Marketplace Proverbs and Coffee with Ernie-A Proverb Per Day Keeps Stinking Thinking At Bay

“Do not speak in the hearing of a fool, for he will despise the good sense of your words.” — Proverbs 23:9 ESV

You can have the best seed, the best tools, and the best intentions—but if the soil isn’t ready, nothing will grow. In business and in life, discernment saves you from wasting energy where it can’t produce a return.

In this episode, Ernie shares how to discern when to plant, when to move on, and how that choice can transform your relationships and protect your calling.

Have you ever missed out on a golden opportunity because you didn’t slow down enough to notice it? I have. And the truth is, sometimes the person I overlook has exactly what I need, if I’d just take the time to value them.

Today’s verse is Proverbs 20:29 in the NIV: “The glory of young men is their strength, gray hair the splendor of the old.”

Over time, I’ve learned that attitude and work ethic will take you further than ability alone ever will. I’m not the brightest bulb on the tree—but I’m always on. I show up, stay committed, and push through.

Even the most gifted people must put in the work. Picasso’s genius wasn’t ego—it was effort.

My success metrics are simple: “Customer Success is my path, adding significance to others is my purpose, Celebrated Relationship is the goal™.”

Some might call that talent. I call it obedience to a calling, sustained by humility.

“Ability is what you’re capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how you do it.”—Lou Holtz

Let’s release ego, stop worshiping talent, and focus on purpose-driven effort.

What if the problem in your next meeting isn’t the facts, but the framework?

Today, we’ll talk about why understanding perspectives is more than good manners—it’s a marketplace advantage with a ripple effect you can’t ignore.. Today, our focus is Proverbs 18:17 because it’s the 18th day of the month.

What if I told you that happiness isn’t just a feeling—it’s a competitive advantage?

It can open doors, build trust, and keep you energized in ways talent alone never will.

Today, I’ll tell you why I believe happiness belongs on your business scoreboard.

Welcome to Marketplace Proverbs and Coffee with Ernie™ — where a Proverb a day keeps stinking thinking away.

I’m Ernie Lansford, here to help you connect biblical wisdom to everyday marketplace decisions so you can build relationships that outlast any transaction.

Here, we bring timeless biblical truth into the marketplace, where influence is real, choices are constant, and relationships matter more than results.

So grab your coffee, tea, latte, soda, or water… and let’s get started.

“A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.”—(Proverbs 17:22)

“Whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”—(Philippians 4:8)

Success doesn’t come from big, bold moments. It comes from the choices we already made before the moment arrived. Pre-deciding aligns us with wisdom, while waiting too long leaves room for compromise.. Today, our focus is Proverbs 16:3 because it’s the 16th day of the month.

Commit your activities to the Lord, and your plans will be established.”— Proverbs 16:3

Pride Blinds. Humility Builds.

Pride can make us deaf. Deaf to wise counsel. Deaf to warning signs. Deaf to the very people we’re called to serve. Humility, on the other hand, opens our ears, clears our vision, and builds bridges that pride would have burned. Today, our focus is Proverbs 13:10 because it’s the 13th day of the month.

Today, I am speaking from chapter 13 of Marketplace Proverbs Vol 2, Micro to Macro the Ripple Effect of Influence, written by yours truly and Co-Author Jon Kluiter.

“Arrogant know-it-alls stir up discord, but wise men and women listen to each other’s counsel.”—Proverbs 13:10 MSG

Welcome to Marketplace Proverbs and Coffee with Ernie™ — where a Proverb a day keeps stinking thinking away.

I’m Ernie Lansford, helping you connect biblical wisdom to everyday marketplace decisions so you can build relationships that outlast any transaction.

Here, we bring timeless biblical truth into the marketplace, where influence is real, choices are constant, and relationships matter more than results.

So grab your coffee, tea, latte, soda, or water… and hit play, let’s get started.. Today, I am reading from chapter 12 of Marketplace Proverbs Vol 1, A Sales Navigator’s Compass to Customer Success Mastery, written by yours truly and Co-Author Jon Kluiter.

“Diligent hands will rule, but laziness ends in forced labor.”—Proverbs 12:24 NIV.

