From college sweethearts at Rochester Institute of Technology to raising three kids and building a thriving videography business together, Rafi and Susan have spent the last 31 years growing in marriage, parenthood, and entrepreneurship—side by side. In this episode, we sit down with the husband and wife duo behind a Phoenix-based video studio to talk about how creativity fuels their connection, what it’s like to work together every day, and the quiet, meaningful moments that have shaped their story across three decades.

Having their first kid at only 15 years old, the odds were heavily against them. But with perseverance and love at the forefront of their decision making, Bill and Judy turned the stats around, successfully raising 3 children and running their own business together. Listen in for a story that begins with young love and continues to this day as a strong, mature and inspirational relationship.

"Protect the spirit of your union." - Dolly Lamma

Listen along to learn what it takes to create a meaningful relationship that lasts. Through conflicts and seemingly insurmountable obstacles to the creation of a foundation strong enough to stand the test of time. Through it all, this couple still performs music together and dances as a source of playfulness within their partnership. We are so excited for you to tap into this couples wisdom found from years of experience.

In this heartwarming episode, we sit down with Julie and Jim, who share the wisdom earned from 36 years of marriage and the journey of blending families with love and grace. Julie offers thoughtful insight on navigating stepfamily dynamics, reminding listeners that “the rules go with the house” and encouraging open communication—even with exes. Jim shares timeless advice for newlyweds, reflecting on the importance of partnership: “I have always looked at us as a team... Be supportive, give space to grow, don’t be controlling.”

Together, they explore how their view of marriage has evolved, noting that couples today are more intentional—not just in choosing their life partner, but in how they commit and craft their vows. Whether you're newly engaged or decades in, this episode is full of grounded, compassionate advice for making love last.

🎧 Tune in, and be inspired by Julie and Jim’s enduring connection.

A couple that has cultivated a home of love over the last 35 years. From raising babies to being surrounded by grand-babies, a lot of their highs lie within the family.

Do not think marriage is disposable. Their advice is to remember tomorrow is going to be a new day, and give yourself and your partner some grace. If you love someone, keep putting in the work.

🎙️ 40 Years of Love: Steve + Amy’s Story 💍

Join us as we walk through 40 years of love, commitment, and faith with Steve + Amy. From meeting in grade school to building a family-centered marriage, their journey is filled with wisdom, trials, and the deep respect that has shaped their relationship.

For Steve + Amy, marriage isn’t about luck—it’s about intention. "The kids are second, and we’ve lived our lives that way. They knew the fastest way to get into trouble was disrespecting mom—that respect was built into the DNA of our family."

Through every challenge, they’ve held onto one simple truth: "It’s my responsibility, even if it’s not my fault." And when it comes to communication? "You always have two buckets—one with water, one with gas. Every conversation is a choice. Once you say something, it can never be taken back."

Marriage, they say, "can be better than you think, but it won’t just fall into place. You have to believe you can be best friends. Aim small and aim higher."

Their story is real, raw, and filled with lessons from four decades of building a life together. Tune in for an episode that will leave you inspired—whether you're just starting your journey or decades in.

🎧 Listen now!

An honest and real walk through 35 years of marriage and end of life together.

"The reality is there are going to be bad days, you are going to have to forgive your spouse at times. If you don’t, you are going to keep adding weight and create a burden within your relationship. You also have to learn to forgive yourself - not excuse yourself, but forgive yourself. "

"I want to set Sandy up for a transition, not a trauma. A resource we do not value enough is time."

If you enjoyed our podcast please leave a review!

Tune in Feb 28th for the next podcast episode!

Want to be on the Marriage Memoirs Podcast? If you have been married 30+ years get in touch at [email protected]

The who, what and why of the Marriage Memior podcast. Traci and Bill here and we are stoked to meet you!