If you’re navigating personality differences in your marriage, here are five scriptures to pray over. They serve as powerful reminders that when we ask God to help us see each other as He created us, we become more patient, forgiving, and able to meet each other in the middle.

Romans 15:5-6 – “May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

Prayer: God, help us to support one another, even when our differences test us. Let us seek unity in our marriage, not by changing each other, but by valuing our unique strengths.

Colossians 3:13-14 – “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

Prayer: Lord, when my partner’s personality challenges me, give me the strength to forgive and be patient. Help me love them as You love me, unconditionally and completely.

Ephesians 4:2-3 – “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”

Prayer: Father, make us humble and gentle in spirit, willing to be patient with each other’s differences. May we actively pursue unity and peace in our relationship, even when it’s hard.

1 Peter 3:8-9 – “Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.”

Prayer: God, remind us to be kind, even in moments of frustration. Help us replace resentment with compassion and humility, lifting each other up rather than tearing down.

Philippians 2:3-4 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”

Prayer: Lord, help us to put aside our pride and value each other’s needs above our own. Give us the grace to lift each other up and grow together.