Why does visibility feels so uncomfortable for creatives?

Ep 6: This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation on what it means to show up as yourself, and why that discomfort is necessary for transformation. In this Christmas special episode, I talk about something I’ve run from most of my life: being seen. I share why I disappeared from TikTok for two years after my West African fantasy series, The Ones Before, went viral, and how starting this podcast has forced me to confront the parts of myself I’ve been hiding. How shame vs. vulnerability shapes our lives, and how the “observer effect” reveals a character’s (and our own) true arc.

If you’ve ever held back because you didn’t want to be perceived incorrectly… enjoy dear friend.

Ep 5: Writing isn’t just about what you say... it’s about how it sounds.

In Part 2 of the “music of writing” series, I explore how rhythm, silence, pacing, and emotional intention shape the way stories feel.

I break down examples from The Road, Misery, The Social Network, The Handmaid’s Tale pilot, All Quiet on the Western Front, and an excerpt from my own fantasy series The Ones Before to show how writers create musicality on the page; through breath, tempo, punctuation, and tone.

If you’re a writer, storyteller, or someone trying to understand your voice, this episode is for you.

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Life is musical, therefore writing isn’t just about words, but the music hidden in the silence between them.

Ep. 4: In this episode, I explore how listening, pacing, and emotion shape the musicality of our stories, and what it means to hear the sound of being alive.

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What’s your WHY?

What's the thing that makes everything you do… worth doing.

No tricks, only treats here!

Ep. 3: Halloween Special!

In this episode of Me and My Imaginary Friends, I talk about how to find your “why,” or your North Star, through four lenses:

• My lived experiences and what I’ve learned along the way

• The symbolism of Polaris, the North Star

• The Igbo belief system

• And Toph Beifong’s ATLA story arc

And of course, it wouldn’t be a Halloween special without an even bigger treat. I read one of my original short stories, Firefly.

It’s a story about a character experiencing haunting cycles of sleep paralysis until… well, you’ll have to listen to get the full story.

Enjoy, dear friend :)

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Epidemic RF:

ES_Ancestors Without Peace — Ludvig Moulin

ES_Slide, Wobble Notes, Short, Double — Epidemic Sound

ES_Pings, Tings, Generic, Notification, Tings — Epidemic Sound

ES_They Walk Among Us — Lennon Hutton

ES_Wholesome — Daniella Ljungsberg

What would you do differently if you got a second chance at life?

Ep 2: We all go through difficult times, but what if your art could rescue you? As a creative, I’ve learned that pain shapes us into who we are, and that creating (writing, art, storytelling) can help us find ourselves again. To survive pain we need to give it form.

How has your art helped you navigate your life? Let me know in the comments! I’d love to hear your take.

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Spotify or Apple: / meandmyimaginaryfriends

Tiktok: / iamthechelsea

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RF Epidemic sound- ES_Spring Magic - Damon Greene

Feeling lost as a creative?

I don’t always know what I’m doing with my life. With a million creative passions and the pressure to “pick one,” I’m learning it’s less about answers and more about loving the questions. Join me as I figure it out, in the midst of fear and all.