool stuff from him.

It’s interesting … He has a different philosophy on business than mine. I remember a little while ago, reading this huge article he wrote about how they raised all this crazy amounts of money, and all these things, that for me seem ludicrous, some of the worst business decisions in the world yet they’re having success. There’s different paths and different things. It’ll be fun, I’m excited to hear what he’s got to say and see what’s going down in the SEO world nowadays because it’s been a long time since I focused on it. I used to geek-out big time. For a while we had twenty, thirty people all in Peru doing SEO stuff for us and it was awesome. We were getting ranked for all these really difficult terms and it was amazing. We were very, very aggressive and so it was awesome because you could get really cool things to happen fast … But then the problem was when Google got smarter than us then we started losing everything.

It was this thing where I always felt like I was chasing my own tail. We would go and we would be running, it felt like we were running away from the cops all the time. It felt like, we used to call it … I’m not going to brag about this, but a little while ago, a few years back, we dabbled a little bit in spamming and trying to learn that game. It’s the same kind of thing, it was hard to sleep at night because it felt like… we used to call it the “smash and grab”, where it felt like you were walking in, smashing a window, grabbing a TV and running down the road while the cops are chasing you. That’s what it always felt like with SEO and with spam. We got away with it for a little bit, but eventually they always catch you, you can’t always get away with it. I hated it, a little while ago, we quit the spamming thing really, really fast.

More so, I wanted to understand the psychology of it so I hired this dude, I was like, “How much would you charge me to teach me how to spam?” He’s like, “Twenty-five grand,” I’m like, “Done.” I recorded all the sessions, and I remember I called it ‘Spam School’. It was like eight calls or something like that. I’m like, “Okay, I got Spam School today,” it was awesome. We got up and running, we had to buy all these servers, and these tunneling servers, and all this intense stuff. I know the process now, and I’m sure it’s evolved since we kind of played with it, but back then we were totally geeking out on it and within two weeks of starting the process, I realized I hated it and so we stopped. I’m not a spammer, I was someone who was intrigued spam and dabble, but we gave up pretty quick after those feelings. In SEO we tried a lot longer, probably two or three years. We focused, we built it up, and we’d get these rankings for amazing words and the traffic started flowing, flowing, flowing, gone.

I remember we kept making all these huge business decisions based on SEO, and I remember one day, coming to the office and being fed up, and slamming my hand down and said, “We will never, from this point forward in this company, ever make a business decision based on SEO. Anything that happens from SEO is like a nice gift, but it will not ever be our focus again.” That’s been my philosophy for the last three years, and so it’ll be fun though to hear what’s happening. I think, if you guys have been listening, we hired Neil Patel a little while ago and flew him out for a day. Paid him twenty-five grand for a day, and learning from other people and I think there’s going to be a time I’ll get back into more and more SEO, just because mostly I think the SEO and social. There used to be a big divide between the two business models, but now that line is blurred or maybe even gone. That’s why I’m excited, I’m hoping he’s going to talk about that today because that’s kind of my understanding and kind of the results we’re starting to see from it, is that it’s a blend of social and SEO.

I think if it’s not happening now, logically, the only thing that makes sense for SEO is no longer to base stuff on linking because we can spam linking. The only thing it’s smart to base it off of is social interaction because that’s harder to fake. Anyway, I’m excited for that. I hope you guys got something out of that, and hopefully the only thing you got out wasn’t that Russell’s a spammer. In fact, the lesson I hope you got out of that, and this is really, really important, is… this is key, and I hope you guys all get this, is that you can learn a lot from someone in a really short, finite period of time. I remember a couple times I hired some employees because they were amazing, on paper, and they’d done these amazing things so we hire them, pay them a ton of money and salary, and all these things. What was interesting is they come, in the first thirty to sixty days, they would have all these amazing things that would transform things, and after that they were kind of useless. They use up their bag of tricks and they were gone.

I feel like everyone’s got that. I’ve got that. For some reason, they come in… I’ve got my bag of tricks and things I know how to do to grow a company really, really quickly, but then after that, I don’t have as many things. I think my skill set’s a little deeper than most people, but for most consultants, they’ve got a one-trick-pony. They got that thing, and so we learned a while ago, instead of hiring employees who are really good at something, hire the dude who’s the best, but for a short period of time. Have him come and teach you because you’ll get ninety percent of the value out of him immediately. That’s kind of my philosophy, it’s like Neil Patel or I’m like, “Hey, we’re going to start blogging. Who’s the best blogging dude?” Boom, Neil Patel, twenty-five K, sucked everything we need out of him, now we’ve got a game plan to go run with. Things like that, it’s finding out who’s the best and then just buying an hour or a day, or whatever the time.

Last night I was hanging out with one of my buddies, BJ Wright, and we were talking about a site called clarity.fm, and if you haven’t ever heard that site, you should, it’s awesome. It’s all these dudes and ladies who are amazing, who you can buy time with them per minute. He was talking about this app he was going to build, and he was like, “Hey, this is the dude that launched,” what was it? That mafia game on Facebook, and the dude’s like two bucks a minute to call, and he’s like, “If you invest a hundred bucks you get thirty minutes of this dude’s time. You can pick his brain on whatever you want.” It’s just interesting. So, I think my Christmas gift to myself this year is going to be… I’m going to look at the three or four things I’m really focused on in my business.

Obviously we’re a SAS company, so that’s one. We’re doing growth hacking and stuff like that, so three or four things that I’m focusing on and then go to clarity.fm and find the best one or two people in each of those categories and buy thirty minutes, an hour of their time and just get all their info. Get it all in a condensed, quick, fast period of time, and that’s how you can press decades into days, days into minutes, and it’s really, really cool.

That’s how I learn, people always ask me, “Russell, how do you learn now?” It’s honestly getting harder and harder. The more you progress in this or any business, the harder it is to get new things. It gets harder. The way that I’m progressing myself, my knowledge base, outside of funnel hacking the crap out of everyone I can because I love watching what they do, even worse than what they say, but number two is that. I hope that is a value to you guys. Give yourself a Christmas present, go to clarity.fm and find someone you want to learn from and buy an hour, and just suck their brain and I think you’ll get addicted to it. You’ll find that, again, it’s way better than reading a book, just hire the author and be like, “Hey, just tell me what I should do. Based on all this stuff you got, like, what would you do in this situation?” You can get there a lot quicker.

I hope that helps, that’s what I’m going to be doing a lot more of, this upcoming year. It’s pretty amazing how inexpensive you can get some of these people’s advice and ideas which is cool. That’s what I got for you guys today. Hopefully you got some good out of it besides Russell used to be a spammer, other than that, I appreciate you guys. Oh man, this is going to be transcribed, so I better be careful what I say. **Note: Russell is not a spammer.

If you want to see the transcripts of this show, or any of our shows, go to marketinginyourcar.com and I think I got an outro thing, we added this cool little music outro now. I think the music outro after this is also going to push you there, so go there, check it out, and if you’re not part of the Marketing Quickies Show, go to marketingquickiesshow.com, install the periscope app on your phone and we can be hanging out live every single day. I do quick, five to ten minute periscopes once a day, sharing marketing quickies and they are awesome so if you are not on that yet, go to marketingquickiesshow.com and come hang out with us there as well. That’s it for today guys, appreciate you all, and we will talk soon. Bye!

