Marriage Is Better

In this episode, Trey & Q. discuss a few questions that a few people had for Freestyle Friday.

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In this episode, Trey & Q. talk all about arguments. Have you ever thought about breaking up after an argument?

What starts them, and tips on how to get through them.

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In this episode, Trey & Q. roll through a few topics on Freestyle Friday. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes.

 Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Key Points From This Episode:

Who Raised You? [00:00:44]

Information on voting Vote411.org. [00:4:04]

Kanye for president? (00:6:04)

Check out your neighborhood Next door App. (08:29:21)

August Alsina and Jada's love triangle. (12:48:00)

New On Netflix this month. (18:18:01)

Netflix hack for 'Continue Watching'. (25:00:16)

Small Business Shoutout Sasha Cheesecakes. (27:16:14)

Birthday freebies from companies. (29:01:01)

And much more!

Recommendations Mentioned in This Episode

This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast.

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Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode!

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In this episode, Trey & Q. give a little advice to younger married couples and a few things they've learned over the last 6 years. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes.

 Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: 

Key Points From This Episode: 

How full is your cup? (0:00:44)

Expectations of the spouse. (0:2:22) 

Trey and Q. answer the question of why they got married. (0:4:23)

Importance of knowing what you want in a spouse. (0:4:26) 

Trey's thoughts on him preparing for marriage. (0:10:22) 

Importance of premarital counseling before marriage. (0:10:39) 

A few things they felt they needed to know about their spouse before they got married. (0:12:49) 

Q's pressure from not growing up in church and marrying a preacher's kid. (0:15:51)

A few things they would go back and tell their pre-married selves. (0:16:53) 

Book recommendation. (0:18:37) 

Balancing wants and needs when married. (0:18:58)

Leave Trey & Q a voicemail 682-231-0848. (0:23:58) 

GAME: This or That. (0:24:43)

Trey's Logic. (0:26:51) 

Working on yourself even after you get married. (0:28:55) 

And much more! 

Recommendations Mentioned in This Episode: 

Book - The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary Chapman 

This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. 

Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848 

Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode!

The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast)

In this episode, Trey & Q. talk about hypergamy or the tendency to fawn upon, seek and pursue partners of a higher class, income, or status than themselves. aka marrying up. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes. 

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

 Hypergamy Youtube video:  youtu.be/yiu5h2rPsSA 

Key Points From This Episode: 

What is hypergamy? (0:03:10) 

Is the man or the woman the prize in the relationship? (0:6:14) 

The standards a great father will set for his daughter. (0:6:58) 

Hot girl summer influencer mentality of some women today. (0:7:54) 

The movie 'Holes' reference to a man coming to the table before taking a father's daughter in marriage. (0:9:05) 

When women see wealth, sometimes it translating to stability or comfortability. (0:10:05)

Some of the things Q was looking for in a guy. (0:11:32)

Getting married young and growing together. (0:12:32) 

Personal story on how you can feel empty when you put your value in your spouse. (0:13:14) 

Discussion on who pays the bills/finances. (0:16:23) Having premarital counseling. (0:16:40) 

How your parents can influence your thoughts on finances. (0:17:40) 

Having joint accounts for everything, no confusion. (0:19:07) 

Personal story of a friend who has separate accounts in marriage. (0:19:57) 

Men who look to be supported by there women. (0:21:57)

GAME: Would You Rather. (0:24:36) 

Trey's Logic. (0:27:00) 

Book Recommendation. (0:29:27) 

And much more! 

Recommendations Mentioned in This Episode: 

Book - Relationship Goals by Michael Todd 

This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. 

Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcasts so you don't miss the next episode! 

The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast)

In this episode, Trey & Q. talk about birthdays once you get grown. How we should be intentional when we are planning it. Then they talk about how clueless we can all be in our 20's and go over a few things everyone should learn in their 20's. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes. 

 Peer pressure doesn't go away 

Your company doesn't care about you 

Loving yourself is hard 

It's really hard to save money

They took some time out to check in on some personal and professional milestones they both are working on. They ended this episode talking about a place or event that transformed their ideas, thinking, perspective, and what changed about them then concluded with Trey's Logic segment. 

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: 

NY Times How to Celebrate Your Birthday Article

20 Harsh Life Lessons

Books Mentioned: 

Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex

This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast.

Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcasts so you don't miss the next episode! 

The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast)

Hey y'all! The How Do You Love Me Podcast is a weekly conversation hosted by Trey & Q. Scott, a millennial married couple in DFW, Texas. They're talking about juicy current events, married life, and personal growth/development. 

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This episode is an introduction to the podcast. Q  goes through an early marriage story when she came home early to Trey doing something she couldn't believe on her new comforter!

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Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast)

Premieres June 29th.