The Ultimate Guide To Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples

Are you comfortable talking dirty? Do you feel silly trying new lines, approaches and scenarios? You’re not alone. Jess and Brandon share their struggles (while sharing a few laughs) and offer guidance & strategies for all types of dirty talk from sweet and romantic to naughty and kinky. They try out dozens of lines that you can practice on your own and share with a partner (or two!).

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Rough Transcript

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Episode 218: Master Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples

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You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. Sex and relationship advice you can use tonight.

Brandon (00:16):

Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your co host Brandon Ware here with my lovely other half Dr. Jess.

Dr. Jess (00:23):

Hey, hey.

Brandon (00:24):

How are you?

Dr. Jess (00:25):

I'm fine. I want you to talk dirty to me.

Brandon (00:28):

I want you. I want you right now. You smiling and laughing at me doesn't help with the confidence here.

Dr. Jess (00:36):

I’m not laughing, I was just smiling at you. What do you think I want to hear in bed when I say talk dirty?

Brandon (00:43):

I think you want to hear that I want you that, I can't stop thinking about you.

Dr. Jess (00:49):

You never say that. If you know I want to hear that

Brandon (00:51):

I know it, it doesn't mean it’s what I say.

Dr. Jess (00:54):

So why don't you say that?

Brandon (00:55):

Because I feel stupid. Talking dirty, I feel dumb.

Dr. Jess (01:01):

Perfect setup for this episode.

Brandon (01:03):

Is it really?

Dr. Jess (01:04):

I think so, because we're going to be talking about dirty talk. And I think so many of us feel that way. But can I ask you something? In the heat of the moment, when you're like all riled up and you’re turned on and you know that I'm liking it and you're liking it, do you feel less silly?

Brandon (01:17):

No I still feel silly. Because I think, because I don't know what to say.

Dr. Jess (01:21):

But you do know what to say, because you just said it, in jest.

Brandon (01:25):

Yes but in the moment, it's like I'm drawing so many blanks.

Dr. Jess (01:32):

Well yeah anyhow. I was thinking that what I find is, that the more turned on I am, the less self conscious I am. If I'm in the heat of the moment, 'cause I don't worry about what's going on around me, I don't think about anybody else's needs.

Brandon (01:47):