If this doesn’t get you excited, then nothing will.

On today’s episode Russell talks about how to convert cold traffic and put your offer in a way that’s understandable to the masses. He also mentions survey funnels and why they are a perfect cold traffic offer.

Here are a couple cool things in this episode you”ll want to hear:

• How to convert cold traffic to warm traffic and be able to see to them.
• And how to go on Facebook and meet people where they are at, and build your own email list.

So listen below to hear how to warm up a cold audience and convert them to sell to them.

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Hey everyone, this is Russell Brunson and welcome to Marketing in Your Car.

Hey guys and gals, we probably call this a ‘quickie in the car’ if you’re blending the Marketing Quickies show and the Marketing in Your Car show. By the way for those who are wondering we decided to keep it 2 separate things, so we’ve got Marketing in Your Car happening like this and Marketing Quickies. If you’re not listening to Marketing Quickies show, please go to marketingquickieshow.com and subscribe. It’s our daily periscope show. People love it and it’s fun and we’d love to have you involved in it as well. Other than that, everything else is staying the same.

We are … I’m actually heading home real quick to go to wife …. go to wife … go to lunch with my wife because that’s what we can do, whatever we want to do, right? That’s why we do what we do, so I’m going to go do that. On the drive home I just wanted to hopefully drop some bombs for you guys so this is what I call ‘cool crap’ and I’m really, really, really, really excited about this. This is the reason why.

We’ve been playing with some concepts over the last little bit. In fact, we did an event for our Ignite and Inner Circle members called ‘Funnel Catcher’, some of you guys were there. It was going into this concept deep, right? It was going into … let’s say you’re selling a product, right? You’re hot market … your own list buys it easy because it’s like they love you. Then you go back to your warm market and people who may not necessarily know you but you know what they’re interested in and so we target them on Facebook. We know, okay I’m going to target Tony Robbins fans because they may like me because they’re interested in similar things or whatever that is. That’s where warm traffic is.

The big secret sauce is how you get to cold traffic because Facebook runs out of … Facebook is like having a Ferrari on a dead-end road. You go really, really fast and then you run out of space because the interest groups dry up fast. How do you get to the point where you can sell to the cold hard masses? If you can do that, it opens up your business infinitely wide. That’s been my big focus over the last couple of months. How do we do that? What are the different ways and techniques and tools and things we can do to go to the cold hard masses and … some cool stuff’s happening.

We started implementing some stuff and that’s why we did the ‘Funnel Catcher’ event to show, here guys, here’s what we’re doing, this is the direction we’re going, this is where you guys should be running with if you want to go and convert the cold traffic. The biggest thing with cold traffic is you’ve got to meet people where they’re at. Using email and funnels things like that to warm them up to where you need them to be, right?

A good example if you have an offer that’s going to work in cold traffic is going to the … woah, excuse me that was a big sneeze. You guys got this live, I apologize. With cold traffic, imagine going to the food court at your mall and standing there and yelling at the top of your lungs, “Who here wants to learn how to build a funnel?”, no one is going to raise their hands. That means my offer is a warm traffic offer. Now ideally, I still want to sell Quick Funnels, that’s funnel-building software but no one understands that so if I go to cold traffic and I’m like, “Who wants funnel building software?”, no one is going to give us money, right? But if I go to the food court and I stand up and say, “Who here wants a free money-making website?”, everyone at the food court wants that. Everyone is going to raise their hand. That’s why you have to think about cold traffic. If you went to the food court at the mall and yelled out what you’re selling, how many people raise their hand? If it’s less than 10%, your offer will not work for cold traffic. If it’s above 10%, you’ve got something that … you’ve at least got something to start working with.

You’ve got to figure out, how can you change the messaging and the wording of what you’re selling to get cold traffic to raise their hand? Let’s say it’s a free money-making website, they come in with that. Now that I’ve got their name and email address and we can start warming through the process. Here’s what a website is and here’s a free website but it’s actually what we call a funnel and this is why a funnel is important. Now we can educate them and warm them up and get them interested in what we want. That’s the goal of funnel catcher, was we figure out where they’re at and we speak to them at that language they understand and then after we get them, then we can indoctrinate them through emails, videos, funnels, whatever, to get them to believe and desire and want what we actually want to sell. There’s the overarching, long, really cool concept for you right there.

Let me step back. A couple of the things we were doing like quiz pages and survey pages and a bunch of stuff like that. I’ve been out there trying to figure out ways … we’ve got a bunch of them going, they’re doing well. I stumbled on this guy. He’s one of the main guys who built all of the email lists for big companies like NewsMax and a bunch of those type of sites. He doesn’t work there anymore, now he does this kind of on his own. He builds out these survey funnels for people. I had him show me a bunch of these funnels, they’re so cool. I’ve seen tons of these. One of them … I’m sure you guys have probably seen before it’s like the big banner ads all over like, ‘Should we impeach Obama?’ How many of you guys have seen that, right? I’ve seen that all over the place. You click on that and there’s a little survey that if you think you should impeach Obama or not. So if you were to walk through the food court like, “Who here wants to impeach Obama?” It’s going to piss off half the audience and get the other half really, really excited. It divides and conquers, that’s exactly what you need to do. But you’re going to get a response from everyone in the food court and they’re all going to want to tell you their opinion. A perfect cold traffic offer.

Anyway, from that one little campaign, ‘do you want to impeach Obama?’, they built an email list of over 2 million people and made insane amounts of money because now they have a political newsletter, they can sell ads to survival people and biz-op people, everybody else. Or they can sell their own products and services or a variation of both. That was one example. Then they showed me probably 20 or 30 other quizzes like that that they’ve done and they’re amazing.

I just wanted to give that to you guys as a hint. That’s the path we are going down is trying to create cold traffic offers that we know that we can take. I don’t know if I would do a political one because those kind of people aren’t going to necessarily turn into business opportunity people. We did something similar on Facebook. We did a ‘Donald Trump for President’ fan page which got 150,000 followers for a couple thousand dollars. Now we’re leveraging that because Donald Trump is a business-person in entrepreneurship and leveraging that to get people into our other programs, which is working really good right now.

Those are the kinds of concepts. Meet people at cold traffic where they’re at, talk about something that they’re going to be passionate about, get them now into your sequences and the goal at that point is to convert them, warm them up and convert them into what it is that you’re selling.

Hope that gives you guys some hints. You will start seeing more and more of these things coming out from me in the near future. If this works with this dude and we build 1 or 2 of these for ourselves and it works, maybe we’ll refer them out to everyone else but I don’t want to … I want to test it before I do. Conceptually, it works and I hope you guys start thinking along those lines, that’s what we’re thinking as well and it’s a lot of fun.

One more bomb of gold I’ll drop on you guys. This is a trick that we’ve been doing. One of our guys who was at ‘Funnel Catcher’ just crushed it with it. He got 13 thousand opt-ins for 30 cents apiece off Facebook doing this exact same model. I won’t tell you the market he did it in but I’ll tell you the market we’re doing it in so you can get an idea of the concept. Same kind of thing, right? You go on Facebook, we meet people where they’re at. The campaign that we ran is…Dave Asprey, the Bulletproof executive guy, he’s got a huge following, we went and bought $1,000 worth of bulletproof stuff and then did a contest saying, “We’re going to give away $1,000 of bulletproof stuff for free, just put your email in to qualify.” Guess what happened? We started getting everybody from Bulletproof’s audience to give us their email address and got really, really cheap leads. We did drawing, sent someone $1,000 worth of these products and started marketing to those people, different products and services that we needed to.

