Want to prevent the biggest problems in your marriage before they even start?

In this episode, Evan and Susan Money share how great marriages are built on consistent, intentional habits—not hype or perfection.

With practical wisdom and personal stories, they break down five key questions every couple should ask to build “guardrails” and keep their relationship strong. You’ll discover why clear communication, embracing rest as a weapon, regular course-correcting, truly listening, and paddling together (not in competition!) are essential for a thriving partnership. Tune in for actionable takeaways and inspiration to level up your marriage today.

Timestamped Overview

[00:00:01] Introduction & Episode Topic
[00:01:16] Welcoming New Listeners & Sponsor Shout-Outs
[00:02:06] “Solve Problems Before They Become Problems”
[00:03:15] Key Question 1: Where Are We Going Together?
[00:06:01] Key Question 2: Is One of Us Exhausted?
[00:12:21] Key Question 3: Do We Need to Adjust Our Course?
[00:15:43] Key Question 4: Are We Truly Listening to Each Other?
[00:18:46] Key Question 5: Are We Paddling Our Boats Together?
[00:22:47] Putting Insights Into Action
[00:23:08] Closing & How to Connect with Evan and Susan

Happiness isn’t a destination—it’s a daily choice! What if the secret to an exceptional life is found not in grand achievements, but in infusing ordinary moments with care, attention, and gratitude?

In this inspiring episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, Susan Money and Evan Money share personal stories and key lessons inspired by Jim Rohn, revealing how focusing on who you are becoming leads to lasting fulfillment in marriage, parenting, and beyond. Discover why “there is no there”—only the growth of today—and how simple shifts in perspective can transform your everyday life.

Key highlights include:

• Insights from Evan Money’s journey from stumbling upon a pirated Jim Rohn tape to personal and professional transformation

• Susan Money’s reflections on parenting, savoring childhood moments, and letting go of the “destination disease”

• Practical tips to turn ordinary experiences—meals, walks, conversations—into extraordinary opportunities for growth and connection

• Timeless quotes and actionable wisdom from Jim Rohn and John Wooden to guide your path

Episode Overview:

00:01 What is the art of exceptional living?
00:30 The Marriage of Greatness Podcast introduction
00:43 Greatness through consistent habits, not perfection
01:34 Roots of the episode—Jim Rohn’s influence
02:06 Evan Money’s life-changing experience with personal growth audio
03:24 Growth is a journey, not an overnight leap
03:48 Susan Money shares her introduction to personal growth
04:44 Embracing a new model for a life well-lived
06:08 Debunking the “destination disease”: start exceptional living now
07:10 Bringing extraordinary care to ordinary moments
08:28 The myth of “there” and the power of presence
09:00 Parenting intentionally and savoring childhood
10:08 Letting go of the need for order, embracing the present
12:00 Creating extraordinary moments in marriage
13:24 Savoring the simple things and practicing daily gratitude
14:18 “Extraordinary” is just a little extra above ordinary
14:26 Jim Rohn’s core lesson: it’s about who you become
15:16 Growth over stagnation—why life is never static
16:05 Susan Money: Choosing to become happier, day by day
17:00 John Wooden’s wisdom on choices shaping who we are
17:20 Taking action: putting today’s lessons into practice
17:35 Closing and next steps for listeners

Choosing love again and again is where the real magic happens—could a hundred weddings hold the key to keeping romance alive?

In this episode, the Marriage of Greatness Podcast continues its globe-trotting journey with Part two of weddings #38 and #39 in the breathtaking landscapes of Italy and Switzerland.

From a Star Wars-themed vow exchange on Lake Como to a picturesque ceremony overlooking the Matterhorn (complete with goat parades, ziplining adventures, and some unforgettable French toast), learn how Evan and Susan’s commitment to writing new vows each time keeps their marriage fresh and extraordinary. Featuring heartwarming stories, practical romance insights, and a sneak peek at their next wedding, this episode will inspire every couple to turn ordinary habits into extraordinary love.

Timestamped Overview

[00:00:00] Weddings 38 & 39: Italy & Switzerland—Introduction[00:01:23] Welcome, Romantic Inspirations, and Shoutouts
[00:03:04] Recap of Lake Como Wedding & Lake Adventures[00:03:30] Defining Terms: Why Write New Vows?[00:04:11] Arrival in Zermatt, Matterhorn Magic, Disney Backstory[00:05:02] Zermatt’s Charm: No Cars, Goats, Ski Town Vibe[00:06:29] Goat Parade Experience & Town Atmosphere[00:07:04] High-End Meets Alps Country Charm[00:07:48] Ziplining and (Attempted) Paragliding Fun[00:09:02] Unique Zipline Obstacle Course in the Trees[00:09:31] Over Rivers, Soccer Fields, and the Town[00:10:12] Go-at-Your-Own-Pace Adventures & Mishaps[00:11:06] Culinary Highlights: French Toast and Kiwi Surprises[00:12:13] Swiss Bread, Spa, and Pool Experiences[00:13:30] Planning the Matterhorn Wedding & Dress Decisions[00:15:07] Tracksuit Wedding: The Adidas Inspiration[00:16:51] Journey Up the Mountain: Weather and Group Dynamics[00:17:39] The Ceremony: Magic, Bouncers, and Vows[00:20:02] The Gornergrat Railway & Chapel Details[00:21:25] Planning Wedding #40: Chicago Teaser[00:22:45] What Inspired You? Call to Action[00:24:56] Closing & Podcast Info

