Marriage Isn't Dead

In this very personal episode, I share my personal journey with video game addiction and its negative impact on my life and marriage. I explore the cultural significance of video games, the definition and criteria for addiction, and the consequences of excessive gaming. I emphasize the importance of recognizing addiction symptoms and offer insights on overcoming these challenges. I ultimately advocate for a balanced approach to gaming or ceasing gaming all together._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email: ⁠[email protected]⁠Chapters00:00 Intro01:03 Definition and Symptoms of Video Game Addiction03:08 Personal Experiences with Gaming Addiction05:07 Marvel Contest of Champions08:30 Marital Issues and Addiction10:05 Recognizing and Overcoming Addiction13:17 The Journey to Recovery and Self-Improvement14:30 Final Thoughts on Gaming and Life Choices

I discuss the critical differences between winners (growth mindset) and losers (fixed mindset). I give you one simple phrase to help you change your life. I emphasize the importance of learning from mistakes, embracing change, and the value of delayed gratification in achieving success. Mindset plays a significant role in personal development and success! I give you a roadmap to take personal responsibility for your situation and work towards positive change._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email: ⁠[email protected]⁠Chapters00:00 Growth Mindset Vs. Fixed Mindset05:22 “What You're Not Changing, You're Choosing”08:14 Tips To Make Your Life Better 11:05 Success Redefined: Beyond Financial Gains

I dive into the complex issues surrounding infidelity, particularly focusing on sexual frustration. I give you SIX different tips to work on if you find yourself in a dull or unsatisfying sexual relationship.  I discuss the differing perspectives of men and women regarding infidelity, the importance of communication and conflict resolution in relationships, and when it might be necessary to consider ending a relationship. I emphasize the need for variety and initiation in sexual dynamics, while also addressing exceptions such as past trauma and medical issues that can impact sexual relationships.

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What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?

Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.

Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!

YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 

Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠

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Email:  ⁠[email protected]⁠

Chapters

00:00 Sexual Frustration

02:24 #1: Break Out of Routine

04:09 #2: Confront Him/Her

05:25 #3: Exploring Fantasies

06:39 #4: Sexual Initiation

07:21 #5: Porn as a Tool

08:10 #6: Introduce Toys

09:00 When to Consider Ending a Relationship

11:51 Exceptions to The Rule

14:10 Final Thoughts

Will Consensual Non Monogamy (CNM) ever replace traditional monogamy and marriage? I explore the concept of open relationships and polyamory, discussing its implications, challenges, and the reasons why traditional marriage remains prevalent. These are five different reasons CNM will never replace traditional marriage/relationships based on stats, research, and personal experience. I emphasize the emotional complexities involved in sexual relationships and the societal perceptions surrounding non-traditional arrangements.

Let’s talk sex!  In this episode, I discuss the concept of boring “scheduled sex” and how it can be transformed into exciting sex dates. I emphasize the importance of scheduling intimacy in busy lives, the need for communication, and the benefits of anticipation in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship. I provide practical tips on how to create the right environment for sex dates and when to schedule them for maximum enjoyment.

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What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?

Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.

Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!

YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 

Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠

Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠

Email:  ⁠[email protected]⁠

Chapters

00:00 Sex Dates vs. Scheduled Sex

01:48 Why Sex Dates?

02:49 When Should You Have Sex Dates?

05:14 Where Can You Have Sex Dates?

08:00 Important Tips

12:55 Have Fun!

Infidelity is one of, if not the worst thing that can happen in marriage. In this episode, I discuss the complex issue of infidelity in marriages. I highlight the six most common ways affairs begin based on my past coaching experience. I stress the importance of understanding the impact of infidelity on relationships and the necessity of setting boundaries to prevent these situations. I explain my strong stance against cheating and advocate for honesty and communication in relationships.

I discuss the pitfalls of texting in relationships, emphasizing the importance of face-to-face communication. I highlight how texting can lead to misunderstandings due to the lack of non-verbal cues and tone. I share personal experiences and generational perspectives on communication, offering practical advice for maintaining healthy relationships. 

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What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?

Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.

Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!

YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 

Email:  ⁠[email protected]⁠

I recently listened to a female therapist in a podcast saying “Marriage makes your lover a relative.” I completely disagree. In this episode, I discuss the complexities of marriage, emphasizing the importance of maintaining attraction, prioritizing relationships, and navigating the challenges of parenthood. I argue against the notion that marriage diminishes romantic connection, advocating for continuous effort and individuality within the partnership. I share personal insights from my 20 years of marriage, highlighting the need for couples to prioritize their relationship and maintain a loving environment for their children.

In this heartfelt episode, I reflect on the tragic murder of Brian Thompson, the United Healthcare CEO whose death deeply affected the central Iowa community where we both grew up. I share my personal memories of Brian, discuss the tribute article I wrote that went viral, and critique the negative responses it received. I explore the broader implications of social media on society, emphasizing the need for empathy and human connection in a world increasingly driven by online interactions. I conclude with a call to action for listeners to engage positively with their communities and to remember the humanity behind the headlines.

Chapters

00:00 Remembering Brian Thompson

03:31 The Impact of Social Media on Public Perception

09:48 The Dangers of Online Discourse

14:40 A Call for Humanity and Connection

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What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?

Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.

Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!

YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 

Email:  ⁠[email protected]⁠

In this episode, I explore the evolution of marriage over the past century, discussing historical, cultural, and technological changes that have shaped modern relationships. Topics include the impact of the Industrial Revolution, agriculture changes, the sexual revolution, no-fault divorce, and technology.  I also address the economic independence of women and the influence of technology on dating and relationships. While marriage has changed, it is not dead!  I offer insights into how to navigate modern relationships successfully.

Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:55 Industrial Revolution

03:01 Early 1900s: Cultural Shifts

04:20 WWII and the Baby Boom

05:25 Hormonal Birth Control

06:45 1970s: No-Fault Divorce

07:45 Women in the Workforce 

08:30 Gen X and Latchkey Kids

11:25 Mass Exodus of Rural Areas

13:10 Tech Boom and Its Effects

15:27 2000s and Social Media

16:58 2007: Smartphones 

18:40 Dating Apps

20:08 Summary and Consequences

24:00 Marriage isn't Dead! It Just Changed

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What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?

Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.

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