Hope that gets you guys excited, if not you’re on the wrong podcast. This is the crap that I care about, it’s so much fun. I’m out of here guys, I’m going to go hang out with my wife. Appreciate you guys all listening in, I hope you have an amazing day and we’ll talk soon.

I would share his exact quote, but he dropped 3 F-bombs…

On this special late night episode Russell talks about some cool things that happened to him today including helping Ryan at Hardcore Closer who did his first webinar and made his entire investment back. He also mentions the book he’s writing called The Three Funnels.

Here are 3 other cool things to listen for in this episode:

• What things helped Russell have a good and exciting day.
• How Rich Schefren helped Russell with webinars and basically saved his business and life.
• And how Russell has been able to repay Rich for the things he has done.

So listen below to hear why Russell had such an amazing day.

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Hey everyone, this is Russell Brunson and welcome to a Late Night Marketing Your Car. Hey guys and gals, and everybody else hanging out with us today, hope you’re having an amazing time. It’s been a little while since I’ve been doing podcasts and Marketing In Your Car because things have been so crazy busy. I’m stuck in traffic right now heading home, which my house is like 5 minutes from my office, but the traffic is still here so I thought we should hang out and just talk about some cool stuff. Because I really had a good day today for a couple of different reasons, and I just through it would be fun to talk about it with you guys. Hope you don’t mind.

One exciting thing is Ryan over at Hardcore Closer, he joined our inner circle program a little while ago. Which as you know, is not a small investment. He paid $25,000 to get in, and he was nervous, and all these things. I kind of showed him the business model I thought he should be doing. He went and executed on it, and he’s just a doer, he ran with it and did his first webinar today. I got a Vox, and I would show it to all you guys or let you listen to it because it was really exciting, but he dropped the f-word 4 times in about 3 seconds, so I’m not going to forward it because I don’t want to hurt anyone’s ears.

He basically said, “Russell, I did my first webinar.” He said, “$20,000. I made my money back in the very first effin webinar. I effin love you.” Something, something, something. It was awesome. That makes your day when some dude invests $25,000 and within in 2 weeks before the first meeting even happens, he get his money back. Now he’s got 364 days now of coaching for free, and we’re just going to keep growing it and blowing it up. I’m super proud and excited. That was fun to hear. It was awesome. That was cool.

What else? What else? Oh, so I’ve been writing this new front end book. Not a book. I’m calling it a book, but it’s not. Maybe it’s a report, or a manifesto, or somewhere in between. I’m trying to relaunch our continuity program and I wanted to make a really good offering. I want something really unique and exciting, and so I’m writing this book called The Three Funnels. I think I might have mention this to you guys before, but basically in our business three funnels make about 85 to 90% of all of our income. Instead of teaching all the flashy flare, let’s talk about the fundamentals, and that’s what this book was about. Here’s the fundamentals. I didn’t go into to amazing details. It’s really exciting all the cool stuff I pulled out, like here’s our funnels, here’s our stats on every single page. Here’s what you should be looking at. Here’s this. Here’s that.

Anyway from our three core funnels, which are Tripwire, Webinar, and High Ticket Funnel. I’m really proud of that, and I finished it today. It’s been this project that’s been annoying me. You know how you have the projects that in your mind there’s so much pain associated with it and you don’t want to do them? That’s how this has been. There was so much pain. I have all these other things I need to get done, but this one I had to get done because it has to be done, and then I have Brittanie, who does the all the design and publishing, she needs it, and then we got to get it printed, and then shipped all within like the next week and a half, two weeks. It’s like I had to get it done, so the last like three days I’ve been locked down, and I finished it today. I know you guys probably felt that where you finished a book or finished something, and it’s just like relief, just gone. It’s over and you can now move on to other stuff. That was exciting.

Also, one of my friends, Rich Schefren, some of you guys may know him, he actually helped me out a lot a couple years ago. If you are a Marketing In Your Car fan, you know all of my ups and downs. I’m pretty honest with you guys. We had built up this big company, 100 employees, and then the whole thing crashed around me. I think one of the earlier podcasts I told that story, and maybe I’ll tell it again someday for the newbies. Anyway, it was a horrible experience and a lot of pain and suffering on my side, and fear, and everything. I didn’t know what I was going to do when I grew up, and I still had people working for me I was trying to support, and all these things. I’m trying to figure out, “What should I do?”

At the time I was like, “Who’s really having success right now in this new economy and with the things that changed and all the new things?” I was looking around and one of the people that was crushing it right then in that moment was Rich Schefren and he was doing it through automated webinars. I didn’t have one yet. I didn’t even know how to do one. I called him and I was like, “Hey man, can I fly out and just pick your brain for a day?” He said, “Yes.” I’m so grateful for that. I flew out there and he gave me a day of his time for free and it was awesome.

I went back afterwards, we launched a webinar that literally saved my business, probably saved my life in some ways. Paid off all of our debts, paid off the tax, the government, and a whole bunch of other just scary things, and it was awesome. I always feel like I’ve owed him for that. The initial deal was if we promote his webinar he’d do that, and we did do that. I felt more than that because it was big for me. One of the few people at that time who really helped me make a big shift that I needed, and so I’m just always grateful for him.

Anyway, he’s been kind of going through a shift in his business and business models trying to figure out … He’s got kind of this new stuff he wants to sell and trying to figure out the right process to sell them, and he’s been struggling. I saw him in London actually, and he spoke, and he didn’t sell very well. I feel like some of the things that I’ve learned over the last few years, especially through the Perfect Webinar … For those of you who have gone through the Perfect Webinar training, I felt like I knew, and I might be wrong, but I felt like I knew what was wrong with is presentation, and his pitch, and his offer, and stuff like that.

We spent an hour on the phone today and really pulled as much as I could out of his brain and I figured … Because Rich’s stuff is always amazing. He’s so smart it doesn’t make sense to average humans sometimes, right? That’s the hard part. It’s trying to figure out how do we make this simple so that everyone wants to buy it because the stuff’s amazing. The fulfillment always amazing stuff, but it’s like the selling, so he went through and walked and talked through everything. I asked a bunch of questions and I pulled out what I think was right, and we restructured the offer, the webinar, the pitch, and I’m really proud of it. I sent it all to him. I recorded a bunch of videos showing how I’d pitch it and I hope that it’s something that’s going to benefit him. It felt good to be able to kind of return the favor.

You know when you have someone that does something big for you and you don’t know how to repay that favor? Because it’s kind of like, how do you repay that? Right? I’m just happy that I got to be part of that today. Hopefully it will help. If not, that’s fine, but I felt like some of the gifts that God’s given me in the last few years I was able to kind of repay him and that felt good. All these good things are happening today, which is awesome.

