Hey Believers, In this episode of the allenandeve podcast, we’re getting real about a recent moment where things got tense between us. Even after moments of deep repentance and confession, pride has a way of creeping back in and reopening old wounds.

We dive into:

• The "Microwave" Fix: Why we often expect instant healing in marriage when growth actually requires time and patience.
• The Battle of the Flesh: Using Romans 7 to understand why we often do the very things we don’t want to do, especially during an argument.
• Returning to Grace: How to apply the "patient and kind" love of 1 Corinthians 13 when your feelings are hurt.

Marriage isn't a game—it's a journey of constantly choosing humility over being "right". Whether you're in a season of peace or currently navigating a rough patch, we hope our transparency helps you find the path back to grace.

Timestamps

• 0:00 – When "I'm sorry" isn't enough
• 1:45 – The difference between patience and a "quick fix"
• 2:30 – Romans 7: The struggle of doing what we hate
• 4:15 – 1 Corinthians 13: Choosing love over pride
• 5:00 – A prayer for couples in conflict

Remember, it's Allan & Eve here to help you believe that marriage is not a game!!!