Join the Marriage of Greatness podcast for an unforgettable journey as the hosts celebrate weddings number 38 and 39 in spectacular style—this time in Italy and Switzerland!

The conversation focused on their mission to reach 100 weddings by their 100th birthday, sharing the inspiration and planning behind each unique ceremony. One concept discussed was how they choose to create brand-new vows for each wedding, embracing growth and new commitments rather than simply renewing old promises.

A key theme that emerged was the transformative power of travel and adventure in keeping romance alive. The discussion explored their dream destinations, including the influence of friends’ travel stories and iconic films like The Sound of Music and Star Wars. Several points were raised, including the challenges of planning multi-country trips, their dynamic as a visionary-detail-oriented couple, and the game-changing decision to book an Adventures by Disney tour, with shoutouts to phenomenal guides Sylvia and Colin.

Highlights include a magical Star Wars-themed wedding at Lake Como, ziplining at the Matterhorn, culinary adventures in Venice, and unforgettable moments in Milan’s grand train station. The episode wraps up with a heartfelt reading of their bonding ceremony vows, inspired by favorite authors and films, encouraging listeners to intentionally invest in their own marriages.

Don’t miss this episode packed with inspiration, travel tips, and a celebration of love, adventure, and intentional growth in marriage!

Taking responsibility in your marriage isn’t just admirable—it's contagious. What if the true language of love isn’t spoken, but shown through your everyday actions?

In this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money uncover the powerful idea that "behavior is a language." Inspired by a quote from John Delony and a championship mindset lesson from Tom Brady, they explore how couples can transform their relationships by ending the blame game, consistently showing up with love, and making intentional choices every day. Discover how the “ultimate team sport” of marriage thrives on selflessness, practical daily habits, and a commitment to positive, repeatable actions. Tune in for actionable tips, real-life stories, and an inspiring look at the simple habits that build marriages of greatness.

Timestamped Overview

[00:00] Behavior is a language—episode introduction[00:28] Meet Evan and Susan; the power of habits over hype[01:22] Shoutouts, inspiration source, and John Delony’s quote[02:11] Championship mindset and accountability—insights from Tom Brady[03:35] Translating sports teamwork to marriage[04:21] Why blame never works and the value of responsibility[06:17] Self-reflection questions for a marriage of greatness[07:50] Love language in action—practical daily habits[09:04] The wisdom of dogs—showing up with presence[10:05] The power of full attention and intentional presence with loved ones[11:01] What language is your marriage speaking?[11:34] Call to action and signing off[12:05] Show credits and follow information

When you define your marriage values, you don’t just set a direction—you establish a legacy. What are the beliefs guiding the choices, actions, and happiness in your marriage?

In this episode, Susan Money and Evan Money draw from NBA coach Steve Kerr and NFL’s Pete Carroll to reveal why values—not strategy—build greatness in marriage and life. The hosts share their step-by-step journey to narrowing down their core values, the importance of intentional living, and how joy becomes a daily, practical discipline. You’ll hear candid stories, valuable definitions, actionable health wisdom, and a powerful challenge to declare your own marriage values—before culture or circumstance decides for you.

Timestamped Overview

00:00 Defining Marriage Values—The Big Question
01:16 Shout Outs & Introduction of Core Topic01:37 The Steve Kerr/Pete Carroll Coaching Story03:33 Shaping Personal & Nonprofit Values04:11 What Are Values? Defining the Core Compass05:02 The Values List Exercise06:01 Revealing the Four Values: Joy, Intentionality, Responsibility, Integrity07:03 Practicing Joy—Real-Life Examples & Insights09:18 Living Intentionally: Health, Habits, & Feedback from Friends13:02 Unpacking Responsibility: Ownership Over Excuses13:47 Integrity—Doing Right When No One Is Watching15:42 Surprise Reveal: Distilling Four Values Down to Two16:24 Why You Must Choose (Not Default) Your Marriage Values17:18 The Power of Values in Shaping Legacy and Daily Life18:40 Take Action—Have the Conversation and Live Out Your Values19:09 Closing & Where to Find More

Building a great marriage isn't about perfection—it's about consistently choosing intimacy. Did you know there are five distinct types of intimacy that can transform your relationship?