Then we just booked, I think, our final speaker for the Funnel Hacking event. He’s got to sign the contract and then I can announce that too, but we got some amazing, amazing, crazy keynote speakers coming. Just all sorts of fun, awesome stuff’s happening. As you can probably tell I’m excited. I’m excited because cool stuff we’re doing, cool stuff our students are doing, cool things we’re doing with our partners, and just everything’s good.

I’m having a good day, and I’m heading home, and it’s going to be awesome. Hope you guys are all having a good time. Sometimes on this show we share my ups and my downs, and everything. I just wanted to share with you guys an up because I’m happy and I hope that you guys are as well. If you’re not, I was looking at the things that made me happy today. One was obviously the book, which was the me project. Which kind of is, but it’s also something I’m trying to create to serve. The other two were all things we’re doing for other people, and so … Anyway, if you’re struggling, you’re not happy or whatever, I think I heard Tony Robbins say this, but start serving someone else around you and you can’t help but make things better.

Anyway, that’s it guys. I’m almost home. I’m go inside see my kids, have a good time. I appreciate you all listening and caring enough to tune into the podcast. Make sure you guys are coming to Funnel Hacking Live. It’s going to be amazing. We’re about to announce all the lineup and I know tickets will sell fast, so do not delay. With that said, we love you guys. We appreciate you guys, and we are excited to keep serving you. Like I said before, you are an audience worth serving and just grateful to be in a spot and have an opportunity to be where I’m at to help you guys. Thanks again, and we’ll talk soon.

My feelings after spending 10 hours yesterday with my 9 year old, doing homework.

On today’s episode Russell talks about why he hates school and struggled there.He also rants about why he’s frustrated with the school system that his own kids are in and why he thinks a lot of it is just busy work.

Here are some frustrating things Russell talks about in this episode:

• Why Russell thinks that kids shouldn’t have homework.
• Why he is frustrated by his twin boys’ different 4th grade teachers doing things different and overloading one of them with homework.
• And why Russell thinks you should be tested on how the real world works, instead of just memorizing the right answer.

So listen below to hear why Russell is frustrated with the school system his kids are in.

---Transcript---

Good morning everybody. Welcome to a very, very, very rainy Marketing in Your Car. All right everybody hope you are doing amazing. I think we have a lot of new Marketing in Your Car followers and listeners. We just started promoting it. We just got set up marketinginyourcar.com. It’s got all back episodes, links to them, transcripts, and a bunch of other cool stuff. So if you want to get on the e-mail list, to get notifications when new podcasts come out, and just see a cool thing go to marketinginyourcar.com. Other than that, I’m excited to have you guys here today. Today is going to be a rant day. I hope you guys are okay. Today I wanted to rant a little bit about a thing that we like to call school. I don’t know about you guys but school for me was really, really, really difficult. I think it is for most entrepreneurs. I’m guessing that if you’re listening to this you probably fall in that same camp and you have struggled like I did, like most entrepreneurs do.

I never really understood why until recently. This guy named Alex, he wrote a book called Entrepreneur Personality Type. There’s only 500 of them in circulation. Anyway he did a talk at a Genius Network … and he’s actually speaking at our next Funnel Hacking Live. So if you’re not coming, go to funnelhacking.com and get registered for our seminar. He’s going to be speaking about the entrepreneurial personality type. When he explained it the first time I got chills like 20 times. I was like, that’s me. I finally understand myself. It made me understand why I hate school and why I struggle with it, and all sorts of stuff like that. This recently I had a reason to even hate it more. So, as you guys know, we went to London a couple weeks ago and took my family out of school for a week, and it was awesome.

Before we go we ask the teachers like, “Hey, give us some homework so we can make sure the kids don’t fall behind.” Right? So one kid basically gets no homework, one gets a couple things, and one the teachers like, “I haven’t done my plans yet so we don’t have any homework for you.” So like all right. So we go on the trip, and out there we’re like we’re in London, we’re seeing these amazing things, go into history they say the Buckingham Palace, they saw the Tower of London, they saw all these amazing things. On top of that my kids just recently read Willy Wonka, or Charlie’s Chocolate Factory or whatever it’s actually called.

So we saw the Willy Wonka play, which was amazing. Just all these cool things, right? So we come back from that. We get to school and this is just … It drives me crazy. We have twins so they’re in the same grade but different teachers, right? One teacher’s like, “Oh cool, you got tons of culture and history. You’re good. You don’t have to worry about any homework.” Then my other twin the teacher who didn’t have of her assignments done now gave him every single paper they’d done in school. Plus every homework assignment for that entire time. They were insane. We sat there for the last two weeks every single night, we spent about two to three hours with him trying to this stupid homework. He’s a fourth grader, right? Then like Sunday we spent probably eight or nine, maybe even ten hours with him just trying to get his homework done.

Like dozens, like everything that you would do in school she gave him for homework. It doesn’t make any sense they’d do that. Then the funniest thing is that they had a whole homework assignment on Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. We had read the book, we seen both the movies, and we just saw the play live in London within the last 30 days, right? So we’re going through trying to answer these questions and I don’t even know the answers to these things. Like it’s ridiculous. It’s like reading comprehension but it’s asking a fourth grader all these questions that have nothing to do with anything.

If I’m getting stumped on these questions at this point in my life, for fourth grade homework assignment on a play … On a book …. On a play we just barely saw, it’s just ridiculous, right? It goes on and on and on. It’s just like this mass amount of work for them to do just to keep them busy. Like I almost think it’s like parents and teachers don’t want … Like their kids are so crazy busy doing all these cool things like learning, and studying, and reading, and running, and playing, and having fun, and developing themselves as humans. They don’t like that because it’s like chaos and it’s not structured like they want it to be. So they give us all this insane amounts of homework to like structure your kids so that they’re not bugging you. It drives me crazy. They go to school at 8 in the morning, they’re home about 4. Then they had like two hours … Hour … Two hours of homework every night as well. The entire day is taken up with school work. Which none of it has any point. You know what I mean?

I remember in college writing papers and then the papers are done and then you threw them away. Like there’s no purpose and no point to any of it. It’s just all just manual, menial work that doesn’t actually help you in any way whatsoever. It just drives me crazy. So I just wanted to go on a rant today with you guys. I’m sure most of you guys can empathize with me. If I was a teacher and my kids were going to London for a week, I’d think, “Man, this is such a great experience. What I want to you do is I want you to write a report about the cool cultural things you saw, and then what you learned at the Willy Wonka play.” Something like that that’s actually is going to be so much more useful than like here’s a bunch of math problems that don’t mean anything. See if you can solve them. Oh, and then here’s a bunch of questions on that book that are so hard that don’t make … That aren’t even like logically … Things you have to go back and reread the book like 16 times to be able to find these random, obscure things you want to bring out in a quiz, and on and on and on.

I only know that because I had to reread Willy Wonka like 20 times yesterday trying to find all these little remote answers. Just ridiculous. Anway I just think that it’s crazy. I think it’s out of control. I think that our kids are stuck in a school system most the day anyway and the last thing they need is to come home and do homework. I think what they do when they get home they need to get home and get away from that, and relax, and have fun, and play, and grow and, be kids, and be creative, and stop trying to recite answers, and look up things, and figure out math problems. They do that all day at school. If they’re not doing it at school there’s an issue with the teacher I think.

