Efficiency or effectiveness has a beginning point. That point of initiation needs to have a tone, a quality to it to set the upcoming process off in the correct trajectory. You will find, this applies to not only martial arts – the traditional un-armed combative systems, but for weapons too, and, heck your whole life I dare say! Further, this is not an easy process it needs elbow grease to work well. That my friend is up to you to apply. Also, in the, “We’re all in this together,” section a father decides he is going to call, and call, and call.