Episode Title: Mining for Gold: The Art of the Follow-Up
Episode Summary: You ask a great question. Someone answers. Then silence. Most leaders jump in to fill the gap—but what if the real conversation was just about to start? In this episode, Jimmy teaches one of the most underrated skills in small group leadership: the follow-up question. Learn why the first answer is just the surface, and how to help your group go from observation to application through the simple art of asking one more question.
Key Takeaway: Never settle for the first answer. The first answer is usually observation—safe and surface-level. Transformation happens when people move from head knowledge to heart engagement, and the follow-up question is what gets them there. The follow-up question is what turns a Bible study into discipleship.
Six Follow-Up Questions to Use:
- "Tell me more about that."
- "What makes you say that?"
- "Where do you see that playing out in your life?"
- "How does that make you feel?"
- "How would you explain that to a non-believer?"
- "What's the biggest obstacle to living that out?"
Key Insight: These questions don't give away the "right answer" or turn the conversation into an interrogation. They simply invite the person to keep talking. When you give people space to process out loud, they often discover things they didn't even know they were thinking. That's where the gold is.
A Word of Caution: Not every answer needs a follow-up. If someone just shared something painful or deeply vulnerable, don't immediately ask them to go deeper. Let it breathe. Affirm what they shared. The goal is to create a culture where people feel safe going deeper—and sometimes that means knowing when to stop digging.
Real-Life Example: Jimmy shares a story from a small group where a standard answer about trusting God became transformational when the leader asked, "What does that look like for you right now?" That simple follow-up unlocked vulnerability, gave permission to others facing the same struggle, and turned a surface-level discussion into a deeply unifying and edifying moment.
This Week's Challenge: Ask at least one follow-up question to each answer you receive. Not to put people on the spot. Not to fill time. But because you genuinely want to hear what God is doing in their lives. Watch what happens—conversations will get richer, connections will get deeper, and your group will realize: this isn't just a Bible study. This is discipleship.
Quote to Remember: "When you settle for the first answer, you rob your group of the chance to go deeper."
Runtime: 4:54
Release Date: January 22, 2026
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