There’s kind of my rant. Yeah. I’m sure some of you guys I probably deeply offended with that. For me it’s just ridiculous. It makes me … We’re not going to for a lot of reasons, I see a lot value in the homeschooling because of that. Where you can actually have your kids study things that matter and create assignment and things that help them grow as opposed to just like, “Oh, here’s a book. You read it all. Now you’ve finished reading, go back and reread to find the answers that I wanted to pull out to try to stump you.” It’s just ridiculous. It’s not how we learn in the real world, right? I think like the math … Even math … It’s funny because they spend all this time trying to teach us how to do math. Which I understand it’s good to know the basics. Since I’ve been out of college I’ve never done math once. There’s these things called calculators we use. I almost think like they should have the kids focus 50% of assignments on learning on how to use a calculator. That’s the real world we live in today, right?

I remember one of my friends is right now in college. He’s writing like a thesis statement or something like that. He’s got to write this thing. I was like well you should just hire someone to write it for you. Hire a ghost writer, you do the research, tell them what to write, and have them write it. He’s like, “No, that’s cheating.” I’m like, “Are you kidding me? That’s cheating?” Guess how it works in the real world, guess what happened when I wrote my book? I did the research, 10 years of hard work, and then I found a writer to help me write it. That’s how the real world works. Okay? There’s not … I bet one out of ten books on the New York Times Best Seller List were actually written by the actual authors. There’s people that help you with that. That’s how the real world works. So why aren’t we tested on how the real world works?

It drove me crazy in one of my programming classes, I couldn’t figure out answers so I’d hire people in India and Romania to help me figure out the answers, and I’d get the problems right. My teachers would get upset saying, “You’re cheating.” I’m like, “How am I cheating?” In the real world, guess what I do when I can figure out an answer? I hire someone who gives me the answer! That’s such a more valuable skill than spending six weeks trying to figure out an answer. In fact I would fire one of my employees if they had spent six weeks trying to figure out an answer instead of just asking somebody who might actually know. That’s a skill that is transferable. That’s what school systems should be based on. Is who here can actually find the answers to questions? Not who knows all the answers to every single question. Who can memorize things and regurgitate them? Who can find these things? Who can open Google and find the answer?

That should be what tests are because the real world is. If we’re not … If the real wor- Great. I’m in the intersection and my car just died. Darn stick shifts. Sorry I’m not used to driving a stick shift while I’m ranting. It’s hard to do two things at once. That’s just how I feel so anyway. I have a lot of sympathy for my little kids who are going through this right now. Part of me just like, “Why are they even have to do this? Like they shouldn’t even worry about turning it in.” I’m trying to be a good parent and help them understand the value in it. It’s hard. So I just needed to rant to you guys who get me because I am helping my kids. I’m making sure they get homework assignments done. I’m not talking bad about their teachers. I’m trying to help them in that way.

The reality is I just don’t think that that the world works that way anymore. So for me, I’m just saying that I do not like school. If you guys agree with me, please share this podcast. If you go to marketinginyourcar.com you’ll find a link to it. You can grab and share it with your friends and family, other people who may or may not agree with me, I love to get feedback. Go comment on the blog. Let me know if you disagree. It’d be awesome to have a fun conversation there. Anyway I’m at the office. It’s rainy. So I’m going to jump out of here and go get warm. I’ll talk to you guys soon. Have an amazing day. Don’t let your kids go to school. Just kidding. They should go to school but just for the social reasons. Don’t let them stress out too much about homework. All right. I’m out of here. Talk soon.

Some interesting things that I discovered while on the road this last week in the UK.

On this special early morning episode Russell recaps his trip to London and why he’s happy to be back home. He also talks about the differences with selling to audiences in different countries.

Here are 4 cool things in today’s episode:

• How amazing it is that you can connect with people who are in the same industry as you all over the world.
• How weird it is that people in the UK made fun of Russell just because he’s American, and how that taught him how to transition his presentation to accommodate them.
• How people in Australia are different from people in the US or UK.
• And why Russell didn’t have any expectations for how well he would do in the UK, but how he is grateful either way.

So listen below to hear how Russell’s trip to London went and why it was better than when he was in the UK 5 years ago.

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Hey everyone, this is Russell Brunson, and welcome to an early morning fricken-freezing Marketing in your Car. Hey guys! So we just got back from London, woo-hoo! It was a long, long, long, long, oh so long trip to get back. We made it and we are excited and now it’s like 6 in the morning. My kids have not fallen asleep yet, because they’re still on London time. We kind of passed out for a little bit, but we’re awake now. Our cute little baby, who we haven’t seen in a week, we’ve been playing with her. Even though she’s tired, we’re not letting her sleep, because she’s too dang cute. A whole bunch of stuff and it’s not even 7:00 yet! I’m actually driving out to go grab some food because our house is out of food. That’s what’s happening over here.

Other than that, I’m just excited to be home. I’m not traveling again for, hopefully for forever. You know how you feel after you eat Thanksgiving dinner, and you’re so full you just want to pop. You’re like, “I’ll never eat again, ever!” Then five minutes later, you’re hungry. That’s how I am right now. I will never travel again, ever. The last 30 days, it’s just been insane. We’re back! We’re excited, a lot of fun things. I’m excited to get my hands dirty again, and get into work and get into stuff. Speaking, and traveling, and selling, and stuff like that, it’s fun. I just miss sitting behind a computer and just funnel building, funnel hacking. I’m so excited! It’s all good.

We had an awesome time in London, and it all turned out really, really good. It was fun. It was cool going there and seeing all these businesses. It’s interesting because you think about however many, 20 years ago even, people sold things in their communities, right? If you lived in Boise, you sold things to other people in Boise. That’s kind of how things were. The Internets made it so it’s everywhere.

What’s cool, a couple things that I kind of got from it. 1, going over there, you see these entrepreneurs from that other side of the world. What’s interesting is their hopes, their dreams, their desires, their vision, their desire to change the world in their own little way is the same. It’s not different than it is here. I think entrepreneurs; we have something weird inside of us. It’s not an American thing, or it’s not whatever. It’s an entrepreneur thing and it’s everywhere. People there have the same bug that we have here. It’s awesome and I just love being around entrepreneurs. There’s nothing better for me. That was really, really cool.

What was interesting though, this is kind of cool, people don’t see this a lot. You don’t notice it online either. I wonder, I don’t know if I’ll do anything because of this, but it makes me think. For example, in the last 30 days, I’ve spoken in Australia, United States 3 times, and then in London. The 1 thing that is different, culturally things are different. It’s just fascinating. I remember the first time I spoke in London and I tried to sell. I did my normal pitch that in the States was awesome and it bombed over there. I was like, what in the world? These people hate me. I found out later they did hate me.

I remember, this is kind of sad, but after the event was over, I sold a couple, but not like what I normally would have. This is probably 4 or 5 years go. Then I went on this forum later, it was a free event we did, all this stuff. I’m on this forum reading people critiques of the event and all these people were making fun of me. They weren’t making fun of my presentation, or anything. They’re making fun of me because I was American. Wow! I never thought that that was a thing, it was so weird to me. After that I had friends that told me when they sold to the UK, they had to sell different, they had to speak different, they had to do things different for it to work.

