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It's one thing to love a person.  To know how to love a person in the way that they need to be loved is an entirely different thing.  And many would say that people fall within 1 of 5 languages of love.  Do you personally identify with the 5 love languages?  What if you don't? Is there a 6th language Do you give and receive love with the same language?  Let's Talk!!!! 

With the tongue being such a powerful instrument, it would be wise to mind the words that spring from it.  They say what you constantly dwell on will manifest itself.  So constantly speaking and thinking about divorce is definitely a no-no in marriage.  Do you feel that divorce is a word that shouldn't come up in marriage? Do you believe that speaking about it, brings about its inevitability? Is there ever a time where divorce is the rightful option?  Let's Talk!!!

No matter who you decide to be with, someone will always have something to say. Letting the wrong person in your relationship can be just as detrimental as letting a stranger in your home.  But is there ever a good time to listen to other people in regards to your spouse? Does the source from which the criticism came from actually matter?  How do you navigate conflicting criticism from trusted sources in regards to your spouse? Let's Talk!!!!

What's your sign?  This question has been used many times when searching for a mate.  The answer to the question has halted many relationships for better or worse. Some won't even give you the time of day if your sign isn't compatible with theirs. Would you turn down a potentially good relationship because of the wrong zodiac?  How valid is compatibility when dealing with zodiac signs?  Let's Talk!!! 

You hear "Submission" and automatically think weak.  It's common that the role of a submissive partner is reserved for the woman.  The lack of willingness to submit to your spouse could often lead to unnecessary conflict in the relationship. Can two people who consider themselves to be the dominant partner submit to each other?  Should men also be submissive in a marriage/relationship?   What steps can one take to become more submissive without being considered weak or less than?  Let's Talk!!! 

Like the wind, energy is unseen but easily felt.  It's literally all around us.  Whether positive or negative its influence can directly impact our job, our day, our lives, and even our relationships. "Keep that same energy" has become a popular phrase, but what if that energy is negative.  What if your partner's energy is off?  Do you feel the need to change it?  Is it up to your spouse to change yours?  Can this lead to an even bigger issue down the line?  Let's Talk!! 

We were all taught to "Just Say No", but what if someone said no to you??? To make matters worse what if that same person was your lover??    Would it make you feel insecure??  Does saying no to you mean they're getting it somewhere else??  Is it that simple?  Let's Talk!!!

Let's be real nobody wants to have sex and not be fulfilled. And nobody wants to have a drill sergeant in the bedroom.  Where do you draw the line   between saying too much and not saying enough? What if your mate can't keep up?  Let's Talk!!!

How important is Intimacy?  A soft touch here, a gentle kiss there, or holding hands while walking side by side. Is it just a prerequisite to sex?  Can intimacy or lack thereof make or break a relationship?  Let's Talk!!!! 

HEY, YOU NEED TO COME GET YOUR GIRL!! WHY IS YOUR MAN AT THE BAR UP IN ANOTHER WOMAN'S FACE RIGHT NOW??... If you're in an exclusive relationship... these are just some of the things you never want to hear.  Knowing the whereabouts of your spouse is cool but knowing that wherever they are...they're not making you look like a fool is key.  How fine is the line between "just having fun" and being disrespectful??? Let's Talk!!!