Do you want to be married? This is a scary question to ask but it is good to get on the same page. When all you do is constantly fight (which all marriages seem to go through this.) it is nice to get on the same page. If you two can agree on wanting to be married then at least you are agreeing on something. Remember that marriage is a choice not a “Feeling” so is love for that matter. So the real question is Do You Choose To Be Married To Me, Regardless Of How You Feel?