I hadn’t had the chance to speak in the UK for 5 years, so I never really tested that again. I’ve spoken twice in Australia since then. Australia was completely the opposite. Australia feels like, maybe I’m wrong, but I don’t think the people in the UK always like Americans. I think they think we’re stuck up. We kind of are. The more cultured I am becoming, the more places I go, the more I realize how annoying Americans can actually be. We are pretty, it’s kind of embarrassing looking at it now. That’s just how American’s are, right? I the UK, if people don’t necessarily like us as much, but in Australia it’s the opposite. Australians love us. It was really interesting, I was in Australia, anything I said it felt like I was walking on gold. It was a completely different cultural experience. That was kind of just weird to me.

This time I spoke in the UK I was very aware of that. It thought if I’m going to be successful with this, I think the wrong approach … The approach in Australia was almost more like I’m this American authority, let me show you all this cool stuff I did. In the UK the way I transition my presentation this time, I had to kind of make fun of myself more. What do they call it, self-deprecating humor or whatever? I tried to make fun of myself more throughout the presentation. What’s funny is in America, even Australia, if you close people, they stand up and they start going to the back, when they get excited and they rush. The UK, none of that. Nobody moved. I’m doing my close and I’m telling them, “Get up right now, go to the back!” I’m doing all my stuff that normally get’s American’s jumping over each other and fighting to get to the back, and nobody budged. They just sat there.

I’m so confused, did I not make fun of myself enough? What’s happening? Then after the presentation was done, people slowly stood up and walked over and signed up. The promoter told me afterwards, he’s like, “Your close rate was amazing for the UK, just so you know.” Really? It was way less, it wasn’t way less, it did well, but it was less than I thought it was going to be. He’s like, “You’re close rate was amazing for the UK audience.” It’s just interesting.

When I think about a lot of times I think we craft ourselves messages for all people. As I’m getting more and more deeper into this business, what I’m learning more and more is that I think this is really the power of where Actionetics inside of Click Funnels is going. Changing based on people. This one is making more money, speak to them this way, less money, speak to them here. If they’re male speak to them like this, if they’re female speak to them like this. Whatever those demographics are. I almost think that if I really want to go deep in this, I don’t know if I will, but I might, especially offers that we really focus a lot of time and energy on. I would even change the sales message based on culture, based on geography. Somebody in the UK was watching video sales, I would speak much different than somebody in the United States.

Just interesting I thought. One other thing, this I just want to share with you guys, and hopefully it will resonate. I hate this, I’ve got so many coaching clients who, and I get it, you want to forecast and set goals, and expectations, and things like that. I think it hurts. I always have these, our clients, our friends, or people that I hear are like, “Okay, webinars going to happen, I’m going to do this …” They have numbers built up in their head, “If I only get this percent, and this happens and dahdahdah.” All these things they figure out. They do it, and they don’t get it, and they’re destroyed mentally and physically that destroys them.

I’m a big believer in not, not not setting goals. I’m a big goal setter. Not setting expectations of outcome. You can’t control those things at first. When I spoke at this event, Dan kept asking, he told me how many sales I did. Dan’s the promoter, was like, “Is that good for you? Bad? What were you expecting?” I was like I didn’t have any expectations coming in. I want, when it’s done, for me to be happy with whatever, and if I have expectations, then no matter what I’m not going to be happy. You know what I mean? I didn’t have any expectations. If I didn’t sell anything, I was coming to try to serve and try to help. When I speak, even I’ve been doing this forever, I get nervous. Before I speak, I pray and when I pray I pray that I can give value and help serve people to the best of my ability. That’s what I’m praying for and I like how many sales I can close, I’m legitimately here to serve people. That’s the way I go into it. The people buy, I’m so grateful afterwards that it’s awesome.

But if I would have thought, think ahead of time, looked at Dan’s audience and said, “My typical audience converts this much.” Really though through it and really focused on that number, I probably would have been disappointed, because it made less money than it should have, based on if I would have thought through things. I try not to, I just kind of put it out of my head, and don’t think about that. Just focus on giving, and serving, and helping. I even told Dan that, I didn’t really have any outcomes, I wasn’t really hoping for anything. I just come in and serve and hopefully we can get a lot of people into Click Funnels because they need it. I honestly feel like you can’t be successful in life without it. I feel like they need it. I want to give that to them.

From this, I’m sure people know who I am now. If they enjoyed it, they’re going to keep following me. They’re going to buy more stuff. A lot of them will ascend up and come in our inner circle, things like that. Good stuff will happen from it. I’m not tying an outcome to it. I can’t tell you how many people, over, and over, and over again, in my coaching programs, they have these numbers in their head. When they don’t hit it initially they’re just destroyed. It’s hard to recover. If you go into it with no outcome, with no projected outcomes of your own, you just go and you do it. You try to serve and you see what happens.

Then you can take that data and you can look at it, and you can make decisions. If I was to keep speaking in the UK, I would look at the presentation and say what things didn’t work. There were a lot of things that didn’t work. I could tell, because there was this weird energy when you speak in a room. You can feel it, you can not feel it at times. There are things I would definitely change. Again, I’m not speaking in the UK all the time, so it’s not the same for me. My first webinar, not my first webinar, but my first Funnel Hats webinar, I had no idea if it was going to do well or not. I was speaking at Mike Filsaime’s event, and I did it. When people started running back, I was so shocked. Oh, wow!

The next one was, oh! Every time I was so excited about what happened. Eventually, after we’ve done it so many times, we have projected outcomes, and we have things like that. Now we’ve got something to shoot for. I let the chips fall where they may at first. Then we can look at that, analyze the data, change things. Let that happen a bunch of times before we start making these projections, these models, and tying our happiness outcome to them. If you do, unless you hit it out of the park the first time, it’s hard.

Most people do webinar the first time, they’re not getting 10% close rate. They’re not getting 5%, they might be getting 1-2%. That’s where we start at. That’s what we’ve got to do a billion times. That’s why I’ve done the Funnel Hacks webinar, in the last 12 months, I would say a conservatively, at least 50 times live. It gets better every single time. It just makes me feel for people who create it, have this vision in their head, launch it, and they don’t hit it. They are attaching so much personal emotion to it. I feel for that, so hopefully if nothing else you get from this, stop attaching all these things to you initial work. Just do it from a point that you want to serve, you want to give, you want to help.

Let the chips fall where they may. Then take the data, change it tweak it, then keep doing that. Eventually, when you have a model that is working, now you can come back and you can be stressed out about the results. Don’t do that now. We have enough stress in our lives. You’re building a business, it’s fun and it should be an enjoyable process. It’s going to be hard at times. It’s going to be good at times. It’s going to be bad at times. You’re going to lose money at times. You’re going to make money at times. You’re going to be broke sometimes. Sometimes you’ll be rich. That’s just kind of the process in this game. If you don’t have the skin for that, it might not be the right game to play.

I’m at the store, I’ve got to buy my family some food. Some eggs, some banana’s. Some stuff for us to eat. I better go. Thanks for listening to my ramblings today. Hope that there is some value in there for you. I appreciate you guys. For those of you who are my new friends in London, thanks for letting me come hang out. I had an awesome time. I appreciate you guys allowing me to serve you. Thank you so much, and I’ll talk to you soon.

