This is the first of two episodes in which we discuss death, grief, and loss. It's been a big theme in both of our lives, and maybe yours, too. We define Pain Tour, Death Weirdo, and Grief Brain- all terms we've coined over the years. We talk about how we cope and get through it. We make jokes. We references 80's and 90's music.  This episode is dedicated to Bill Oglesby, Bob and Margie Bell, Madelyn Noel, Christine Ambrose, and Addison Holl.