In this energizing episode, Susan Money and Evan Money unpack the five types of intimacy every marriage needs: emotional, intellectual, physical, experiential, and spiritual. You'll discover practical and heartfelt insights, like why using a partner’s vulnerability as “ammunition” can shut down emotional closeness and how bonding over simple shared experiences (even a staycation shopping trip!) can deepen your connection. Explore easy ways to prioritize all five types of intimacy, avoid the trap of “roommate” marriages, and create a relationship that's truly extraordinary—one intentional habit at a time.

Timestamped Overview

00:01 Episode intro and defining intimacy04:41 The five types of intimacy overview05:04 Emotional intimacy explained06:26 Intellectual intimacy and practical examples10:30 Physical intimacy beyond sex12:30 Experiential intimacy and fun real-life stories16:46 Spiritual intimacy and ways to connect19:41 Why intimacy is something you build21:00 Final thoughts and actionable takeaways22:25 Closing and resources

Discover why the greatest gift you can give your partner isn't your promises—it's your personal growth. What does it mean to pursue a higher version of love, and how can your habits transform not just your marriage, but everyone around you?

Evan Money and Susan Money unpack the mindset shift from "I need you" to "I'm becoming more for you," sharing real-life examples and actionable steps for couples who want to move from good to great. Through personal stories, practical questions, and a call to break free from limitation and shame, this episode is your roadmap to multiplying greatness in your relationships and beyond.

Timestamped Overview

[00:00] Introduction & Opening Thoughts[01:16] The Power of Habit in Marriage[01:47] Inspiration from Jim Rohn & the Call to Grow[02:55] Rejecting “The One” Myth and Taking Responsibility[04:06] Personal Stories: Growth, God, and Multiplication[05:49] Self-Care for Each Other & Goal Setting[07:01] Reflective Questions for Listeners[08:50] How to Start Growing—Prayer, Input, and Asking Questions[10:25] The Simplicity of Starting Your Growth Journey[12:29] The Ripple Effect: Raising All Ships[13:40] Two Versions of Love: Consumption vs. Contribution[14:44] Growth as the Greatest Gift in Marriage[15:40] Taking Action & Becoming the Change[16:33] Closing & Next Steps

Discover why identity—not strategy—is the real game changer for creating a marriage of greatness! What happens when legendary tennis champion Rafael Nadal and biblical wisdom come together to teach us about choosing who we are in our relationships?

In this episode, Susan Money and Evan Money share how your marriage doesn’t have to follow the patterns you’ve seen around you. Drawing lessons from Nadal’s struggle to step beyond his tennis identity and Moses’ decision to embrace a new path, they challenge you to consciously choose what kind of couple you want to become—no matter your past. With practical questions, faith-based insights, and the encouragement to map out your own "happily ever after," this is your invitation to start living your chosen marriage adventure today!

Timestamped Overview

00:01 Choose your own marriage identity

00:29 Welcome and introduction

01:34 The inspiration: Rafael Nadal and "Choose Your Own Adventure" books

03:16 Moses’ story: Identity and choice

05:06 Nadal’s struggle with identity and transition

07:59 How to define your marriage and create your own example

10:18 Susan Money and Evan Money’s journey to a “happily ever after” marriage

12:26 The power of choosing and changing identity

13:38 Ask God: Who do you say that I am?

14:08 If you don’t choose your identity, the world will

15:07 Identity before strategy—why your story matters

17:14 Become it first: why identity leads and actions follow

18:18 Your past is not your identity—choose greatness

Transform your marriage fights into opportunities for deep connection! What if every argument was a chance not just to improve, but to truly transform how you relate to your spouse?

In this energizing episode, Susan Money and Evan Money break down the 5 Levels of Fighting in Marriage, inspired by Dan Tuccini’s five levels of personal growth, revealing how to move from reactive battles to meaningful breakthroughs. Hear real-life stories (blender incident, anyone?), practical tools, and the powerful question that instantly turns conflict into growth. Plus, discover why the journey to greatness is worth every step in your relationship.

Timestamped Overview

00:00 Introduction & Episode Hook00:48 The Foundation: Marriages Built on Habits01:26 Shout-outs & Inspiration for the Episode02:04 Level 1 Fights: “I’m Threatened”03:00 Level 2 Fights: “I’m Different” and Taking Responsibility04:35 Susan Money’s “Room of Improvement” Analogy05:57 Level 3 Fights: “I Can Observe”06:46 Real-Life Example: The Blender Incident08:30 The Process of Staying at Level 310:47 Level 4 Fights: “I Can Understand”13:11 The Power of Understanding & Asking Quality Questions15:09 Level 5 Fights: “What Is This Fight Revealing in Me?”16:13 Improvement vs. Transformation17:38 Interrupting Patterns & Real Change18:53 Practical Tools: Calling a Timeout in Fights20:18 Why Do the Work? The Joy in the Marriage Journey22:07 Putting It into Action22:17 Closing & Where to Follow