This one was hard for me to share, but I’m so glad I did…

On this episode Russell talks from his hotel room in London about what happened with Clickfunnels over the last few days and how it almost all fell apart. He also talks about why being honest about your mistakes is important.

Here are 3 interesting things to listen for in today’s episode:

• What happened with Clickfunnels while Russell was on the plane to London, and why everything had to be rebuilt.
• Why he decided to be honest about what happened.
• And what Russell learned from the whole experience.

So listen below to find out why being honest about your mistakes can be a good thing.

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Hey everyone, this is Russell Brunson and welcome to Marketing in Your Hotel Room.

Hey everyone, yes, I am in my hotel room here in London, looking out over the whole city, which we’ve got a beautiful view from where we’re at right now. Just did a periscope, saying hi to everybody, but I wanted to kind of come in here and shoot an audio for you guys as well because I haven’t talked in a while. I’ve been on the road and we didn’t get to do marketing in an airplane or marketing in the Uber, or anything like that, so we’re doing it from the hotel room. I just want to share with you guys something that was kind of cool this week, a good lesson, hopefully can benefit you guys as well. As you know, in business unfortunately everything isn’t always sunshine and roses. I wish it was.

We try to make it that way and we try to make it outwardly look that way to everybody because that’s human nature. We don’t like people seeing the mistakes or seeing the holes in our armor or things like that. We try to put on a straight face and show that part, which is understandable. That’s what leaders, at least in my mind, leaders do. Tony Robins always says “Leaders see things as they are but not worse than they are,” and then, “Leaders see things better than they are and leaders work to achieve that.” That’s the three steps of leadership from Tony Robins and I’ve always believed that. I’ve tried to always have that, I try to see things better than they are, I try to work as if we’re there already and then we get there.

This week is … Any of our faithful Click Funnels members know, and if you’re not a faithful Click Funnel member, come on now. You’re listening to Marketing in Your Car everyday and you’re not in Click Funnels, this is insane. If I haven’t sold you at this point, you’re hopeless. When I landed here in the UK, I obviously checked everything to make sure life’s good and that there’s no issues, and it’s blowing up from everyone wanting to kill me, and everything’s down. Todd, who’s my partner and main developer in Click Funnels texted me saying that we’re down and it’s not good and said something like, “If we survive this, then blah blah blah blah blah.” I’m just like, whoa, I’m checking my bags off and reading this which is not what you want after a 20-hour flight or whatever we’d been on. I had all my kids with us and we had a huge, long ride to get to our hotel, it was just crazy.

I get on here and we’re trying to figure out things and it was bad. Our database server we were using is called ClearDB, they’ve been kind of handcuffing us. Been trying to move off them, they wouldn’t allow us to, they were kind of holding our data, they would have given it to us but we would have had to have been down for 24-hours which obviously was unacceptable. We just couldn’t do it. There was an easy way where we could have transferred over to these Amazon servers but they wouldn’t allow us to do it. It was thing we’ve been struggling with and most of our issues we’ve had over the last month or so had been because of ClearDB because their service couldn’t handle what we were doing and they wouldn’t allow us to move over to Amazon which we needed to. Anyway, that was a whole issue, so Todd basically messaged me and says, “Hey, everything’s down. We’re trying to restore from backup but it’s going really, really, really slow. It’s been 48-hours or so and it’s still not restored on ClearDB which is crazy.”

He messaged me and says, “Hey, we’re going to call an audible, basically we’re going to rebuild the whole thing on Amazon and we’re going to race. ClearDB’s reboot versus us on this new Amazon thing and whichever one wins is who we’ll keep running with.” Which is not a small task. I know for me and you, we probably don’t understand any of that, I didn’t, but it’s basically rebuilding this whole huge structure and huge new infrastructure and doing that within an hour. My guys did it. It was amazing. I was thinking about this, if I was to go to war with someone, who would I bring with me? I can tell you who, their names. People like this who just figure it out, I’m just so grateful for them. During this process Todd messaged me, “Okay, it’s working. It’s already past how far ClearDB is. We’re just looking at four, five, or six hours before it’s live.” I’m like, oh man, it’s not something I can hide from, and again, here’s the leadership in me saying look at things better than they are and move towards that.

We’re trying to do that but people on Facebook are blowing up and finally I said, “I just need to tell everyone what’s happening.” It was hard and it was embarrassing, it was frustrating, it was like all these emotions, but I said, “That’s what people need right now. They need some certainty that we know what we’re doing and that we’re not just goofing off.” So I made a video in the hotel room, maybe you saw that. I was upset and frustrated and as you could tell in the video, but I just told the story. This is what’s happening, I’m more-so upset than you are, I promise you that and kind of shared that with them and told them what sucks and the goods coming out of it. Just asked everyone to wait and hopefully we’ll be back soon and posted that. As I’m looking at that post, 161 people have commented on that, 360 people liked it, and of the 161 comments, all of them were positive.

People saying ‘We’re with you, we love you, we care about you, we’re here for the long haul, whatever happens we’re here we’re not leaving,” and just gave me that assurance I needed to keep moving forward. It was kind of crazy, on my side it’s like leadership isn’t showing weakness or showing the issues. I can tell you I probably got 20 private messages on Facebook saying “Thank you for being a leader like this,” it was backwards from what I thought but it was cool. Yeah, luckily my guys are amazing, they got everything back up and since then, the last two days things have been even faster and better. I just made a video talking about the good news and posted it but what I learned from this and I wanted to share with you guys is when things aren’t all sunshine and roses in your business, I think for most of us, our common sense is to hide it, not to share it. To kind of keep it away from people, but my experience from this is the opposite.

It’s share with your community, let people know and people will respect your transparency, they will respect that you’re on the front lines fighting with them and they’ll rally with you. It was really, really cool. We were nervous that we were going to see a huge spike in cancellations and refunds and all these things, we didn’t. Pretty amazing actually. It was just a good learning experience. So for you guys, I would say, the more open of a dialogue you can open to your community, the better, and I’m going to start doing…in the message thing I said, “How many of you guys want me to do these fireside chats once a week and just tell you guys the status of where things are in Click Funnels?” I posted that video a few minutes ago and we’ve already got ten comments, people saying they love the fireside chats and they want to keep them.

That is what we are going to do and I’m going to build a better communication and bond with our audience and I think that nothing bad can happen from that. It was a good learning experience for me and I hope that’s something you guys can learn from as well, so when you do make mistakes or something screws up or whatever, instead of trying to hide it and show a flawless exterior, just tell people the truth. That’s what they want, that’s what they need, and it was awesome for us. Hope that helps, I am going to get some sleep … I’m not getting sleep, who am I kidding? I’ve got a project I’m working on, I’m really excited, so I told people on Periscope I’m going to bed too, but I’m not.

I got about two or three hours in me, I’ve been working on a book called The Three Funnels. It’s not a book, it’s like a booklet, it’s going to be a free-plus-shipping offer we come out with in December or January that you’re going to want. That’s what I’m working on tonight, so that’s my plan. I’m getting back to work, you guys should too, or get some sleep wherever you are in the world. Appreciate you guys, thanks for listening, thanks for being part of our community and my world. You are a community worth serving, I’m grateful to be in a spot where I can help and grateful for you guys for listening and we will talk to you guys all soon, thanks.

How a few words from my son put everything into perspective.

