Kids can be stubborn for a million different reasons. Sometimes it's because they're hungry, over-tired, have eaten too much sugar, or spent all day on a screen. Teens, especially, might see Mom or Dad as too strict, or feel that their freedom is being squashed. It may be that they've been ordered around at school all day, so they have zero patience left to comply with house rules. Energetically-speaking, though, stubbornness can emerge because our energy, as parents, comes into contact with our kids' energy, and together, we form a powerful, sometimes contrasting, conflicting, resistant bond, simply by sharing the same physical space. Other times, depending on who we are and how we parent, we just perceive kids as stubborn. BUT!
There are also those special beings out there who were just born to defy -- and that doesn't have to be a bad thing!
This week Janeen shares snippets from one of her recent videos explaining 3 of the most common places she sees in the Human Design chart that reveal why people of any age are experienced by others as stubborn, hard-headed, strong-willed or defiant. She offers tips and tools on how to work with these big energies so you can help your child turn them into superpowers instead of into shame-causing character flaws.
If you have a stubborn, spirited, strong-willed child, reach out to Janeen to see if she can help. She's got loads of experience working with kids, is the mom of two spectacularly spirited 'tweens, and was, herself, an extremely stubborn child who gave her parents a hard time! Learn how to view this challenging energy from a new perspective so you can experience more compassion for those powerful beings you're raising AND create more peace in your home.
Catch the full episode on YouTube to follow along with visuals so you know exactly where to look in your kiddo's chart to see if they have these energies flowing through their body. Get that chart for free here.
Learn more about Parenting with Human Design to get help raising your S.O.S. (Stubborn, Sassy, Strong-Willed Or Spirited!) child here!
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