Ever wonder why your partner didn't reveal something about their past until much further into the relationship? Or why marriages seem to be an outdated concept for many young adults? Well, you're not alone. Join us in this enlightening conversation as we unravel the mysteries of secrets, honesty, and communication in relationships. We kick off the discussion with a personal anecdote about a unique anniversary surprise – a hidden secret that landed Matthew on the show Wheel of Fortune!

Our journey takes a deeper turn as we dissect the culture of secrecy, specifically in marriages and relationships. We shed light on the reasons why individuals hide aspects of their past, their age, or even their financial situations from their partners. Drawing on our own experiences and current social trends, we delve into the impact of these undisclosed truths on marriages and the significance of thorough background checks before tying the knot.

Wrapping up, we pivot to the essential, yet often misunderstood, concepts of honesty and privacy in relationships. The fine line between maintaining personal space and fostering dishonesty is a challenging one to tread. We emphasize the importance of timing and transparent communication with your partner and explore when it is appropriate to hold back information and when to share. Throughout the discussion, we tap into biblical wisdom to underscore the importance of being truthful to oneself and to one’s spouse. So, tune in, you won't want to miss this insightful exploration of the complicated world of relationships and communication.

Season 3 is here! New Episodes coming September 18th

We discuss some of the top reasons and moments when people realized when their  marriage was over. 

We discuss an article where married people give advice to people who have yet to get married. We picked the highlights that are really great advice for not just people who are not yet married, but even those who are married can take a look at their relationship and begin to put this into practice. 

We are discussing a new trend of spouse's who no longer sleep with each other. Giving various reasons for more alone time, not having their late night scrolling interrupted, and better sleep...we aren't buying it.

We are continuing our conversation of the secrets married men are keeping from their wives. We talk double lives, money, lies, and a whole lot of cheating between these couples. 

This is part one of a conversation we had on an article where men shared the secrets they have been keeping from their wives. There are double lives, affairs, lies, sheltering feelings, threesomes, and all sorts of chaos to discuss. One thing we can learn, secret secrets are no fun, secret secrets hurt someone...

If we had to put together a trampoline, in below freezing temperatures, on Christmas Eve, late a night...we realized it wouldn't end well. Everyone that has kids has experienced this high level stressful moment. Why does this always seem to happen? We dive into those reasons and why men especially are not allowed to have emotions. What would it look like if we just admitted we don't have all the answers and instead consulted the instructions for everything we encounter. 

How difficult is it to forgive each other? How difficult is it to forgive yourself? Today we discuss grace in your marriage. Men, how are your wives suppose to submit to you as the bible instructs if you will not submit to Jesus first...simple answer, they can't. We talk about the importance and impact full submission to Jesus will have not just in your marriage but your life. 

We love immediate gratification and crave satisfaction, but we will never achieve it when our relationships are microwaveable. We talk about why we want it now and how we can prevent the destruction it causes.