James 4:1-3
Good morning saints! Good morning sinners!
So – Has anyone here ever been angry?
Really? I didn’t think Christians got angry.
Remember the TV series The Incredible Hulk? It ran from 1978 until 1982 and starred Bill Bixby as David Banner, and Lou Ferrigno as The Hulk. Most of the time Dr Banner was a nice guy. But when someone got in his face – and it seemed to happen every week – he would utter those famous words, “Don’t make me angry. You wouldn’t like me when I’m angry.” But if the person ignored this warning and made him angry – which also seemed to happen every week – Banner would transform into a big, green, angry monster called the Incredible Hulk, and destroy things.
Have you have ever been so angry at someone that, if you could get away with it, you would transform into the Hulk and settle things?
Oh, wait a sec, I forgot who my audience is. We are all good church folks. None of us has ever felt that way — have we?
Oh, we have, haven’t we! Truth is, we have all been angry.
Sometimes anger can be irritation. It really doesn’t bother us that much, and it quickly disappears, is forgotten, and we go on. When I get angry, I can mutter under my breath in the moment and make noise when I get alone. I can wallow in it for hours, or even weeks. But when some people get angry, they become like the Hulk. They literally lose control of their thinking, their words, and their actions. They destroy things, like relationships. To destroy a relationship in anger is probably the worst, yet it happens way too often.
This all raises an important question, even if we don’t get Hulk-angry: what purpose does our anger serve? Broadly speaking, don’t we tend to think that, besides making us feel better, expressing our anger will make the other person feel bad, see the error of their way for not agreeing with us, and come over to our side. Sound about right? But does it ever do that? Think about it – when someone got angry at you did you ever think, “Oh silly me, I am so happy they got angry and showed me the error of my ways so I might repent and follow them!” Nope. You’ve never done that.
I think we live in a culture in which more people become Hulks more often. Pick a topic and you can find stories and videos of people getting angry and then getting into fights. And it seems to me at least that more and more of those conflicts involve weapons of some kind. The use of guns doesn’t surprise us anymore. People use vehicles. Early last month a guy in Norway used a bow and arrow to kill 5 people. Parents fight with, and even kill, each other and referees over a bad call at elementary age sporting events.
Today blacks are angry with whites; republicans are angry with democrats; women are angry with men; police are angry with the crowd; straight with gay; rich with poor; pro-masker/pro-vaxers with anti-masker anti-vaxers. It’s Sunday, and I guarantee you, this afternoon football players and fans will get angry with each other. On a related note, if you are coming here this afternoon to watch the Eagles vs Broncos game, you better not get angry!
And perhaps the worst part is, it’s not just people “out there,” in the world, who are getting angry and fighting. It’s us, in the church, too.
I read about a fight in a Memphis, TN church that broke out between two women during a Sunday morning communion service. Police had to be called, and when they arrived, they had to forcibly separate the women.
In one church I served as pastor, the kid’s Sunday school leaders repainted the white classroom walls with bright, colorful paint. Shortly thereafter I got a visit from a woman who had nothing to do with Kid’s Ministry but who was very angry that they repainted the walls. She stayed angry at me for years over that.
Church people get angry over what kind of filing cabinet to buy, what kind of coffee to serve, even which photo of Jesus to put in the foyer. And worse.
About 25 years ago I attended a conf