Reflecting on nearly 60 years in the marketplace, where I have worked as a personal production territory sales representative, team leader, and in senior VP leadership positions, as a sales coach, business development consultant, writer, and now podcast host, I see it clearly: I unknowingly brought on a silent helper and partner. It didn’t get a W-2, 1099, or owner’s draw. No paperwork, no I-9, no IRS EIN. But it showed up every day, whispering: “You can’t charge that amount. No one’s going to appreciate an offer like this. You’re not qualified to lead at that level. Remember that seventh-grade English teacher saying, ‘Ernie, you’re dumber than a dead stump—why would anyone value what you write or the content you create?”

That silent partner was the Spirit of Not Good Enough. It disguised itself as modesty, caution, servanthood, and even humility. However, the longer it remained, the more influence it exerted over my career, confidence, and willingness to add real value and significance to others. Worse yet, it transformed into the spirit of heaviness, as Isaiah talks about:

“The Spirit of the Lord God is upon Me... to give them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness...” Isaiah 61:1–3 NKJV

This heaviness wasn’t just a mindset. It was spiritual. I had partnered with a spirit of heaviness AKA Spirit of Not Good Enough.

This spirit felt to me like walking through a door with clear plastic wrap stretched across the opening, the shrink wrap used on palletized shipments. I felt held back by an invisible force that slowed me down. Frankly, I had reached a point of significant frustration. I was discontent with my scarcity mindset and tired of feeling diminished, weary of fighting the invisible forces blocking my path. I was frustrated by wondering why I could not walk through the doors God seemed to open. Especially after praying often, “Lord, take me to people who need me and bring people to me you feel I need.” I frequently asked, “What am I doing wrong, Lord?”

And then I sensed it clearly, what I feel is a voice from the Holy Spirit:

“You didn’t just tolerate it, you elevated it. You granted trusted partnership status. If you want to move into overflow, you have to dissolve the partnership.”

That was one of my many defining moments, helping me move forward. If I were to step into overflow, I would have to dissolve the partnership with the spirit of heaviness.

Today, we discuss the Disappearing Act — Why Accountability Protects Your Team’s Culture. “He who gathers crops in summer is a prudent son, but he who sleeps during harvest is a disgraceful son.”—Proverbs 10:5 NIV

Today’s lesson comes from a story my friend Jon used to tell, but it’s so relatable that I’ve adopted it as my own teaching example for leadership. It’s one of those stories that starts with family and ends up landing squarely in the workplace.

Jon grew up in a large, blended family—plenty of siblings, plenty of chores, and plenty of stories. And in that busy household, one of his sisters had a gift… not for doing chores, but for disappearing whenever they started. You could almost set your watch by it. Time to unload the dishwasher? Gone. Trash needs to be taken out? Nowhere to be found.

Her disappearing act became such a family legend that even decades later, they still laugh about it. And as Jon became a dad, history repeated itself. One of his daughters seemed to have inherited that same disappearing gift—especially when it came to unloading groceries or folding laundry.

Now, that kind of thing can be funny in a family setting. We tease, we laugh, we move on. But in the workplace, disappearing acts aren’t so harmless.

Every leader—whether you’re running a small team or leading an entire organization—has faced the challenge of balancing morale for the hard workers while addressing those who aren’t pulling their weight. And here’s the reality: your hard-working team members notice when laziness is tolerated. Over time, that tolerance chips away at their motivation. Some get resentful. Others quietly start lowering their own standards. And before you know it, your culture and productivity have eroded.

Proverbs 10:5 gives us a clear picture: the wise get to work when it’s time to work. They gather in the harvest season because they know it’s fleeting. But those who “sleep during harvest” aren’t just missing the opportunity—they’re causing shame. That word “shame” is important—it speaks to the loss of trust, respect, and credibility that comes when work is neglected.

As leaders, we have a responsibility to address this dynamic. And here’s the key: accountability and grace are not opposites. Accountability means setting clear expectations, providing measurable outcomes, and following through. Grace means doing it in a way that preserves dignity and opens the door for growth.

This isn’t just about getting the job done—it’s stewardship. God entrusts us with teams, resources, and opportunities. When we lead well, we protect the team's trust and create an environment where everyone has a chance to succeed.

And remember—accountability starts with us. We can’t expect from others what we’re not willing to model ourselves. Our example sets the tone for the culture we build.

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“Grace and accountability are not opposites — together, they create a culture where everyone can thrive.”

Action Points:

Today, think of one person in your workplace—or even in your circle—whose work habits are quietly affecting the rest of the team.

• First, pray for them by name.

• Then, look for one specific, constructive way you can start a conversation that brings both clarity and encouragement.