On this episode Russell talks about a bad experience he had with his family at a restaurant he had been so excited to take them to, and how his son Aiden changed his perspective.

Here are some interesting things in to listen for in today’s episode:

• Why Russell was so excited about a specific restaurant.
• All the things that went wrong during what should have been a fun night out.
• And how Aiden helped Russell realize what is really important.

So listen below to hear how an evening went from a terrible night to a really great night by just a change of perspective.

---Transcript---

Hey everyone, good morning and welcome to Marketing In Your Car. All right, all right, I’ve heard your cries. You’ve said Russell, do not change the name. It may be a lame name but it’s your name, so I’m leaning more now towards keeping Marketing In Your Car. It’s like one of those cult classics where it’s just weird but like, the right people like it right.

I think I’m going to keep it. I don’t know, we’ll see. I’ll let you know. I hope everyone’s having an amazing time today. Wanted to share with you an experience that happened last night, that was one of those humbling moments that I think was really good.

I had this idea, there’s this Thai place right down the street from us. It’s called Sawadee or something like that. They have these coconuts. They can take a Thai coconut, chop it open, take all the coconut water, and they fry rice in it, and then cut coconut meat, and they put shrimp in it. Then they stuff it back in the coconut and they bring out these huge coconuts full of amazingness and you eat it and it’s awesome. I’ve had it a couple of times.

This week I was telling my kids about it. I was like this is like the most amazing thing. I got them all excited. I’m pretty good at selling people on stuff, sold my kids on these coconuts. They were going to be amazing. Last night we took there there, and then Brent on my team, he brought his wife and kids as well, and we all go to this Thai place to get these coconuts. We’re so excited. We’ve told our kids all about it, and they’re so excited and so we get there. Pretty much the worse service I’ve ever had ever. We show up with eleven of us, and there’s no big tables, so they say let me seat you on a bigger table. She brings us back and there’s a table that has six seats, and she’s like, “Here you go.”

I’m like, “Okay so there are eleven of us here.” She’s like, “Oh so this won’t work for you?” I’m like, “Well no there’s six seats there. There’s eleven of us.” She’s like, “Oh okay hold on.” We go back to the front, we wait, and she comes back. She sets up two tables, brings us out there, and there’s seven seats around this table. She’s like, “Here you guys go.” My wife’s like, “There’s eleven of us. That’s seven seats. We need another table.” My wife was kind of upset right, it was awesome.

Finally they bring another table, now there’s enough seats for us. We sit down and start ordering and I’m like, “I want that coconut thing that’s cracked open. It’s got the rice and the shrimp and the everything.” She’s like, “Oh, the whatever?” I’m like, “I don’t know what it’s called. Whatever that is, that’s what we want.” She’s like, “Oh okay.” I’m like, “I want three of them because we’re going to share them with our kids,” and it’s going to be exciting right.

The lady’s stressing out, she’s can’t even like…Anyways, it was just the worst server I’ve ever had ever. Even in the very beginning when we’re like what drinks do you have for the kids, she’s like, “We’ve got lemonade, Sprite, and root beer.” My son Dallin is like, “Cool I want some lemonade.” She’s like, “We don’t have any Lime-aid.” He’s like, “I want lemonade.” She’s like, “We don’t have Lime-Aid.” Finally, I’m like, “Lady, he’s asking for lemonade like you said.” She’s like, “Oh we have lemonade.” I’m like, no duh. It started off bad.

Then she couldn’t even hear us taking our orders and then I kept telling her, “I want the coconut thing that’s cracked open, that’s got the rice and the thing.” She’s like, “Oh you mean the whatever.” I’m like, “I don’t know what it’s called. That thing is what we want.” She’s freaking out, “Well it takes twenty minutes to cook those. Let me put the order in real quick.” She runs back, puts the orders in, and then comes back, finishes taking our orders, and kind of chaos.

Then after awhile, I remembered that one time I had the coconuts, they were really spicy, so I grabbed her and we’re like, “These aren’t spicy right? You did the no spice?” “Oh yeah we did no spice.” It’s taking forever, the kids are going crazy, and luckily we ordered some sushi for appetizers so the kids were eating sushi so that kind of calmed them all down. Then she brings out the coconuts and she freaking ordered the wrong thing.

There’s no rice in them, there’s no anything. They’re coconuts but it’s the wrong one, wrong thing. It was super spicy, tasted horrible. It was like, “This is not what we ordered.” “What did you order?” “The coconut thing that has the rice and the shrimp in it.” She’s like, “Oh the this?” I’m like, “Yeah.” She’s like, “Oh well that’s not what you ordered.” I’m like, “That’s what I asked you for. You told me that this was what it was called. I don’t even know what it’s called.”

I was lividly mad. The stuff’s spicy so our kids can’t eat it. It doesn’t even taste good. I’m eating it just because I have to and I ordered three of these things and they’re freaking huge. It was just bad all around. I was so upset. I was so mad. I was ready to stand up and upturn the table and start throwing things. I was so angry and then my little five year old, Aidan, is sitting next to me and right after the lady drops off the stuff and I’m so mad. The kids can’t even eat, so I’m like we’re going to freaking McDonald’s and eat McDonald’s because these coconut things I’ve been telling them for the last week, we can’t even eat because it’s the wrong ones and they’re spicy. They can’t eat them anyway. I was just going off, and I’m nice to the server, but she could tell I was not a happy camper at all.

Then my little Aiden, my little four year old, nuzzles his head underneath my arm and looks up at me. He’s kind of laying on lap, looks up at me and smiles, says, “Dad, this is the best night ever, huh?” I just sat there and I said, “he’s right”. I’m so concerned about getting this thing perfect and all he wants to do is hang out with me. He doesn’t care that the coconut’s spicy and it’s the wrong thing. He doesn’t care about the coconuts at all. He just wanted to hang out with me. I looked at him, and I was just like, I just kind of smiled and I laughed, and it just broke my state completely. I said, “You’re right bud, this is the best night ever.” It just changed that fast. I think about how many times in my life, and I’m sure you guys are probably the same thing where, we’re in the middle of stuff and we’re going crazy and all these things are happening and it’s not what we planned and we’re so frustrated at other people around us who are making the experience less than favorable.

We have this vision what we want it to be for for the people we’re trying to serve, our family, our client, whatever it is. I’m just grateful for my son, Aidan, who gave me that moment where I realized I was focusing on the worldly stupid things and he was focusing on just being with me. It just changed me and I felt bad, and I was still upset with the lady, but I tipped her well. I was just like, I got to spend time with my kids and it was really, really cool.

That is how I went from probably one of the worst experiences at a restaurant ever to the best night of my life, so it was awesome. Love my kids, they’re amazing, and I hope that that gives you guys some inspiration, and spend more time with your family. I’ve said this once, I’ll say it again. David O’McKay said that no success can compensate for failure in the home, and it’s true and our kids just want us. They just want more time. They just want to be with us, so we should be with them.

Anyways, that’s what I’ve got for you guys today. I’m going to head to the office. I’m going to get out early today. I’m going to go back home, and I’m going to surprise Aidan an hour or two early, and we’re going to play early and we’re going to play hard, and it’ll be awesome. That’s what I’ve got for you guys today. Have an amazing day and I’ll talk to all you guys soon.