Join Abe and Elaine as they discuss this awesome principle from the Gottman research! We never want to control each other in marriage. This creates a parent- child like relationship. However, our feelings and thoughts should INFLUENCE our partner’s decisions. Warning for Wives: Sadly, to Elaine’s chagrin …this episode led to Abe’s visions of buying a motorcycle!

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Are you guilty of making the holidays all about your kids?? Don’t forget to celebrate your marriage and get a little Naughty or Nice! This short but sweet episode will get you into the mood of making sure your marriage gets the attention it deserves this Christmas. Watch out for that naughty Santa!

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Did you know that men are socialized in our culture to repress certain emotions? As a result, this can lead to isolation, depression, and frustration in marriage. It's important that all men and boys know it's healthy for them to widen their range of emotions. It's also okay to express strength and toughness too! Join Abe and Elaine for a great discussion on the male psyche and how it manifests in marriage. It's crucial that our men and boys understand that their role matters, that their anger may be masking repressed pain, and that we value all their feelings—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Ultimately, the goal is for both partners to feel safe being open and vulnerable in their marriages and families.

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Looking to keep your marriage thriving? 👫💖 Want to maintain that deep connection you felt when you first met? You might be surprised to learn that the secret isn't grand gestures or luxury gifts 🎁🎀, but rather in the day-to-day moments we often overlook 📆💡.

Join us in our latest episode 🎧 as we delve into Gottman's insightful Third Principle, "Turn Toward Your Spouse" 💑💕. Discover how focusing on this principle can make a world of difference in sustaining a meaningful, long-lasting bond 🤝💘.

Our podcast provides practical, easy-to-follow advice that can fit into your busy lives 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️. Whether it's a thoughtful conversation over breakfast ☕🥐, or a simple, shared smile during a stressful day 😊💫, we'll show you how these small moments can have a big impact.

Because true love isn't just about being together, it's about consciously turning toward each other, every day 🔄❤️. So tune in, and let's explore how to find the extraordinary within the ordinary together 🌟🔍.

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🎙️ Introducing our latest episode with special guests Pastor Scott and Jenny Treadway! 🌟 Get ready for a marriage advice session like no other! 💕

This isn't your typical pastor interview – be prepared for an exciting, laughter-filled conversation as Scott and Jenny spill the secrets behind their successful 30-year marriage! 💑

Discover how to safeguard your marriage during tough times, the art of self-improvement, and the importance of prioritizing FUN in your relationship! 😄✨

Don't miss this opportunity to learn from a couple who has mastered the art of a happy and fulfilling marriage! 🎧🥰

#MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #CouplesTherapy #LoveLanguages #CommunicationSkills #HealthyRelationships #MarriagePodcast #30YearsStrong #FunInMarriage #SelfImprovement

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Do you ever feel like enemies in your marriage? Do you get to a place where you feel lost or it becomes “you” against you against “them”?Join Abe and Elaine as they discuss the importance of securing a home base. What’s a home base? It’s that space in your marriage where you feel safe. There is a sense of peace. You speak in softer tones. You are vulnerable. You feel seen and accepted as yourself. Learn what stirs up and threatens this space and what secures it and keeps it safe! Pretty soon you’ll be saying Marco! Polo! ….just like the pros! Listen in to hear what we mean.

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Join Abe and Elaine as they discuss nurturing your fondness and admiration and what the heck that is!

According to the research at the Gottman Institute every couple needs to nurture what they are fond of and what they appreciate in their spouse. This is the second principal in their book The Seven Principles for Making a Marriage Work by, Gottman. Special guest appearance of Billy Bob Thornton from Sling Blade…haha.

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert https://a.co/d/bqNhr9z

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#4 The Twelve Bids of Christmas!

Guess what always gets put on the back burner at the holidays? Your marriage! Take time this holiday to make “bids” for connection with your spouse. Listen to Abe and Elaine discuss what bids are and fun ones during the holidays. Excuse Abe’s mind…sex always on the brain!

The Attitude Dance for your Gratitude Walk:
Tower of Power - Attitude Dance - 1991

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Join Abe and Elaine as they discuss your Love Map! According to the research at the Gottman Institute every couple needs a rich, detailed Love Map of their partner’s heart. This is the first principal in their book The Seven Principles for Making a Marriage Work by, Gottman. It’s so important to have this map especially if you are dating Bruce Wayne(aka: Batman). Listen to hear why!

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert https://a.co/d/dGg99XZ

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In a rut with your date night? Join Abe and Elaine as they talk about several rut-buster dates! Staying creative with date night is so important to marriages. This episode is sure to keep you laughing and give you some creative date ideas.

Online Cooking Class:
100pleats.com
(Yes! Elaine was right)

Chocolate Tasting Date Kits:
Green & Black's Organic Tasting Collection 395G https://a.co/d/coUJbVT

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Cheese Tasting Kit:
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Wine Tasting Kit:
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