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This is the second of a two-part episode in which we discuss our past, present, and future experiences with this highly transgressive form of kinky play, including forms of play that are based in past and present non-kinky cultural practices. We also discuss kinky ordeals as spiritual edge play.
Episode Art: "Cupid Testing The Flame Of His Torch," Pierre-Paul Prud'hon, 1814
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Edge play is a highly subjective type of psychological kink that pushes the boundaries of both Dominant and submissive/top and bottom. This is the first of a two-part episode in which we discuss our past, present, and future experiences with this highly transgressive form of kinky play.
Episode Art: "Girl on Cliff," Harold C. Harvey, 1926
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In this episode we discuss the different types of Dominant speech that Jislaaik uses to keep Lance in line.
Episode Art: Jacob Wrestling with the Angel, Gustave Doré , 1855
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In this episode, we explore some of the communication challenges we experience as a D/s couple, and how working on these challenges can be a form of personal and interpersonal development.
Episode Art: "Saint Paul in Prison," Rembrandt van Rijn, 1627
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This is the first of a two-part discussion of how Lance uses submissive speech to deepen our dynamic and enhance the erotic energy between us.
Episode Art: "Freedom of Speech," Norman Rockwell, c. 1943
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In this episode, we discuss the classes and presentations we attended at DomCon LA, as well what constitutes knowledge in the kink community vs other education venues.
Episode Art: "The Debate of Socrates and Aspasia," Nicolas-Andre Monsiau, c. 1800
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In this episode, we discuss our first impressions of our first major kinky conference, and our experience at the conference play party.
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This episode is the first of a 3-part discussion of our discussion of DomCon L.A. and other educational conferences we've attended.
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In this episode, we discuss why we want to be open and public about our BDSM-based FLR, why we often feel discouraged from doing so, and a few things we learned from our strut down Santa Monica Boulevard.
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This is the first of a two-part episode in which we discuss Lance's leash walk down Santa Monica Blvd, in West Hollywood, California.
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This podcast is about the complex dynamics between sex, love, and power. We explore art, literature, theory, and philosophy, often in the context of our own BDSM-based female-led relationship. The…