Have A Marriage Class 210 – Share the Load! this is kinda basic, divide your household work and everybody gets a to do list. You get a chore, you get a chore and you get a chore. We have talk to a lot of couples where one person is doing all of the housework while the other isn’t pitching in at all. This build resentment and bitterness, isn’t it just easier to compromise and come together and get things done.