Introduction
Proverbs 23:23John 17:17Expectations about marriage are critically important.Pessimistic – “Marriage is horrible.”
Genesis 1:26-31 – God’s creation is very good, including marriage!Genesis 29:20 – How good it feels to be in love!Proverbs 18:22; 19:14Ephesians 5:28, 33Idealistic – “This will solve everything.”
You may still face money problems or depression.Your spouse is not your purpose in life.Acts 17:26-28 – God is our purpose in life.Luke 18:28-30Luke 20:34-36 – We can be happy in heaven without marriage.I Corinthians 7:1-9 – Being marriage won’t instantly cure lust and temptation.Romans 7:3 – Why is this verse here if marriage is the end of temptation?Ecclesiastes 5:10 – Getting a great job won’t necessarily solve your money problems.I Thessalonians 4:3Materialistic – “Everything’s gotta look good.”
II Kings 9:30; I Kings 21:25 – Everything is not what it appears to be!Proverbs 31:30 – Fearing the Lord is what makes a good marriage.Proverbs 21:19John 2:1 – It’s about more than just the wedding.I Peter 3:3, 7-8Ephesians 5:25Not a marriage myth: Optimistic – “Marriage takes work, but it’s a great relationship.”
Proverbs 31:10